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calandale
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22 May 2007, 9:36 am

beautifulspam wrote:
There's really no excuse for not showering.


Not having a shower curtain is a pretty good one.



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23 May 2007, 9:08 pm

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I think the not giving him sex until he is showered should work effectivly.
I love showers, I would easily spend an hour in the shower, to get me out of it quickly-ish, my mum makes me a cup of tea when i go in the shower, so i don't take to long as I want to drink my tea at least warm.


thank you guys for all your responses.
so here is the latest.
friday (last)-no shower, fight and sleep on couch.
sat-shower!!
sun-shower!!
monday-no shower. :evil:
tuesday morning- no shower. :evil:


so i am not going to say a word and see how he acts. i already told him i am not mommy or shower police so lets see if he wants to keep himself clean.
or he can keep himself to himself.


wednesday no shower
thursday no shower
friday no shower
sat no shower
sunday 2 showers, he thinks he can catch up or something.
uggghh.

there is a post about this in the general section.
i feel like he is part of the majority which i don't understand.


Monday -no shower
Tuesday-no shower
Wednesday- Shower after work!! !

Lucky him.


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24 May 2007, 7:00 pm

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I absolutely have to bathe every day--- i can literally feel the oil on my hair otherwise, and it's a creepy feeling, almost a crawley one. Besides, my job is located in a place where many people are sick and I don't like being covered in their germs.


I feel exactly the same!

I don't believe I would be able to follow a routine without a bath every day, I Would probably loose it, forget the day etc.

Anyway the hair/head don't let me forget.



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24 May 2007, 7:06 pm

:D

calandale wrote:
[Spamming is a bit of an art form to me.
I am though, quite miserably depressive,
most of the time, and this is my obsessive
act to drown myself in.

I am a bit happier recently, but 'tis always
a fleeting thing - when permanence is all
that I seek.


I don't know so many things.
Some time ago I didn't believe in things like stoping smoking, changing feeding habits... well, it really change our humour... but I wouldn't have believe in it times ago.

A shower has the same hole. :D



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24 May 2007, 7:20 pm

I shower almost everyday, except sometimes on the weekends I don't, my problem is that it cuts into my time on the computer, I always leave the hairdryer on for a while before I get into the shower to warm up the room because I don't like getting out of the shower and being cold and wet, and I have very warm showers becuase I hate being splashed with cold water.

I don't like the feeling of my hair being dirty, so that helps make sure I shower most days.



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25 May 2007, 8:29 am

I need to shower twice each day and i cannot go around anywhere without knowing i am completely clean.



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25 May 2007, 9:52 am

I'm in a routine where the first thing I do when I wake is to jump in the shower. It seems second nature now but it's not always been like that.

Excercise was the thing that got me into it. Until then it was just an inconvience. Once the showering became something that could make a significant change in the way I felt it became something of use.

You just need to justify showering in a way that means something to your bf, telling him that he smells probably just isn't going to cut it. A sex rewards system won't work long term either, and it wont work at all without you to enforce it. He may even start to resent you for it. Find something else or cause problems in the long run.



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25 May 2007, 10:04 am

Erkolos wrote:
Some random nonsense



Oh, the irony of someone posting something like that. You're the idiot, and only a 5 second inconvience idiot at that.



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25 May 2007, 10:07 am

Masterfully argued, Erkolos.



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25 May 2007, 12:55 pm

I try to shower atleast twice a day.
1st when i get up it's the first thing i do.
Than when i get home from work and i wil be all sweaty from the hard work.
I enjoy showering alot.
Especially using extremely hot water wich makes my skin turn red and stay like that for a while.
I often use that if my muscles hurt from working.

I don't think bad hygene is related to AS.
Everyone that i know with AS showers daily and doesn't smell bad.
I would have a serious talk with your bf about this.
In my opinion not showering daily isn't acceptable.
I would not date someone who doesn't shower every day period, it's disgusting.



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31 May 2007, 4:20 am

I've been known to go several days without showering. I think my record is three weeks.

I'm just a lazy bastard is all. Lazy as hell.



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31 May 2007, 6:30 am

I used to go weeks without bathing when with my ex :oops: the bathroom was a nasty mess tho and I was depressed.
He started putting air freshners up near my side of the bed :lol:
I used to just not bother when living with my mother too, but she went on and on at me.
I make myself shower now as I hate the feel of greasy hair.
But it is tempting somedays to not bother. I prefer to just get dressed and get going.



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31 May 2007, 9:04 am

I moved out.


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31 May 2007, 2:01 pm

devunea wrote:
I moved out.


I can't blame ya, Hygene is verry important.
I wouldn't like to date someone that smelled like a hobo either.



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31 May 2007, 11:06 pm

homeboy didn't deserve you. or anyone for that matter.



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31 May 2007, 11:49 pm

i don't understand how anyone would not want to shower.

I love to shower.

I hate feeling dirty.