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Worse things happening is not a valid excuse.

Though it'll be his justification for doing the same thing again and again... after all, seven pages of people saying "that's bad" hasn't convinced him.

I can confirm this to be true.

It's sad how little has changed with him "not intending to hurt anyone".

Hitlers holocaust was ok, others managed much worse genocides. The world is a harsh place
/wolflogic

As I said, I'm not provoking any situation here and I stand by my actions, some situations can be handled better but that's true for every case. Have none of your never been on a job interview or date and thought "Well I could have handled that better", we have all been in those situations and guilt tripping me or using this religious tactic of guilt tripping doesn't bother me.

In fact, Lilya, you speak about guilt tripping and forgiveness yet you have no forgiveness or tolerance towards me. The only one using these underhand isn't me, I'm simply saying things as they are and trying to come to sense with the situation.

Are you narcissistic, by chance? Also why do you want to meet her for coffee? If you try to explain why you chose another girl, that would just hurt her more.

Took the words right out of my mouth Cakey.

Robably cause you've attacked her twice in these forums in the past week

Arnold logic, too, actually.

http://articles.cnn.com/2003-10-03/poli ... LLPOLITICS



Wolf, in the future, be more honest about what you want, your intentions, etc, from the getgo. Admittedly, my problem is the opposite. I lack empathy so much I'll be like "HAH, you're a vegan, what an idiotic dietary choice!" Or something like that when girls talk to me. Not quite that actually, but I might be like "Why are you a vegan?" And then go on about how humans are omnivores and give a big lecture on why I think veganism isn't ideal. Whereas you're like "wow you got tits, that's cool that you're vegan!" At least I know why I'm single.

Also, iirc, this is the same girl you posted another thing about not sharing passions with. IE, you like antique furniture, she doesn't care, etc. I think if you don't find a girl like, earthshattering in some way because of her personality, how she makes you feel, etc (which I've felt) and you don't share enough interests that you could be friends with her if she was male, then don't pursue anymore. Very few girls sweep me off my feet, and very few girls share enough interests that I could be friends with them. So, yeah.

People who use their Aspergers as an excuse to be an unrepentent as*hole give all of us a bad name.........

I was mildly amused about 4 pages back but now I'm actually kind of angry.

Being a narcissistic, shallow as*hole has nothing to do with asperger's..
This is quite offensive.

Wolfheart, why did you even bother with this girl if you knew she wasn't into fitness and exercise the same way you were? Instead of trying to "mold" this girl into what you want, why didn't you just go for what you wanted in the first place?

I just had a similar situation with a guy I'm not attracted to in the slightest. But you know what? I made it very clear early on that I wasn't interested, so that he could then decide for himself if he still wanted to be friends or not. Sure, he was a bit hurt, but not as much as he would have if I had led him on as you have done to this girl.

You instead decided to play with this girls feelings and let them develop to the point that she is really hurt by what you did. Not nice.

I train for many reasons, some of them are beneficial to mentally and physically but I just have a passion for training. I just want to try to discuss things and make some type of amends to the situation, I know I acted in inappropriately, I was just having one of my moments.

Not at all, to be honest, she isn't chubby or skinny, she's just an average size 12 and I was fine with that. However I was in a bad mood and reacted badly today but who doesn't have bad moments? I know I should approach things with sensitivity and I just completely forget about that.

You were in a bad mood so you decided to go and flirt with another woman? And then rub it in this other poor womans face?

Look, this isn't a "lack of sensitivity" ... telling a girl that she will never be an actress unless she becomes a pornstar is not being "insensitive". You're being a straight-out as*hole, douchebag, narcissist... whatever other words you'd like to use.
You've got a real reality check coming your way dude, and it's going to smack you in the face like a train.