Casual Sex, Yes Or No?

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^They needed a study to say "live and let live. If you're into it, be safe and have fun, and if you're not.. then don't hookup."? Duh. Seems rather obvious.

If i want casual sex, i'll f**k a student with alot of student debt (read :whore)

Nah, bad joke.. I am extremely black and white when it comes to this. It is not my thing.

Nope!

I had done casual sex in the past, but I don't think I can do it again because I get very emotionally attached to people.

No, I think I would have to form a bond with someone before sleeping with them.

Same.

Casual sex is a sign of mental breakdown in this society. Its a signal of poor mental health. Anxiety and depression are leading issues within superficial society. Casual sex never make people positive. You must be drunk if you say this it is positive thing.

Women are very superficial and narrow minded when having casual sex because they select men who are 'sexy'. The term sexy is superficial value, which has been portrayed by mainstream media such as film, television, posters, billboard signs and so on. Its unnatural biological concern.

wtf?

Casual sex has nothing to do with a mental breakdown. Countless mentally stable people have casual sex all the time. Casual sex is not a signal of poor mental health. It's simply something some people, who are into it, choose to do. Again, countless people feel great after casual sex. Just because it may not be something you want or need for yourself doesn't make it wrong for others.

It's not just women who are superficial about casual sex. Men are, too. And gay men definitely are. Casual sex isn't about a "loving spiritual connection," it's about physical sexual attraction & pleasure. So, of course people are entirely within their rights to be as selective as they want to be when it comes to who they might like to have casual sex with.

"Sexy" isn't exactly defined by the media. It's determined by hormones and what you're wired to be attracted to. I know what I like and dislike and it has nothing to do with what any media source has told me to like. It sounds, to me, like you allow media images to form your own insecurities about yourself.

What's unnatural biological concern? Casual sex? False. Humans, and animals, have been having casual sex since the dawn of time. Heck, our own cells have evolved to expect multiple partners within a short timeframe - ie sperm cells that function as blockers/attackers of other males' sperm cells so that our fast swimmers can race for the egg. Marriage & other manmade constructs and rules about how people should or shouldn't be having sex are "unnatural biological concern."

F who you want to when you want to, or don't - that's your prerogative - but don't go around telling others what, or who, they can or can't or should or shouldn't do. What's right for you isn't necessarily right for me or others. Period.

This is soo stupidly offensive. Casual sex can be fun and it not as if men aren't superficial I casual sex aswell.

It's not like if you have casual sex you are unable to be happy or have a normal relationship

AHHhhhhhgggggg ahasmhkmahahhhhh an NOOOOOOOOO WTFFFFFF

(sorry, I am having a mental breakdown after casual sex)

Never know, I might just have one of those breakdowns later on tonight..

Absolutely not, sex is for someone you have pure and deep feelings that stretch around and within the act, it enriches and blossoms the concept of intercourse and orgasm and sensing, I can do without it otherwise, don't get me wrong I really value sexual exploration whether by myself or within a love, but I'm incapable of feeling motivated to casually get down with someone I have no bond or desire for in a romantic pursuit and adventure, that's just me though, I'm a kinda odd knight when it comes to sex, I simply have zero interest in screwing without the landscape of a meaningful union and an expansive canvas to share.

I'm with you. It just doesn't have the appeal.

This comes down to lot of people including my friends who done this especially FWB and they get hurt anyways. I think it common for casual sex to happen during in the 20's because like you said exploration. Well the exploration can be a learning curve, but it leads to problems emotionally.

Oh man, after last night I'm having the most relaxing mental breakdown..

To be honest, casual sex or FWB choosing partners from my perspective seems rather shallow. I don't want to be rude about this but from my experience meeting women I see them a lot shallow. I know there is a difference between physical and chemistry attraction. I think the physical attraction is shallow side of attraction in contrast to chemistry attraction where you desire for romance and relationship.

I never had a girlfriend, so i can tell it why they are shallow because I wasn't chosen yet. It would be a huge difference if I drink alcohol, a good looking model type and that. I am not going to say people are ugly here, but you can tell who are ugly looking doesn't get physical attraction. Normally I see them embedded with chemistry attraction when people are much older. Then again, like I said before the exploration in their 20's is rather picky based on people's appearances for sex. We cannot tell ourselves we are acting like a shallow person, but I think the minds is processed one-sided or being self centred. It like an addiction. I think how the society clashes depicts this by the influence of mainstream media where things can be desired as 'normal'. That feeds onto the shallow and pickiness side.

I am trying to say there is definitely a correlation between how you behave, how you look versus how you react and how you approach. I wish there is more documentaries of social experiments on this thing. To be honest, I see people are just lazy to make an education. My friends couldn't be bothered helping me.

I need to hit the refresh button. I would prefer chemistry attraction first because its clearer and more understanding.