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14 Nov 2010, 4:20 pm

then you're not gonna get anywhere, you can't expect the world to simply conform to your demands because you want them too
I have seen it all to much here, you will realize this one day-or not, and will be miserable forever

I didn't want to get rid of the things I liked, and you know what I took a leap of faith, dressed more normally (though still kept my own individuality in my clothes), yes I kept my hair long but I wash it once a day(when I shower) and rinse it again at the end of the day, and of course talked to people, people who had similar interests
and I've made some great friends, and had some really fun experiences
there is high and low times but my progression in the past year has been really well, and it took me awhile to learn this, but I learned and I am happy
you aren't listening to anything-just whining, wanting everything and offering nothing



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14 Nov 2010, 5:13 pm

Why do you want to get a girl?



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14 Nov 2010, 5:32 pm

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Why do you want to get a girl?


Uh.. let see..



Because I'm a straight man? Because I'm lonely? Because I have urges? Wtf kinda of question was that.



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14 Nov 2010, 5:33 pm

I think he (or she) wanted a more indepth answer then that



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14 Nov 2010, 5:52 pm

Kilroy wrote:
then you're not gonna get anywhere, you can't expect the world to simply conform to your demands because you want them too
I have seen it all to much here, you will realize this one day-or not, and will be miserable forever

I didn't want to get rid of the things I liked, and you know what I took a leap of faith, dressed more normally (though still kept my own individuality in my clothes), yes I kept my hair long but I wash it once a day(when I shower) and rinse it again at the end of the day, and of course talked to people, people who had similar interests
and I've made some great friends, and had some really fun experiences
there is high and low times but my progression in the past year has been really well, and it took me awhile to learn this, but I learned and I am happy
you aren't listening to anything-just whining, wanting everything and offering nothing


I think some of you people need to go back and read though the thread. I've tried this stuff already in the past. It might work for a few weeks, but after they get to know you and how you act they start to treat you the same as everyone else. It's pointless and hopeless. They will never accept me.



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14 Nov 2010, 5:54 pm

fine, then we can just say "we told you so"
but we are not gonna sit here, and coddle you while you whine constantly about not having a girlfriend because you gave up!



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14 Nov 2010, 5:56 pm

Kilroy wrote:
I think he (or she) wanted a more indepth answer then that


What do you mean "more indepth" ? What other reasons would a person want to have a girlfriend, significant other, etc.



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14 Nov 2010, 5:58 pm

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why blame them, your the one who's cripplingly insecure


If I am it's because people have made me that way


I agree with you. People have made me bitter because they treated me like crap. I'm now only nice to certain people and if they deserve it. Before people get on my case about what I agreed with, understand this: I am not responsible for other peoples opinions about me.



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14 Nov 2010, 5:59 pm

MR20 wrote:
Kilroy wrote:
I think he (or she) wanted a more indepth answer then that


What do you mean "more indepth" ? What other reasons would a person want to have a girlfriend, significant other, etc.

you'd be surprised, but its pointless talking to you, you refuse to listen to reason



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14 Nov 2010, 6:01 pm

Kilroy wrote:
MR20 wrote:
Kilroy wrote:
I think he (or she) wanted a more indepth answer then that


What do you mean "more indepth" ? What other reasons would a person want to have a girlfriend, significant other, etc.

you'd be surprised, but its pointless talking to you, you refuse to listen to reason


When you act the way you have acted, I am stumped that you are suprised that people havn't listened to any advice that you have put forward.



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14 Nov 2010, 6:12 pm

I could care less if they take my advice



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14 Nov 2010, 7:03 pm

Kilroy wrote:
fine, then we can just say "we told you so"
but we are not gonna sit here, and coddle you while you whine constantly about not having a girlfriend because you gave up!


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you'd be surprised, but its pointless talking to you, you refuse to listen to reason


You didn't have to post in this thread if you didn't want to. You don't have to be rude and be evil like the people outside.

I never said anything bad about you or to you.



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14 Nov 2010, 7:04 pm

retracted.



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14 Nov 2010, 7:06 pm

People are just getting frustrated because you won't help yourself.
The world won't change for you. It never will. It won't change for me, it won't change for him, or anyone.

Either accept that you're going to be lonely forever or take peoples advice offered here.



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14 Nov 2010, 7:10 pm

Not everybody can help themselves. If you think they can, Hale Bopp, then lets see if a legless man can run a race. Can he do that to help himself? You'd probably say yes.



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14 Nov 2010, 7:12 pm

Craig28 wrote:
Not everybody can help themselves. If you think they can, Hale Bopp, then lets see if a legless man can run a race. Can he do that to help himself? You'd probably say yes.


Stupid analogy. No-one is telling him to do anything like that. That'a like asking someone to levitate to get a ball down from a roof.
Taking a shower is not hard, and if it is, there is medication that can help obsessive thoughts and sensory issues, or whatever is causing his poor hygene.