Qualities you DON'T want in a guy/girl?

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Do not want:

-Too clingy
-Too distant
-Abusive (emotionally, physically, etc.)
-Criminal record (I don't want to have the police at my house every night.)
-Ignorant
-Cheaters
-Liars (I can't read you, so be honest dammit!)
-Slacker

I'll post more if I want to.

That rules out everybody.

Curses! Foiled again by my own standards. D:

I'm sure you really mean "ignorant beyond a certain level of tolerability." That was just my weird humor.

Pretty much. Being racist and homophobic for no reason other than to boost one's self esteem is also a major turn-off for me. D:

I don't care, as long as they aren't one certain thing which I cannot say. Most of the people on this forum do not fit that.

must not do illegal drugs

should not be excessively religious

must not be a Twilight fan

has to be close to my political beliefs

Some of these lists are ridiculous. Pretty much listing every bad human attribute imaginable.

Some of the attributes aren't even bad per se; for example, "Atheist."


Still, I didn't bother making a list, because try as I might, I would never be able to base my relationships on a set of pre-fabricated rules.

bossiness, closed-mindedness, judgemental

Talks too much

Wants sex to get whatever she wants

Is a Twilight fan

Is a Miley Cyrus/Jonas Brothers fan

Has a criminal record

Uses recreational drugs

1. Thin -- deprives herself of food because she cares a lot about having people admire her.
2. Politically liberal
3. Suffering from contagious diseases that she refuses to have treated
4. Dislikes sex -- doesn't have orgasms
5. Can't or won't talk about intellectual activities such as literature, science or history.
6. No sense of humor -- is a harradan
7. Top-heavy.
8. Is made of licorice
9. Uses drugs or abuses alcohol.

Wow..

I think I need to raise my expectations or think more about what I do not want.
Mine not list is kinda short compared to some here.

1. Dead
2. A silverback
3. Old (as in older than me or old acting - different from mature to me)
4. Racist (I think that is kind of something most would say, so not usre if it should need to be listed)
5. Over indulgent (if that makes sense)

What's a silverback?

Why is living with parents always a deal breaker for some people? What happens if there is a valid reason for doing so?

I am laughing so hard.. thanks..
I came up with my own term, like I do with sooo many things.

Some call them Alpha Males..

(I think this may be a good picture to compare - probably is because does nothing for me, and looks like a silverback to me)




When I see that, or ones like that or hear them speaking.. - I picture and hear something closer to this





I know I shouldn't, that it really is cruel comparing a male Silverback Gorilla
to an alpha human male..
The Silverback Gorilla is an amazing animal,
but try as I might, I still picture so called alpha males like that (maybe different clothing depending on the alpha in question)

So, yea probably the only way I am cruel to animals