Do women simply just dislike Aspie men?

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31 May 2020, 6:29 am

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There's a lot to love behind the many layers that make up a unique, subtly-sweet bulb of fennel. It takes some time to peel back those layers, but once this introverted veggie has time to open up, you'll find fennel is grounded, driven, and has a heart brimming with passion. Fennel thrives in the cooler weather during spring and fall, and you'll often find it soaking up the crisp air on long, meandering strolls outside. You don't come across fennel everyday, which makes this quietly confident vegetable all the more mysterious and memorable.


...okay then...


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31 May 2020, 7:13 am

Wolfram87 wrote:
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Fennel
There's a lot to love behind the many layers that make up a unique, subtly-sweet bulb of fennel. It takes some time to peel back those layers, but once this introverted veggie has time to open up, you'll find fennel is grounded, driven, and has a heart brimming with passion. Fennel thrives in the cooler weather during spring and fall, and you'll often find it soaking up the crisp air on long, meandering strolls outside. You don't come across fennel everyday, which makes this quietly confident vegetable all the more mysterious and memorable.


...okay then...


Apparently that’s two of us...

At least we’re a good source of potassium and fibre :D



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31 May 2020, 7:37 am

I'm a sugar snap pea. Green, sweet and slender :lol:
I love them.


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31 May 2020, 8:42 am

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I still maintain the idea that us aspie women just want something more than a potato. Like you have to at least have a personality aside from...' I am nice potato date meeeeee!' because a lot of times those nice potatoes turn out to be bad potatoes. LIke if you have an S.O and you ignore them constantly for games or basement time or whatever...they will leave. You are probably a potato if the gf leaves due to neglect and you never spending time with her, because you are always in a game or have some other excuse why you cannot spend any time with them. Then finally the girl leaves and some guys are like...'whaaaa i only just barley got acknowledged here while doing a 7 day video game binge, the least she could do is stick around and have sex whenever i feel like it.'

Its like no, sorry potato but you don't just get to get connections with people, end said connections by ignoring people and then b***h when a female acquaintance from the days of old just simply doesn't want to have sex with you, because you turned up after they moved on. LIke don't be a potato if you are in a LTR, both people need to participate a lot to make an long term relationship work...if one of you is a potato it doesn't work. LIke seriously both people have to participate or it ends in a divorce.


Exactly.
Relationships take effort and maturity.
We aren’t a coin operated machine that you can just put coins in whenever and get sex and admiration whenever it’s convenient.
Many of the inexperienced people I’ve dated don’t seem to understand the reciprocal nature of relationships.

I feel like I’ll never find a dude that will give me the right balance. I always feel like the more competent partner and I’d rather not be a teacher anymore. I’m sick of people that haven’t reached their potential. Can’t I just find one that’s done that already? :roll:


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31 May 2020, 8:50 am

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We get it, we aspie guys are often potatoes.

While you aspie girls are cool chicken nuggets.


Excuse me, I am a delicious carrot: full of vitamin A and good for the eyes! And if you get too much of me, it’s poisonous. :twisted:


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31 May 2020, 9:07 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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As Raleigh & I determined, my spirit vegetable is broccoli.

That comes with a beef steak!


My favorite sandwich in existence is fried cauliflower + tahini + vegetables.
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And with fried potato!


Of course, it is. :eew: :wink:



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31 May 2020, 9:08 am

Karamazov wrote:
Wolfram87 wrote:
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Fennel
There's a lot to love behind the many layers that make up a unique, subtly-sweet bulb of fennel. It takes some time to peel back those layers, but once this introverted veggie has time to open up, you'll find fennel is grounded, driven, and has a heart brimming with passion. Fennel thrives in the cooler weather during spring and fall, and you'll often find it soaking up the crisp air on long, meandering strolls outside. You don't come across fennel everyday, which makes this quietly confident vegetable all the more mysterious and memorable.


...okay then...


Apparently that’s two of us...

At least we’re a good source of potassium and fibre :D


I’m another member of the fennel club, apparently.


