Do women simply just dislike Aspie men?

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31 May 2020, 4:31 am

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I am not sure if this advice is ever given, but I think most women that have ever approached me did so because I was able to make them laugh. The humor should not insult or offend them, but it should be something they can relate to and understand so be sure it's not a niche topic. I mostly used self deprecating humor as a mask only because it came natural to me.


Well, look at you.
A guineapig in teenie weenie armour.
How could anyone take you seriously? :mrgreen:



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31 May 2020, 4:55 am

Pepe wrote:
blackicmenace wrote:
I am not sure if this advice is ever given, but I think most women that have ever approached me did so because I was able to make them laugh. The humor should not insult or offend them, but it should be something they can relate to and understand so be sure it's not a niche topic. I mostly used self deprecating humor as a mask only because it came natural to me.


Well, look at you.
A guineapig in teenie weenie armour.
How could anyone take you seriously? :mrgreen:


At least he's cute, not like my blobby face.



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31 May 2020, 4:58 am

Well I'm a talking hand made of petrifying code blocks, what do I know?


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31 May 2020, 5:06 am

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Well I'm a talking hand made of petrifying code blocks, what do I know?


thing?



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31 May 2020, 5:36 am

I see some of you don't get the potato thing...

IDK might just be a weird thing I came up with in my head. But the idea is a potato is someone who refuses to have a personality and just is...like they cannot even be swayed by love to open up a little they spend their days just being basic and never wanting to delve any deeper into life than that. Fuddy duddy, regular guy...bla bla bla. Its like a person who doesn't want to be a person.

And I suspect I cannot be the only girl with aspergers who wants someone different than that. I got someone different from that, he may not have aspergers but he's really cool, has a big passion for painting warhammer minatures he doesn't even play a lot of the warhammer games....but he paints absolutely amazing miniatures. Like I will take him and his less money any day rather than going with some fuddy duddy wealth hog who earned it all from their dad/family or whatever. Like I would rather be homeless on the streets with my boyfriend than date some fuddy duddy who's main feature is they have money.

But yes my definition of potato, when referring to a person is someone who just cannot see anything and just persists in their own way. Trump is a potato in the worst way, like if he would only open up his mind a little he might see the errors of his way, he might see that his way isn't working and something different needs to be tried. But so many people just want to make like a potato and bury them self in the ground simply hoping and praying worse things don't happen. Well news for you the world is crazy right now and stuff might just start happening, it might be very interesting in the coming months to see how the world presses forward. So sorry if it offends, but I am about to get out my popcorn and wait this out safe at home the popcorn is for when s**t starts going down so I can eat it while watching.


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31 May 2020, 5:59 am

We get it, we aspie guys are often potatoes.

While you aspie girls are cool chicken nuggets.



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31 May 2020, 6:00 am

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While you aspie girls are cool chicken nuggets.


Chicken fries....no fat shaming



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31 May 2020, 6:01 am

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Well news for you the world is crazy right now and stuff might just start happening, it might be very interesting in the coming months to see how the world presses forward. So sorry if it offends, but I am about to get out my popcorn and wait this out safe at home the popcorn is for when s**t starts going down so I can eat it while watching.


I've already joined you sister :wink:



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31 May 2020, 6:02 am

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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
While you aspie girls are cool chicken nuggets.


Chicken fries....no fat shaming


Chicken nuggets need mayo and hot sauce, not just boring tasteless potato you know. :p



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31 May 2020, 6:06 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
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While you aspie girls are cool chicken nuggets.


Chicken fries....no fat shaming


Chicken nuggets need mayo and hot sauce, not just boring tasteless potato you know. :p


You and I like our sauce spicy :wink:



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31 May 2020, 6:07 am

As Raleigh & I determined, my spirit vegetable is broccoli.


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31 May 2020, 6:09 am

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As Raleigh & I determined, my spirit vegetable is broccoli.

That comes with a beef steak!


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31 May 2020, 6:10 am

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As Raleigh & I determined, my spirit vegetable is broccoli.

That comes with a beef steak!


and mustard/cheese sauce



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31 May 2020, 6:13 am

I just took a quiz for my own spirit vegatable: https://farmbellyshop.com/pages/what-is ... -vegetable

Garlic.
I like it.


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31 May 2020, 6:20 am

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As Raleigh & I determined, my spirit vegetable is broccoli.

That comes with a beef steak!


My favorite sandwich in existence is fried cauliflower + tahini + vegetables.
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And with fried potato!



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31 May 2020, 6:25 am

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I just took a quiz for my own spirit vegatable: https://farmbellyshop.com/pages/what-is ... -vegetable

Garlic.
I like it.


I got onion.

I was disappointed that it wasn't potato.