Do girls you like want nothing to do with you?

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31 Aug 2008, 3:48 pm

1. That's a wiki article that hasn't been altered in over a year.
2. The article only talks about the size of the brain, not the activity and usage of the brain which can be read by more advanced MRI machines as I was discussing.


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31 Aug 2008, 3:50 pm

^^ oh mind me! not everyone has access to such super advanced MRI scanners.



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31 Aug 2008, 3:55 pm

Carnegie Mellon University and University of Pittsburgh Medical Center both call me in to do testing. CMU builds NASA robots and UPMC is one of the nation's leading medical centers, they have enormous complexes built all over the city. I wouldn't call it "access" though, I'm just the lab rat.


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31 Aug 2008, 4:04 pm

^and how can you be sure about the meaning of these MRI results and the research is still at the very beginning?

http://www.autismvox.com/another-test-t ... m-earlier/ by Kristina Chew, PhD on August 19th, 2008

an interesting quote:

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Aug 19, 2008 at 4:39 pm

When I see pictures of other kids with autism, I’m sometimes struck by the resemblance to my boys: giant heads, long eye-lashes, generally angelic look (okay, the last one is probably mommy-bias, I admit).
One of my sons had an abnormal MRI and the other didn’t, although they are identical twins. Go figure.


She's right ....go figure!



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31 Aug 2008, 10:59 pm

ImTheGuyThatDidThat wrote:
But another thing is i sometimes dont want anything
to do with a girl i really like because i`m sure she
would be better off without me and could do better.
It feels right but oh so bad also, painful


man i get so annoyed when i hear this line... to me it feels disrespectful, like you/the other party has decided for me how i should feel about them and has already predetermined the course our interaction will take like my feelings count for nothing... and based on what..? your feelings of self-doubt and insecurity that you're not good enough and you're not willing to face and even try to overcome? why does it feel right to you? because you think you're doing her a favour?

sorry this isn't a personal attack on you... but just a pattern i've seen over and over again... where people with low self-esteem attempt to justify their reasons for inaction... trying to hide their fear behind a self-sacrificing act hoping to fool themselves into believing they're a bigger person or whatever... you're not really doing anyone a favour in the end by thinking this way... and it hurts the other person too you know?



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31 Aug 2008, 11:11 pm

^I'm going to concur. I always just go for it, on the other hand I may be a bit direct at times, but it's better that sitting at home and wondering "what if" or just pretending like you do know. I've been rejected so many times I'm almost completely indifferent to it now. I'd be worried if I wasn't a bit disappointed but I don't let it get me depressed anymore and I don't let it slow me down.


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31 Aug 2008, 11:54 pm

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I dunno is it pickier if they THEY ARE into total meatheads with big arms and u know buffer guys?

I hate the way the world works it'd be nicer if everyone even medicore ppl had a shot with hotter babes but I guess thats not how the world works and it sucks but o well

every hot blond ive liked seem to like a diff guy tht looks nothing like me :(
People expect their significant other to put in as much effort in terms of appearance that they do. The hot girls look good because they put time and effort into looking good and odds are they want someone who also puts time and effort into their appearance, such as a buff guy.



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03 Sep 2008, 10:56 am

I live near an army base- all the guys are prime, the extreme wonder of the human being. Strong, fit, cute, etc.etc.etc.

As I have stated, I am not obsessed with looks. Yes, I have dated some of them and they are fun wonders. I have also dated civilians who were kind and challenging.

BUT what makes me laugh into tears is when some dorky guy comes along and says,"Why can't I get the hot chicks?" Uh- there are 58,000 walking gods around this town. If you want to get a hot chick, you have to make yourself hotter than they are. And have better benefits. And have more energy. And have more courage, strength, fearlessness, and valor.

Guys that whine that they can't get hot chicks better take a good look in the mirror. Gone are the days when women NEED men. Good social order men tried to inflict on us when they made it so we HAD to have one to hang onto or go into prostitution. Divorce impossible, work prohibited, and singleness reserved for nuns alone. In ancient Rome, celibacy was against the law!

So it won't be hard to attract someone- just work out 7 days a week, get a great job, make yourself very interesting, and do all this without being self centered!

Uh, good luck!!



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03 Sep 2008, 11:12 am

Sorenna wrote:
So it won't be hard to attract someone- just work out 7 days a week, get a great job, make yourself very interesting, and do all this without being self centered!

Uh, good luck!!
Sheesh you don't ask for much do you! I notice a great personality wasn't on your list, and how do you "make yourself very interesting"? Perhaps you should give out a list of things that a guy should know before he can be considered "very interesting" :lol: Has it never occurred to you that some people will find others interesting that you do not?

I love the way people go around stating who's hot and who's not like it's a fact :roll: it's ONLY YOUR OPINION NOT A FACT!

It's clear you have very strict and rigid criteria of what a man should be worked out well before you even get to know him - good luck with that. :wink:

I hope nobody is taking this thread very seriously I'm not :D


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03 Sep 2008, 1:15 pm

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I hope nobody is taking this thread very seriously I'm not :D

I don't take anything online very seriously. :roll:



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03 Sep 2008, 1:16 pm

intense wrote:
Sorenna wrote:
So it won't be hard to attract someone- just work out 7 days a week, get a great job, make yourself very interesting, and do all this without being self centered!

Uh, good luck!!
Sheesh you don't ask for much do you! I notice a great personality wasn't on your list, and how do you "make yourself very interesting"?

It's clear you have very strict and rigid criteria of what a man should be worked out well before you even get to know him - good luck with that. :wink:


On the plus side, is it worth dating a frivolous airhead in the first place?


