How would your dream guy/woman be like?

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- Independent in spirit
- Happy with lower dependency and non-traditional but monogamous relationships
- Has own ideas
- Breadth as well as dept of interests
- Likes discussing different subjects
- Doesn't take things at face value, has a critical mind
- Unconventionally pretty
- Petite / slight but not unhealthy
- A little feminine but not girly, with natrual look

Very cute and nice~. ^^

I think my boyfriend is my dream guy so I'd have to say
-quite a bit taller than me
-blue eyes that I enjoy looking at
-blond hair with full red beard
-more chubby than skinny
-wears t-shirts of metal bands as often as I do
-essentially looks like a viking, if the description is too vague and a visual image is needed.


Aside from that we like a lot of the same music, have similar interests, enjoy similar movies. We have a very good connection haven't really had any arguments and its been going over 6 months now. We both like fantasy and sci-fi stuff and metal a lot so I don't have to worry about him thinking I have lame interests and he doesn't have to worry about me thinking that. He treats me really well and actually tells me what his thoughts of me and our relationship are...which I haven't really experienced before.

I don't understand this post (common saying). I could list things I have liked in people I have met previously but the list would be different for each one. Combining them seems impossible, the favourite parts from one contradict the others.

I started thinking a while ago that for me at least an idea of who I would like was not only difficult but dangerous. I would commit to it and never see it realised.

Over time I had come to understand the only thing I need is that she makes everything else trivial. Just her being there over rules any other thought or challenge. Sure it takes compromise, work, understanding but somehow she helps me past whatever is happening. I later realised that this is what I need to be for her also. Not only is her happiness essential but she is going to need to move past many challenges with me around!

At my age I've become more broadminded in terms of looks, although I do have an instinctual bias against balding and facial hair due to past associations. The two main criteria would be 1) intelligence and intellectual curiosity and 2) someone who makes me feel secure enough to be myself around them. There are presently about two people who I can be around without the constant anxiety of not being up to scratch, and it would be wonderful to be able to add to that number.

Personality traits / emotional traits:

- Kind, caring and empathetic
- Honest and heartfelt
- Friendly
- Dedicated, strong-willed and loyal
- Intelligent and wise
- Mature
- Down to earth
- Good sense of humor
- Positive
- Playful
- Adventurous

Physically:

- Pretty, not overly pretty
- Sophisticated / but nice clothing style
- Hygienically maintained
- Tiny
- Slim (lazy)
- Slightly geeky
- Strong, at least to some extent
- Long hair on her head (Blonde or Brown)
-Glasses, maybe braces

- They can breathe
- That is all

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Tbh, I don't care all that much but if I kind of did:
- Is also Fandom Trash
- Is pretty chill
- Is creative
- Probably a singer, and maybe even plays some instrument
- Has a cool sense of fashion
- Is someone I can click with

Physical features I could care even less, but I digress:
- Around the same height (I'm 6ft.)
- A pear
- Just about it...because I typically find a lot of features attractive tbh
- Like....someone distinguishable

I'd like a Hunny who can cook and shoot; one that is cute and a hoot; and one that has a decent job to boot!

Hey, that rhymes!

I can "shoot" in one sense

I meant a gun, Mr. K. What were you talking about?

I can shoot a gun....but I haven't in a long time.

It's not even a thought in my mind whether a woman can shoot a gun.

My dream girl enjoys Nature and nice, romantic walks.

Walks are nice, but I always wanted to go on a nice horse and carriage ride - in the Spring at night when the lights are on and in the Winter when it's cold and you can cover up with a nice blanket.

I remember I went to The Plaza once on my birthday with some friends and this guy let me ride in the Cinderella carriage - it was white with lights and I felt like a princess! It would have been even more special with a Hunny!

1. Human
2. Straight woman, bisexual woman, gay male, or bisexual male.
3. What I would consider a 5 out of 10.
4. Age 17-25
5. Decent person with decent values. Hardworking, kind, practical, intelligent, tolerant, open, honest, can talk to about anything, quiet, not too ambitious (I'm ambitious and find other ambitious people not just uninteresting and boring, but intimidating. A good friend suggested I need someone more laidback, relaxed and has a slower paced perspective of the world in contrast to my ambition and adventurous attitude. I agreed with her).
6. Moderate amount of interests she spends a moderate amount of time doing.
7. Cares about their health and fitness at least moderately.

That's it. I don't know what my 'type' is, I just want someone moderately similar and compatible.

Auburn hair, green eyes, pretty face. Same political views and interests. Honest. Not passive aggressive. Nice laugh. Likes to be touched.