A Self-Made-Man girl discovers that life as a man is harder

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I like how these posts always go in a direction in which you'd think there are no autistic women...after all, all women are the same even the ones with autism and other neurological and/or mental conditions have it 100 % easy, all they gotta do is look pretty and a viable boyfriend will come along...obviously this is how it is for all women.


Anyways remember there are autistic women and women with other conditions who struggle just as much if not more with relationships than your typical male. And what the f*** is a self made man girl? Did she undergo a sex change...or just dress like a dude....maybe her uh 'costume' wan't very convincing and that has something to do with the difficulties she found in picking up females whilst digusied as a male. Sure historically it has been males who make the first move, that trend can be seen even today...though its not unheard of for a female to initiate anymore...but its been ingrained in society so long its still more or less a 'norm'.

Sure might be hard for your typical autistic male to find a model quality, drop dead gorgeous blonde with lots of friends and an impressive social life that wants them for a boyfriend, but no it is not impossible for autistic males to 'get girlfriends' might not get one that will serve to hide your akwardness and raise your social status by being 'hot' but you could look for someone with some common interests you actually enjoy spending time with or attempt to meet people in venues that cater to your interests.......But of course I know many guys would rather have a drop dead gorgeous blonde with large boobs who dresses sexy and is ready to drop them as soon as something better looking, with more money or offers a better time comes along then someone they really bond with who maybe isn't as visually 'satisfying'. Of course i am generalizing some...but this thread is already full of generalization.

I agree. If men didn't mainly go for looks, women wouldn't be doing all the cosmetic stuff they feel like they have to do in order to compete with other women and it gets exhausting and expensive - highlighted hair, fake nails, boob jobs, high heels, makeup, getting every hair plucked from their body. Men say they like the "natural look". So then how did Marylin Monroe get so popular? And the Victoria Secret Models? Playboy Bunnies?Sports Illustrated swimsuit models. Every guy wants a good girl mixed with a naughty girl in the bedroom. Gotta tell you, it's darn hard to live up to all of that. Society and advertisements are what cause this to happen and it is impossible to live up to.

I also prefer men who show their emotions as well. I've found that there were too many of the manly men who don't show any emotion except anger, so I turned Gay. Than again, it doesn't really matter if I end up in a relationship or not due to the fact that I'm transgendered.

But it's true. Aspie women have trouble with dating too. You make it sound like the problems aspie women face don't matter, when they do.

Which leaves us right back at the beginning.

It really doesn't matter who struggles "more." What matters is that you struggle. The only solution to this is to try to find a way to struggle less. It's like: who suffered more--The Jews in the Holocaust, or the Africans during the Slave Trade years?

No there aren't lol. Make a dating profile with a woman like this and then one with her male equivalent. Compare their results and get back to me.

See, not only do autistic women struggle with relationships, we also deal with this "lol no you have it easy" bullsh1t

and the expectation that, as women, we should have fantastic social skills and instinctively know what to do in a relationship.

German is lead by a woman last I checked, they still went to war. women fight all the time, in fact they fight dirty. men don't scratch at eyes or pull hair. on another note, women say if they get full power they going to castrate all men at 13 on castration day where men walk the street nude for women's enjoyment then the deed is done and men will be known to be worthless as women see them. so no thanks. women ruled world sounds more bloody then this one.

also what happens when the female leader of England thinks the female leader of France is cheating with her ally the us. ask a few women here if they think women can be very mean and backstabbing to each other over thinking something happen. listen to how women talk about even them as friends when they aren't around. I wonder why do they keep them as friends if all they ever do is say horrible things about them. o.O

I believe anybody who's succeeded as a moderator on WP for five years or so must have GREAT social skills!

Notice how the relationship is already assumed.

Speaking of sperginess.


What I meant was "assuming we can find a relationship to start with.".

I prefer soft Mick Avory types over men with 6-packs. When is the Gender Binary going to die, already?

Easy to say that you 'meant' it in retrospect.