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03 Sep 2008, 1:31 pm

Sorenna wrote:
I live near an army base- all the guys are prime, the extreme wonder of the human being. Strong, fit, cute, etc.etc.etc.

As I have stated, I am not obsessed with looks. Yes, I have dated some of them and they are fun wonders. I have also dated civilians who were kind and challenging.

BUT what makes me laugh into tears is when some dorky guy comes along and says,"Why can't I get the hot chicks?" Uh- there are 58,000 walking gods around this town. If you want to get a hot chick, you have to make yourself hotter than they are. And have better benefits. And have more energy. And have more courage, strength, fearlessness, and valor.

Guys that whine that they can't get hot chicks better take a good look in the mirror. Gone are the days when women NEED men. Good social order men tried to inflict on us when they made it so we HAD to have one to hang onto or go into prostitution. Divorce impossible, work prohibited, and singleness reserved for nuns alone. In ancient Rome, celibacy was against the law!

So it won't be hard to attract someone- just work out 7 days a week, get a great job, make yourself very interesting, and do all this without being self centered


Uh, good luck!!


Seriously.....are you on the spectrum? According to your few posts and to your other thread I can estimate that you had no trouble in dating hundred of guys during your life time ...I am just curious,how old are you? Based on what I saw here, that's a record even for a grown-up aspie woman.

Your profile shows "Diagnosed" but I am like you in one thing .....i don't take anything online seriously ;).



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03 Sep 2008, 2:15 pm

LePetitPrince wrote:
Sorenna wrote:
I live near an army base- all the guys are prime, the extreme wonder of the human being. Strong, fit, cute, etc.etc.etc.

As I have stated, I am not obsessed with looks. Yes, I have dated some of them and they are fun wonders. I have also dated civilians who were kind and challenging.

BUT what makes me laugh into tears is when some dorky guy comes along and says,"Why can't I get the hot chicks?" Uh- there are 58,000 walking gods around this town. If you want to get a hot chick, you have to make yourself hotter than they are. And have better benefits. And have more energy. And have more courage, strength, fearlessness, and valor.

Guys that whine that they can't get hot chicks better take a good look in the mirror. Gone are the days when women NEED men. Good social order men tried to inflict on us when they made it so we HAD to have one to hang onto or go into prostitution. Divorce impossible, work prohibited, and singleness reserved for nuns alone. In ancient Rome, celibacy was against the law!

So it won't be hard to attract someone- just work out 7 days a week, get a great job, make yourself very interesting, and do all this without being self centered


Uh, good luck!!


Seriously.....are you on the spectrum? According to your few posts and to your other thread I can estimate that you had no trouble in dating hundred of guys during your life time ...I am just curious,how old are you? Based on what I saw here, that's a record even for a grown-up aspie woman.

Your profile shows "Diagnosed" but I am like you in one thing .....i don't take anything online seriously ;).


Le Prince being in america ive noticed that a lot of army guy's tend to be dating a lot of ugly fatties even though there quite good looking there standards aren't exactly super high especially around bases, where they maybe transfering all the time.

IMO wealthy attractive people seem to get the highest quality women and army men aren't even near the top period because there usually NOT very wealthy at all an there standards are really low since they can't committ much from movig around a lot

I don't believe shes gettin much long term relationships from the army guys she prolly sleeps with a different one every weekend no real relationships an the guys are desperate since they cant setup a longterm relationship and don't have a lot of wealth so they go for ugly fat aspies like her



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03 Sep 2008, 6:49 pm

Sorenna wrote:
intense wrote:
I hope nobody is taking this thread very seriously I'm not :D

I don't take anything online very seriously. :roll:


After reading half of what ProtossX wrote, I'm starting to think that he possibly can't be serious. he's better as a comedian.


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03 Sep 2008, 10:10 pm

Precisely today I noticed that the last three women I have been interested in happen to be way more intelligent than me. I suppose they thought I wasn't up to their level.



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03 Sep 2008, 11:59 pm

Sorenna wrote:
I live near an army base- all the guys are prime, the extreme wonder of the human being. Strong, fit, cute, etc.etc.etc.

As I have stated, I am not obsessed with looks. Yes, I have dated some of them and they are fun wonders. I have also dated civilians who were kind and challenging.

BUT what makes me laugh into tears is when some dorky guy comes along and says,"Why can't I get the hot chicks?" Uh- there are 58,000 walking gods around this town. If you want to get a hot chick, you have to make yourself hotter than they are. And have better benefits. And have more energy. And have more courage, strength, fearlessness, and valor.

Guys that whine that they can't get hot chicks better take a good look in the mirror. Gone are the days when women NEED men. Good social order men tried to inflict on us when they made it so we HAD to have one to hang onto or go into prostitution. Divorce impossible, work prohibited, and singleness reserved for nuns alone. In ancient Rome, celibacy was against the law!

So it won't be hard to attract someone- just work out 7 days a week, get a great job, make yourself very interesting, and do all this without being self centered!

Uh, good luck!!



I see, so to attract an Aspie girl like you guys should build up their muscles? I find it very *curious* that you're so focused on a mans physical strength than say his intelligence or social skills or artistic talent. What I find most *remarkable* is that this is coming from an ASPIE GIRL! 8O Women who think that the idea of a "Stud man" is some burly GI Joe are pretty low class AFAIC
, just like fratboys who want blondes with big boobs. Its very primitive, because as modern technology advances, brute strength is no longer needed for most jobs and the ONLY jobs that pay big bucks to guys like that are sports and entertainment.
The wealthiest men in this world AND the men with the most amount of (political and social)power are certainly NOT the biggest and strongest!I remember a picture of some buff guy lifting weights in a book titled Sex on Campus and the caption read: "primary candidate for a date or a rupture?" :lol: