Aspergers & Love

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LMAO! Yeah, I can see the connection. Thing is she has never had anyone show interest in her (because of her AS) and I'm the first to adore, appreciate and spoil her. Can you imagine what it must be like to go 30 years without having a single loving relationship? She like a kid in a candy store right now.

She came over last night. Tried to watch a Harry Potter movie, but she fell asleep, so we relocated to the bedroom to cuddle. Gave her a massage and she stayed until 2:00 a.m.

Today we are going bowling and putting up my Christmas tree.

I just love this thread.

WOO HOO! We made out! She wasn't ready to kiss me before, but tonight ... WOW!! ! She really got into it (so did I). When she kisses me, her feet go crazy and can't hold them still. It was pretty hot. I was also playing "I Wanna Kiss You All Over" by Exile. Best song for making out!



She just sent me a chat:

can't wait to see you again. You are the only one for me. You are the first and last person I want to see everyday. You have shown me what real love is.

yeah maybe so

She had an Aspie withdrawl/shutdown.

Do you know what set her off? She may just be a bit overwhelmed over the relationship. Not that she is not happy. Bit to spend your whole life thinking you would never have someone then have all these new experiences in such a short period of time can be overwhelming

You'd have to look in the Adult Autism section to know what happened.

Is everything better now?

Yeah ... we're back on track.

Tell me where on Earth does someone find a person like you? Only the daydream loving, sometimes childish person I could trust and snuggle up to...

god bless george sodini

I can't stand being snuggled up upon. I need space and freedom of movement at all times.

There's a few of us out there. Colton and I are very similar in many respects... I'm glad he's well on his way.

*sigh* At least I have my snuggle pillow and laptop here in my empty bed.

We had a tender moment last night. She came over for an hour to snuggle. I asked her if she just wanted to be friends and she said she wanted to be more than friends. I raised this question several times and she insisted she wanted to be more. I also raised my concerns about her "comfort level" about being more intimate ...

Her: I'm sorry I keep you in the dark about what I want and how I feel. It's hard for me to say how I feel in front of people. I still want to be your girlfriend. You have been the best boyfriend that I have. I don't think I could ever find anyone like you ever again. I am going to try and stop keeping you in the dark about what I want and how I feel.

When it was time for her to go, she started crying and I had to calm her down. She put her arms around me and held me tight. She didn't want to leave, but she needed to go.

Her message to me about that:

Her: At one Point last night I thought I was going to lose you as more then just friends and I want to be more then friends.

Your thoughts?

I have to take her at her word. She wants a closer relationship with you and she is going to try to voice her needs. Maybe you can suggest she write you a letter instead? (I noticed she mentioned a difficulty talking in front of people; writing might be easier?)