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31 May 2020, 9:11 am

I'm a fennel who really likes broccoli.


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31 May 2020, 9:14 am

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I just took a quiz for my own spirit vegatable: https://farmbellyshop.com/pages/what-is ... -vegetable

Garlic.
I like it.


That was remarkably easy.
Means absolutely nothing, though I wouldn't call it a waste of time.
"Silly" is the word I would use.

I'm Fennel, btw.
Big whoop. :mrgreen:



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31 May 2020, 9:29 am

Wolfram87 wrote:
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Fennel
There's a lot to love behind the many layers that make up a unique, subtly-sweet bulb of fennel. It takes some time to peel back those layers, but once this introverted veggie has time to open up, you'll find fennel is grounded, driven, and has a heart brimming with passion. Fennel thrives in the cooler weather during spring and fall, and you'll often find it soaking up the crisp air on long, meandering strolls outside. You don't come across fennel everyday, which makes this quietly confident vegetable all the more mysterious and memorable.


...okay then...


Fellow fennel here.

I'll settle for being "mysterious and memorable."


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31 May 2020, 11:10 am

martianprincess wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
I still maintain the idea that us aspie women just want something more than a potato. Like you have to at least have a personality aside from...' I am nice potato date meeeeee!' because a lot of times those nice potatoes turn out to be bad potatoes. LIke if you have an S.O and you ignore them constantly for games or basement time or whatever...they will leave. You are probably a potato if the gf leaves due to neglect and you never spending time with her, because you are always in a game or have some other excuse why you cannot spend any time with them. Then finally the girl leaves and some guys are like...'whaaaa i only just barley got acknowledged here while doing a 7 day video game binge, the least she could do is stick around and have sex whenever i feel like it.'

Its like no, sorry potato but you don't just get to get connections with people, end said connections by ignoring people and then b***h when a female acquaintance from the days of old just simply doesn't want to have sex with you, because you turned up after they moved on. LIke don't be a potato if you are in a LTR, both people need to participate a lot to make an long term relationship work...if one of you is a potato it doesn't work. LIke seriously both people have to participate or it ends in a divorce.


Exactly.
Relationships take effort and maturity.
We aren’t a coin operated machine that you can just put coins in whenever and get sex and admiration whenever it’s convenient.
Many of the inexperienced people I’ve dated don’t seem to understand the reciprocal nature of relationships.

I feel like I’ll never find a dude that will give me the right balance. I always feel like the more competent partner and I’d rather not be a teacher anymore. I’m sick of people that haven’t reached their potential. Can’t I just find one that’s done that already? :roll:



Just marry a concombre, Miss carrot.



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31 May 2020, 11:14 am

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Many of the inexperienced people I’ve dated don’t seem to understand the reciprocal nature of relationships.

I feel like I’ll never find a dude that will give me the right balance. I always feel like the more competent partner and I’d rather not be a teacher anymore. I’m sick of people that haven’t reached their potential. Can’t I just find one that’s done that already? :roll:


Been there, need the tshirt.


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31 May 2020, 11:29 am

How cute of you 3 ladies implying that aspie men are emotionless, hobby addict, and neglecting jerks.... and just lifeless potatoes.



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31 May 2020, 11:32 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
How cute of you 3 ladies implying that aspie men are emotionless, hobby addict, and neglecting jerks.... and just lifeless potatoes.


They're not saying we're all potatoes, but I can understand why the potatoes might be offended to discover that their personalities aren't interesting enough to be considered as partners.


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31 May 2020, 11:33 am

funeralxempire wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
How cute of you 3 ladies implying that aspie men are emotionless, hobby addict, and neglecting jerks.... and just lifeless potatoes.


They're not saying we're all potatoes, but I can understand why the potatoes might be offended to discover that their personalities aren't interesting enough to be considered as partners.



Yes they did; and it started by this big racist loser.
Racists are always Ableists too.



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31 May 2020, 11:37 am

Oh you’re implying I am a potato funeral?
But of course; you always want to wear your white knight armor.