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15 Feb 2017, 3:47 am

sly279 wrote:

cricketman123 wrote:

How the hell could you be okay with it. If i never get loved i would rather kill myself now then die a lonely 80-90 year old man with no family and no kids

Indeed though I don't plan on living past 30
So like a year and week left at most

You shouldn't give up if it's so important for you.

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15 Feb 2017, 11:46 am

white_as_snow wrote:

i dont see the point of even trying. only having 1 flaw makes females going "ewwww", but i have 50. even if a female accepts some of my flaws, she will not accept when she finds out about the others. she knows she can get a better guy. she only live once, why would she waste it on a guy like me.

and what do people mean with love? its looks and social status. if love exists, then where is the love for all the lonely people.

Let's assume you have 50 flaws. Are you the only person alive who has 50 flaws? There are women with 50 flaws. Make no mistakes. The real question is whether you'd deign to date each other. I have a few flaws myself. My boyfriend has a few flaws. I'm sure a more perfect man wouldn't date me, but fortunately the world isn't filled with flawless men and women, plus flawed little me.

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15 Feb 2017, 3:45 pm

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white_as_snow wrote:

Sometimes it feels that way. At work it's all perfect men and perfect women and flawed me.

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15 Feb 2017, 4:54 pm

Rubicon wrote:

white_as_snow wrote:

Let's assume one has 2000 flaws - no one wants to date that.

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15 Feb 2017, 5:03 pm

Hyperbole and a half! No one has 2000 flaws.

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15 Feb 2017, 5:23 pm

I started counting them already....

123

124

125

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15 Feb 2017, 11:01 pm

perfection is a persistent earthly myth, right along with "something for nothing." the people who seem perfect are successfully distracting others from noticing their flaws that a few discerning people can see right off the bat.

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16 Feb 2017, 1:15 am

Plenty of humans to meet and get to know in whatever body of water sloshes between you in every rapport established and shore walked along, who knows what is out there, any type of meaningful connection is an important beacon to hold dear in the gloom of life, the more you keep yourself floating in the stream, the better the chances of striking it hard with a bright spark. You'll get on with thousands of humans on the globe, all depends on circumstances and timing and random gelling of all manner of pieces, there's so many folk out there each person will connect so hard that they can't help falling together, doesn't mean you'll meet them at the right moment though, but that doesn't translate to 'I'm doomed!' or whatever.

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16 Feb 2017, 4:12 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Rubicon wrote:

white_as_snow wrote:

Let's assume one has 2000 flaws - no one wants to date that.

You better hope not. Because even if you have 2000 flaws there will be a woman with 2000 flaws. you're not unique or superlative. There isn't anybody whose exceptionally bad or exceptionally good. For every Newton you have a Leibniz. For every Michaelangelo you have a Raphael. For every Hitler you have a Mussolini. Whoever you are, there will be someone like you in the world whether in ability, appearance or "flawedness". If no one wants to date someone with 2000 flaws then the woman with 2000 flaws wouldn't want to date you either and you wouldn't date her. And that's a sad world.

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