Top 10 Reasons You Can't Get A Girlfriend

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Just going to point out that looking autistic usually has to do with subtle body movements, it has nothing to do with hygiene (and looking has nothing to voice).

Apart from 5, and 10 until recently, these reasons all applied to me and I wish somebody had brought these to my attention years ago, maybe I would have tried to do something about it.

In my own case I have additional reasons for not getting a girlfriend, reasons given by women themselves.
I am too thin.
I am too nice.
I am too young, (even though I wasn't, but just looked it, in fact this reason and the next I had at the same time!)
I am too old.
I am not thier type, (This is a nice way for a woman to say I am not anybodies type).
Or sometimes they just laugh without giving a rejecting reason.

I also actually tend to get along better with girls than with guys.

trying to get inspiration from this article:http://www.myaspergerschild.com/2010/11/how-aspergers-teensyoung-adults-can-get.html

Yes! Look at the revolting punks on shows like cops but who have beautiful girlfriends. The only thing they have really is, they don't give a damn and that's all it takes

I'm short, shy, special, and socially awkward. The 4's.

I guess that makes me a quadruple threat.

Also, another important thing to remember, is girls DON'T HATE SHY GUYS. Not unless they are an as*hole like Jennifer Lawrence and hate shy people in general, but most people, male or female, aren't. Some find shy guys boring, but while that makes them unlikely to have relationship with you, it's completely different than hating. Others actually prefer shy guys. The main thing is that in our culture boys usually ask out the girls, not visa versa, that's what shy guys don't get as much dates, is because they just never ask anyone out! Make a move! Courage is sexy!

If you're short, the secret is to ask out girls who are shorter than you are. Statistically you should be to find one. Otherwise just know girls from friendships or whatnot and find one who doesn't care about hight. (Btw, some girls actually like shorter guys for sexual reasons. )

Well, every girl thinks their guy is special.

Finally, if socially awkward, figure out how to make yourself present as cute rather than creepy. It won't make you sexy, but it will makes girls be more willing to start a relationship with you.

people who say it goes against biology for women to pursue, approach men, are not totally right, since I did read online that some female animals other than humans will approach the male first.

AutismEqualsMisery has been banned for trolling and misogyny and his posts from here and subsequent replies have been removed.

Reason #11--You scare all the autistic women away from the autism support forum that is your only social outlet, thereby preventing developing relationships with women who might actually understand what you're going through and could be a potential dating pool, one that statistically you would likely have a way better chance of finding success in than the larger mostly neurotypical dating pool that is the rest of the world that doesn't understand what it's like to be autistic. Dating between autistic people would be way more common if more women felt safe to share here and were welcomed to this forum rather than chased away. Don't you guys want women to come here and talk to you????? Stop pushing us (autistic women) all away and you might have better luck dating with people that you can really connect with because they get you in ways that NTs don't, are comfortable with your weirdness because they are weird themselves, and will encourage you to be yourself and will be themselves around you.