Does anyone here feel ugly?

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Yup, I reckon so. This is what my guy is like and I love him for it.

Tell him hi from me, he sounds like a cool guy

I don't get anything like that from single women.

I only get "If I wasn't married..."

I feel ugly quite often, both mentally and physically. Comes with the territory, I'm afraid.

You should never feel ugly. You're very very beautiful. I read some of your posts, and it seems like you are very sad. I am too, so I hate everything about me. I think that if I was happier, I'd love myself more. Is it the same for you?

This is probably going to sound stupid, but I'm actually very touched. Yes, it is the same for me. The depression is more or less killing off every chance I have for liking myself, but I can't stop.
I think you're beautiful too. Your posts are always very in-tune with everyone, you have good insights, and from the pictures you've posted, you're beautiful physically too. Can you see that on an average day? It's true. (And, as the pot calling the kettle black: ) You should never hate yourself.

You shouldn't hate yourself either. It does suck because sadness kills everything. =/

The ironic part is that we're both going to keep hating ourselves, for awhile at least, even though somewhere we both know better.

Hehe, yeah.

I don't look great by any means. I've never really done much about my appearance. I just have too many other things on my mind. My skin isn't great. However, I am tall, and well built as a result of my work. I'm just not the kind of guy girls pursue.

The real problem for me is on the inside. I am the complete opposite of a hardass with a heart of gold. I think I come across as nice in general but on the inside I am very cold and cynical. I think that sometimes it shows and it pushes people away from me. I can't get close to someone without hurting them. I think people can detect this about subconsciously and that has more to do with my unattractiveness than my physical appearance alone.

You're not ugly, you are quite attractive.

If the Oxy stuff is for acne, that doesn't really work as well as it should.

Give Apple Cidar Vinegar a try. It's available for cheap 1 litre bottle for about $3.49 (CDN$). You can pour a cup or two into the bath and sit in it and pour that mixed water over and onto your head.

It'll cleanse out all of the acne spots and move your body's pH level to Normal range.

Also, what you have could be acne... or Morgellons. I have the latter...because once you hit your 30s you shouldn't get acne anymore.

You know you have Morgellons Disease when you get sores that just pop up, from no other cause, and take weeks/months/years to heal.

I don't feel ugly. I know I am ugly.

My looks are fine, it's my personality that ruins everything for me. To me trying to contact women is like looking at the sun, I can only look for a few seconds before I have turn away.

Yes, somewhat of late.

I mean, my own mum once said 'well you are no oil painting' - though this was when I was severely overweight. I'm at a normal weight now, and I guess I saw myself as, well, average?

But over the last couple of years I've been shut down by 2-3 girls, all of which really liked me, but were clearly rejecting me based on my unattractiveness. So I kind of feel unattractive if not hideously ugly per se.

More than a few people have said I need to go to the gym and do weights. But I find the whole concept of weight lifting incredibly boring and a waste of what I want to do with my life. (For reference I hike and run a lot.)