primaloath wrote:
One thing that struck me is that little of what you wrote describes how you would act in a relationship. You mention a lot of your personal interests, and you would presumably be able to engage someone through them, but you don't quite say how. For instance, do you like to comment on the films you have seen? Do you enjoy the idea of quietly watching the films with someone?
I think (though I have never used a dating site in my life) that it would help a potential lover to get a sense of how you would spend time together.
Off-topic, though, as far as working in academia is concerned, you seriously need a good back-up plan in case you fail to get tenure. Something with applications in industry will be particularly useful. I don't say this from experience, though, as I am just about to start a PhD myself; I have simply read a number of very relevant statistics and stories (PM me if you would like links).
Jono,
I agree with Primaloath's comment about expounding upon what type of relationship you seek and the qualities you seek in a viable romantic match.
End of the day, please consider being as direct and explicit as you can in describing who you are (attitudes, interests, hobbies), what type of relationship you seek, what qualities you value in a viable romantic match, etc. After all, isn't the shortest distance between two points a straight line?
Good luck!