greenblue wrote:
Yoshie, I also take my time when writing, I am slow

To me, quality is everything in writing. I take my time so that I can say what I want to say the right way. I'm a hard grader, especially on myself. I am my own worst enemy. Don't take that the wrong way. I am not suicidal.
Anyhow, I'll admit to the fact that I would definitely be physically attracted to a girl as well, but I would just hide those love thoughts until I am ready to really expose them. However, love is defined in many ways. I would first show my love to someone by doing nice things for them or trying to talk to them. Usually, yes, it would be based on how they look, but my conscience would kick me down and reveal that looks aren't everything. Still, I could be friends with someone and be physically attracted to them. Hair can be one of those physical traits that I like, but most of the time, it is personality. I would never date a really pretty girl with a rotten personality.
Actually, the truth is that I would make my move on a girl who seems isolated all the time. I would try to become friends with her and help her with her problems. Over time, our relationship would grow and she wouldn't feel as isolated anymore.