Darmok wrote:
> What kinds of women show interest in you?
Supermodels. It's always supermodels.
I tell them, "no, I'm just looking for a nerdy girl with glasses who bumps into things a lot." But the supermodels never believe me and they keep coming. It's very tiresome.
Serious? or sarcasm?
Because this is what I actually go through.
I come across as what one might describe as 'broish' and I usually attract the females that hang around them.
Meanwhile the type Im actually interested in won't give me the time of day. I rarely ever see any of the type I'm interested in out and about, and even when I do they're not interested whatsoever. I was friends with a few nerdy/geeky girls in high school, but nothing more and everytime I tried to pursue one it didn't work out. My girlfriends have all been different than the typical nerd girl in their own ways. The only two people in my group that said something positive about my appearance said it behind my back, and it was the snobby, shallow, catty girl, and the snobby, shallow, catty effeminate gay guy.
Meanwhile I get attention all the time from the shallow, uptight girls you'd expect were popular in high school, who for simple reasons I will call 'divas'. I've been called 'cute' by two before. A prank was played on me by some dudes where they wrote a girls name and love heart on a letter and put it near me on the table to think I was going to give it to her and I moved the note somewhere else, but she saw it - she continued looking at me for the rest of the day. She too was a 'diva'. I was catcalled by a mixed/black girl and her little diva posse when I got the mail shirtless. I was catcalled by a pair of divas, a black and white one, when I was just sitting in the passenger seat of a car at a stoplight. My Tinder matches are usually the mixed race/black divas.
Online, on a facebook teen dating group I posted a portfolio and picture, only one result - 14 year old part-time model.
F*ck. Her personality was just as uninteresting to me as I predicted it would be.
I just want some plain, average, cute/quirky, geeky, hyperactive, playful, innocently childish girl who is also headstrong, Feminist, independent, mature and intelligent. Just like my ex-girlfriend was...