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Seanmw
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15 Sep 2009, 2:14 am

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I am glad that people are starting to think this dude is ok. We cant help who we fall for.

Dude(sorry i don't no you name) keep doing what you are doing. I support you 100%

lett me know how it goes
more so in my other thread particularly. i guess people in The Haven were both just more inclined to be sympathetic and doubly more inclined to read beyond the part where i explained the age gap haha :lol:

but thanks :)
might be easier to keep you up to date and/or tell you how it goes if you had a myspace or facebook though.
i go on those more often. and its just easier to keep in touch with and keep track of my friends that way.

wouldn't happen to have one would you?


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15 Sep 2009, 2:46 am

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i think he was giving a drastic example to stress his point that he feels there needs to be reconsideration and possible re-evaluation of the stringent absolutism of select laws and the archaic ideals they forcefully impose on a swiftly changing societal culture and people at large.

I don't think there is a need to reconsider this laws. It's not like there are so many women living with this big regret that they had sex at 16 and not at 14 or 12. I haven't met one yet. So, if (adult) women think it's not a good idea to have sex at 14, why are men so keen to give girls the right to consent to sex with adults? It feels like open season to easy pray to me :( .

P.S. I'm not talking about your particular situation.



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15 Sep 2009, 3:41 am

laura123 wrote:
Seanmw wrote:
i think he was giving a drastic example to stress his point that he feels there needs to be reconsideration and possible re-evaluation of the stringent absolutism of select laws and the archaic ideals they forcefully impose on a swiftly changing societal culture and people at large.

I don't think there is a need to reconsider this laws. It's not like there are so many women living with this big regret that they had sex at 16 and not at 14 or 12. I haven't met one yet. So, if (adult) women think it's not a good idea to have sex at 14, why are men so keen to give girls the right to consent to sex with adults? It feels like open season to easy pray to me :( .

P.S. I'm not talking about your particular situation.
have to take that up with the other guy. i was just trying to explain what i thought he might be saying.


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15 Sep 2009, 4:21 am

laura123 wrote:
Seanmw wrote:
i think he was giving a drastic example to stress his point that he feels there needs to be reconsideration and possible re-evaluation of the stringent absolutism of select laws and the archaic ideals they forcefully impose on a swiftly changing societal culture and people at large.

I don't think there is a need to reconsider this laws. It's not like there are so many women living with this big regret that they had sex at 16 and not at 14 or 12. I haven't met one yet. So, if (adult) women think it's not a good idea to have sex at 14, why are men so keen to give girls the right to consent to sex with adults? It feels like open season to easy pray to me :( .

P.S. I'm not talking about your particular situation.

Actually there are a lot of teens who deputs on sex at the age 13-14, it's just that the parents don't know. ;)


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15 Sep 2009, 4:57 am

Silvervarg wrote:
laura123 wrote:
Seanmw wrote:
i think he was giving a drastic example to stress his point that he feels there needs to be reconsideration and possible re-evaluation of the stringent absolutism of select laws and the archaic ideals they forcefully impose on a swiftly changing societal culture and people at large.

I don't think there is a need to reconsider this laws. It's not like there are so many women living with this big regret that they had sex at 16 and not at 14 or 12. I haven't met one yet. So, if (adult) women think it's not a good idea to have sex at 14, why are men so keen to give girls the right to consent to sex with adults? It feels like open season to easy pray to me :( .

P.S. I'm not talking about your particular situation.

Actually there are a lot of teens who deputs on sex at the age 13-14, it's just that the parents don't know. ;)
actually come to think of it, yeah, i know plenty of people who had sex at an early age with absolutely nothing bad resulting from it. girls and guys alike. some are my best friends even.

silvervarg, your revelation has just reminded me why i might not have thought it was a big deal.


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15 Sep 2009, 11:06 am

Any time. ;)


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