meems wrote:
It's OK. I've had to show the video to about seventeen friends to prove I'm not making it up. I'd probably share the link here if I felt comfortable. I don't even talk to anyone from this board outside of the board, I'm new to posting at this particular board and it's OK either way.
I'm just glad my therapist thought it was obviously an accident. And glad my boyfriend also bought tickets to Seattle so we can just use it as an excuse to vacation. He's proved a lot to me in this situation though, which I'd say is a positive. I think we're coming out the other end of this situation in a better place than we were before even if I feel terribly guilty.
I dunno if it's a good idea to expose yourself like that to so many people that you know. It might give off a bad impression of yourself...and the situation.
But if you strongly feel that things are getting better for you and your boyfriend, that's good.
Whatever happens though, dont be afraid to tell him how you feel. It's important that he knows when you feel uncomfortable or scared in a situation so the two of you can work on what can be worked on.
07 Dec 2010, 10:33 pm
