Sweetleaf wrote:
I still maintain the idea that us aspie women just want something more than a potato. Like you have to at least have a personality aside from...' I am nice potato date meeeeee!' because a lot of times those nice potatoes turn out to be bad potatoes. LIke if you have an S.O and you ignore them constantly for games or basement time or whatever...they will leave. You are probably a potato if the gf leaves due to neglect and you never spending time with her, because you are always in a game or have some other excuse why you cannot spend any time with them. Then finally the girl leaves and some guys are like...'whaaaa i only just barley got acknowledged here while doing a 7 day video game binge, the least she could do is stick around and have sex whenever i feel like it.'
Its like no, sorry potato but you don't just get to get connections with people, end said connections by ignoring people and then b***h when a female acquaintance from the days of old just simply doesn't want to have sex with you, because you turned up after they moved on. LIke don't be a potato if you are in a LTR, both people need to participate a lot to make an long term relationship work...if one of you is a potato it doesn't work. LIke seriously both people have to participate or it ends in a divorce.
Exactly.
Relationships take effort and maturity.
We aren’t a coin operated machine that you can just put coins in whenever and get sex and admiration whenever it’s convenient.
Many of the inexperienced people I’ve dated don’t seem to understand the reciprocal nature of relationships.
I feel like I’ll never find a dude that will give me the right balance. I always feel like the more competent partner and I’d rather not be a teacher anymore. I’m sick of people that haven’t reached their potential. Can’t I just find one that’s done that already?
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