The angry virgin thread

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well, i can't speak for other women (though i did notice one woman stated that she didn't mind that a man in his late-30s was a virgin when she was with him). so i do not know how other women feel really - perhaps someone could start a thread and ask if virginity is a turn-off?

but i can speak for myself. i feel like i should clarify anyways, as my encouragement in another thread went haywire. this seems like a good place to speak up about it. in order to explain, i will have to talk about stuff that could be construed as boastful, so if you don't want to hear it, by all means stop reading.

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still here? ok then... so, back in the day when i was single, i really enjoyed being with virginal men. A LOT. mostly it was men who were my boyfriends or friends, but there were a couple of acquaintances in there too. there was something incredibly beautiful and special about being with a man as he crossed over that line. i was the person who introduced them to sex, and that was an awesome feeling. i remember that time with a great deal of fondness. and so did they.

i am not going to say how many virgins there were, but the number was greater than 1 and lower than the number a muslim martyr would receive in heaven. suffice it to say it was not a rare occasion.

please note that i also slept with experienced men, so it wasn't like i could only "get" inexperienced men. there was plenty of variety that way. i also had a lot of rejection, just like any other human being. i "struck out" a lot when it was me initiating something.

further... i AM a 39 year-old, middle-aged, fat, married woman and yet... i STILL have no shortage of offers. and some of those men would be considered very hot indeed. in *some* situations, sex can be easy for women to obtain. but that isn't all that they usually want, so it is quite irrelevant.

i think that perhaps it would be a good idea if people didn't make sweeping generalizations or assumptions that arise from such an angry place inside, because those ideas will usually be highly inaccurate.

I don't find it shameful to be a virgin, though I have been ridiculed to death over it by many people. I want my first to have some meaning to it, y'know?

I'm not angry for not getting laid, I'm just angry. Rawr.

All right. What the hell. This thread was more dead than the hearts of the people who had posted in it. I guess people just like my stuff.

Even though this is now the zombie angry virgin thread I would ask that if it were to continue, keep it F***ING ANGRY!

Boo gets it, I played that game for like two hours straight, addictive.

I have to post this reminder because I see something like this. WHAT THE F**K IS THIS SH*T?

Oh, ok. Well can we express anger about being dateless here?

I'm angry that I'm nearing 26 years of age & never have experienced a French kiss let alone sex. Every girl I try to chat up's always taken/unavailable & I absolutely hate public displays of affection. I sometimes wonder if I'll ever experience some romance in my life. I hate it when it's a nice day outside & I have to endure couples enjoying each other & practically rubbing it in my face that it sucks to be me.

Ive been extremely, extremely lucky and had a good looking girl who was one year younger than me stay at a vacation house with us for a week because our dads where friends, and she happened to like the way I looked, and I happened to be in the environment I was most comfortable in, and the result was the best week Ive ever had in my 17 year long life.

But, I am still a virgin. I should have done it then. But I didn't. There has been a few other situations where I probably could have had sex, but this is only in hiensite.

I'm not so much angry about not having sex, as much as depressed that nobody would love me to the point that they'd want to have sex...