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I'm really glad you didn't see it but lots on other sites did years ago & being accursed of being hateful when I was majorly frustrated only fueled the hatred I had

Well You've done well in that case being able to pull yourself out of it, and now if I hear correctly you have a GF now?

I think I was suffering from some kind of psychotic depression then & I couldn't think clearly or as logically as now. I got better as things in my life got better for me & finding people who were sympathetic, supportive & kind of understood where I was coming from was a major help. I think that kind of approach may be a lot more beneficial to the frustrated posters here instead of arguing with em.
Yes I do have a girlfriend that I met on here a month & a half ago by making a post; Megz. We seem very compatible & our strengths & weaknesses balance each other out well. We're really falling for each other

This describes my thought process when I was in my twenties (minus the older women). This was BEFORE I knew I had AS, or what AS even was. I just couldn't comprehend what I was doing 'wrong'. The feedback seemed completely random and incomprehensible.

And I was quite angry too...perhaps not as angry as some on here because I had had a wee bit more success and validation, but still my longest relationship only lasted about a month.

Anyway, the point I want to make is that, unlike me, you DO know what is 'wrong.' The issue is that you have Asperger's. That is a huge deal, but it doesn't have to be a deal breaker. But you need to work on the social skills and get help with learning to cope with AS.

When I was diagnosed a few years ago now, it was such a relief! Because everything made sense finally. And moreover, I now knew I could learn to deal with AS because it provided a roadmap to work on the things I wanted and could change. I could now ally myself with colleagues who had the strengths I lacked, etc.

Really? Who? And don't say you-know-who (name is the same as buying something).

How about declaring them conspiratorial liars up and down because they say things that don't fit into your pre-conceived notions?

I can't comment on the purchase situation because I know nothing of what happened. Even with both sides of the story there isn't a lot of room for truth.

I can't fathom what actually fuelled you to make that rant about her, nor will I ever likely know. You were extremely rude to Erisad when she has done nothing to you, for example. She took it pretty well if you ask me, but then you ignored her when she explained how she doesn't like tattooed biker losers. I think you're only hearing what you want to hear.