Signs of the "not potential partner"-zone.

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didn't read the thread, but (from my own experiences with girls both who didn't care about me "like that" and those who do)

1) my girlfriend does this all the time. Invalid.

2) This is solid for girls who you are not currently past 1st base on. If there's a girl who you've been with who does this, it might be the result of her "indirectly" telling you what she finds attractive, or what she thinks could make YOU more attractive. Pay attention to this either way.

3) meh at this, I guess I see what you mean, though.

4) This is also solid if you haven't done anything before. As a corollary, if a girl goes out of her way to turn a "alone" activity into a group activity, just give up.

5) Bullcrap. I am 22, my girlfriend of 2 years is 25.

6) This is true for anyone, really. Religion is one of those things that is a lot more important to "match" on that most people think.

7) I thought Aspies didn't really like popular people? This might just be my personal bias, though. It's a valid point either way.

This is again true for most cases. If you are poor, you should be worrying a LOT more about making money than finding partners.

9) Amazingly true. A girl who likes you as more than an "emotional tampon" will talk to you by choice a lot more often. If this isn't the case, but you're willing to listen to her problems, holy s**t watch out. If the latter, I highly recommend not talking to her at all.

I'm a bit drunk so take this advice as you will. OP is pretty solid but a bit misguided in spots imo.

I always notice with me that girls tend to like me, but they always say "I will find someone", or that "I'll make a girl happy someday" as someone once told me a while ago. What good are those comments when they are talking about someone else. That's how I know I have no chance with someone, when they talk to me about finding someone ELSE and not them.

Nope, if you read all of what I wrote instead of cherry-picking, that's clearly not it.



That's quite obviously not it either.



That's sort of close. It's not her fear that makes lying ok, it's the well-substantiated facts of the ubiquity of male-on-female violence in our society. Her safety and her best efforts to stay alive are far more important than some cranky dude's fee-fees. If you don't like that, take it up with the guys who wreck it for the rest of you by being violent.



Quite obviously not. You're just being silly here.



And that makes you one of the very scary creepy guys that women should be suspicious of. Thinking your feelings are more important than another's attempts to just survive makes you a pretty nasty character.



Wow, that is one of the most beautiful examples of "this guy is bad news -- stay away" that I've ever seen.

Sheesh guys, learn to read, or read up on what a strawman logical fallacy is. C'mon, we're Aspies here, not committing logical fallacies comes easier to us than to anybody.

LOL,