hurtloam wrote:
cberg wrote:
You don't. We need to transition from an image based society to basically anything more substantial.
It's not the lack of image, or not dressing right or doing your hair right that puts women off. It's the passivity, the lack of confidence, the boring conversation, the lack of affection, the obsessions, the lack of communication, the mixed up communication, the lack of executive functioning skills.
Women want a partner, not someone to take care of.I'm generalising. There are responsible aspie men out there, but looks are the least of some blokes worries.
As a male, I don't have a problem with looking after my partner.
Some men are rather protective.
Women have been influenced by evolution in looking for a provider for themselves and their offspring.
Not all, but it is in the background.
This is part of the reason why many women are prepared to be with someone not quite in their physical league if they are a good provider.
This is a guide, not a generalisation.