Do Aspies have the same sexual drive as NTs?

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Eccaba
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19 Feb 2009, 11:59 pm

I have an extremely high sex drive. I think I think about it as much and probably more than most men out there. The frustrating thing is I can't do anything about it. I know men are interested in sleeping with me, but I just can't bare wasting my time with stupid people. This always seems to be a sticking point too. I really need a fair amount of mental foreplay. I mean, intelligent sex with a real connection is so much more interesting than generic boring sex. On the other hand though, I'm not necessarily big into the idea of a serious dating, spending every second of our lives together kind of deal either. Its amazing too, when I am getting laid, which is rare, all my friends suddenly start commenting about how much nicer and happier I seem. Sexual frustration. Sigh.

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20 Feb 2009, 2:42 am

Very high sexual drive/motor... but does not express in what is considered typical fashion; only exhibits with the right partner.

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20 Feb 2009, 11:12 am

Well I don't know about "NT's" but mine is quite high

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20 Feb 2009, 11:23 am

socalaspie wrote:

BellaDonna wrote:

I don't have orgasm as quickly with sex as I do masturbation but when I have orgasm with sex is wonderful. Is there anything better :twisted:

I orgasm the quickest with oral sex, second masturbation, third penetrative sex - not always but when I do it is the best.
I can't wait to go on my next date.

Honestly I don't know why society can't come out and say that women NEED oral to climax. It is so obvious biologically speaking. But there is still an unwritten rule that it is "inferior" to intercourse. But as an Aspie, I am pretty much unaffected by unwritten rules.

I can very honestly say that I look forward to performing oral on my future wife more than any other aspect of sexuality.

Because it's not true for everyone, so thus women in general don't need it. My wife (and other GF's) have gotten off quite fine by just being on top to finish.

I wouldn't mind finishing in a woman's mouth now and again, but since almost no women go for that, I certainly don't need it.

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20 Feb 2009, 11:28 am

^ They don't? I thought that was a given

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23 Feb 2009, 11:24 am

earlyer i had no sex drive at all, now i am opposite

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23 Feb 2009, 1:02 pm

asperger27 wrote:

earlyer i had no sex drive at all, now i am opposite

Earlier today?

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23 Feb 2009, 4:04 pm

I'm fairly confident that I have a very high sex drive, I think about it obsessively. I have since like kindergarten lol.

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23 Feb 2009, 5:06 pm

LucidDreamGod wrote:

I'm fairly confident that I have a very high sex drive, I think about it obsessively. I have since like kindergarten lol.

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23 Feb 2009, 5:13 pm

LucidDreamGod wrote:

I'm fairly confident that I have a very high sex drive, I think about it obsessively. I have since like kindergarten lol.

Yep, that's me lol.

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23 Feb 2009, 7:04 pm

Yeah during nap time if we were bad, I seem to remember the teachers used to have this thing were they'd come over and sit on are legs to keep us still. And I seem to remember like the idea of being tied up by a female at this point, and this seemed to be the closest way to get to it. Unfortunately I was a good kid, and didn't want my mommy to yell at me . But I kept wondering just how I could get in trouble so the teacher could hold me down. I also told her she had nice legs once.

I know, I'm weird, but I like it.

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23 Feb 2009, 7:11 pm

^ Excellent

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10 Jul 2009, 3:59 am

Eccaba wrote:

Excuse me, but do people like this really exist? A girl with a healthy sex drive, who craves mental stimulation before/during sex and intimate connection, yet doesn't want serious dating and is actually nicer to people after having sex. You're like the perfect FWB.

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10 Jul 2009, 10:27 pm

I dont think we have less I think about it a lot especially hoping not to be a virgin at 40.

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