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16 Jul 2016, 9:03 am

namaste wrote:
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Maybe a good porno movie would get you both in the mood.

Im no longer in love with him

He needs to bring back the love by starting to talk first

Otherwise it would be all meaningless

About the other guy he just wants sex not ready to date, not ready to spend, weekends goes incommunicado taking family on outings


You should try to initiate something with him. You could make his favorite dinner and wear your sexiest lingerie. Make him realize how good he has it.
Maybe you can start talking to other guys without necessarily having an affair if nothing seems to work on your husband. There are a lot of eligible WrongPlanet hunks who would probably like to talk to you.



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16 Jul 2016, 12:43 pm

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Out of curiosity, what, if anything, have you done to keep the love in the relationship?

made his favourite food
always keep myself presentable and hygienic and clean


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16 Jul 2016, 12:43 pm

Chronos wrote:

Out of curiosity, what, if anything, have you done to keep the love in the relationship?

made his favourite food
always keep myself presentable and hygienic and clean


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16 Jul 2016, 12:46 pm

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You should try to initiate something with him. You could make his favorite dinner and wear your sexiest lingerie. Make him realize how good he has it.
Maybe you can start talking to other guys without necessarily having an affair if nothing seems to work on your husband. There are a lot of eligible WrongPlanet hunks who would probably like to talk to you.

i have been making all those things he likes from a longtime.
cant wear sexy lingerie 12 year old son also around
he shares the bed with my hubby whereas i sleep in the adjoining room

i am ready to talk with other hunks of wrongplanet but its time waste for them
i mean what are they going to gain by chatting with a middle aged married women that
too from india.
lot of things happening in their own part of world in dating world


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16 Jul 2016, 2:17 pm

namaste wrote:
wowiexist wrote:

You should try to initiate something with him. You could make his favorite dinner and wear your sexiest lingerie. Make him realize how good he has it.
Maybe you can start talking to other guys without necessarily having an affair if nothing seems to work on your husband. There are a lot of eligible WrongPlanet hunks who would probably like to talk to you.

i have been making all those things he likes from a longtime.
cant wear sexy lingerie 12 year old son also around
he shares the bed with my hubby whereas i sleep in the adjoining room

i am ready to talk with other hunks of wrongplanet but its time waste for them
i mean what are they going to gain by chatting with a middle aged married women that
too from india.
lot of things happening in their own part of world in dating world


I think if nothing else a lot of the people on this site like to have someone to talk to. Some of us don't really have real life people to share personal things with. And I think that it is possible you might develop feelings for someone who will treat you better than your husband. But even if that didn't happen maybe it would make you feel better to have someone to talk to.



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16 Jul 2016, 2:35 pm

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I think if nothing else a lot of the people on this site like to have someone to talk to. Some of us don't really have real life people to share personal things with. And I think that it is possible you might develop feelings for someone who will treat you better than your husband. But even if that didn't happen maybe it would make you feel better to have someone to talk to.

hmmm....looks like u want to waste ur time doing just that


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16 Jul 2016, 2:50 pm

namaste wrote:
wowiexist wrote:
I think if nothing else a lot of the people on this site like to have someone to talk to. Some of us don't really have real life people to share personal things with. And I think that it is possible you might develop feelings for someone who will treat you better than your husband. But even if that didn't happen maybe it would make you feel better to have someone to talk to.

hmmm....looks like u want to waste ur time doing just that


I am just trying to help. You can message me if you would like. That is up to you.



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16 Jul 2016, 7:45 pm

namaste wrote:
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Out of curiosity, what, if anything, have you done to keep the love in the relationship?

made his favourite food
always keep myself presentable and hygienic and clean


Nice, but not romantic or sexy or fun.



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18 Jul 2016, 3:24 am

How come non of you suggested a vibrator :skull:


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18 Jul 2016, 11:40 am

namaste wrote:
How come non of you suggested a vibrator :skull:


Because vibrators can't buy gifts.



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18 Jul 2016, 6:41 pm

38 is not middle-aged.

I'm 55, and I really don't consider myself middle-aged.

I'm a young whipper-snapper.