27 Sep 2017, 12:44 am
nurseangela wrote:
sly279 wrote:
nurseangela wrote:
Story time, then I have homework to do.
Some of you (I won't say who) keep talking about a house husband. I believe I have talked about my ex-friend Julia before - she has a house husband. It's not all it's cracked up to be (for her). She is able to be the breadwinner since she is an LPN, but she doesn't make enough because she has to work usually 6 out of 7 days a week. She also decided that they had to get married because she is religious, but mainly because she got pregnant by mistake. Her "house husband" is a slacker in that area too. He had a job, but after moving here to Kansas from the East coast, he just never got another job after that. It's going on 5 years now? I quit asking her if he found a job yet because I know the answer will be no. You'd think that he could do all of the housework if she is working 6 days a week 12 hours a day, but no. When I used to talk to her, SHE was the one doing the dishes and the vacuuming and the mowing of the lawn - even put up the Christmas tree (by herself). She even told me that she almost had to go to the hospital after she was mowing the lawn because it was so hot she almost passed out. WTF. Where was her househusband? Chained to the MF bed?! She even couldn't rely on him to take THEIR kid to preschool. She ended up doing it after she got off of work. Over time, she stopped talking about how wonderful he was and you could tell there was some real resentment building up. She even tried ultimatums, but those never worked because she would always back down.
I would have no trouble supporting a "house husband", but I would rather have an equal. Thank you very much.
Some of you (I won't say who) keep talking about a house husband. I believe I have talked about my ex-friend Julia before - she has a house husband. It's not all it's cracked up to be (for her). She is able to be the breadwinner since she is an LPN, but she doesn't make enough because she has to work usually 6 out of 7 days a week. She also decided that they had to get married because she is religious, but mainly because she got pregnant by mistake. Her "house husband" is a slacker in that area too. He had a job, but after moving here to Kansas from the East coast, he just never got another job after that. It's going on 5 years now? I quit asking her if he found a job yet because I know the answer will be no. You'd think that he could do all of the housework if she is working 6 days a week 12 hours a day, but no. When I used to talk to her, SHE was the one doing the dishes and the vacuuming and the mowing of the lawn - even put up the Christmas tree (by herself). She even told me that she almost had to go to the hospital after she was mowing the lawn because it was so hot she almost passed out. WTF. Where was her househusband? Chained to the MF bed?! She even couldn't rely on him to take THEIR kid to preschool. She ended up doing it after she got off of work. Over time, she stopped talking about how wonderful he was and you could tell there was some real resentment building up. She even tried ultimatums, but those never worked because she would always back down.
I would have no trouble supporting a "house husband", but I would rather have an equal. Thank you very much.
So he had to quit his job so she could move. How horrible of him. I'd said fresknyou lady I'm not moving for you. And surprise like many has hard time finding work again. If I had to quit my job and move across the cOuntry to where I dont know anyone I'd have a impossible time finding work and likely feel depression for being cut off from anyone I know. Yet he's the bad guy.
So it's been better he passed out from mowing the lawn?
how about dont now the lawn on a hot day. He might be lazy but that doesn't mean every non ambitious person is lazy.
I'm not all lazy not anymore then everyone else , whole western civilization is lazy. I just can only work part time due to my disabilities. They also make it really really hard to find work. It took me two years with professional help to find this job and the professionals were about ready to call it quits cause I'd never get callbacks from my resume
so I'd be super hesitant to leave my current job. I tried to be ambitious, I had dreams. Certainly didn't plan to work retail. I worked hard and went to college. I got good grades. Systems rigged though. Can't join military, can't teach, couldn't be a mechanic. No donovers. I probably should tried for an office job degree, unfortunately there's no trial runs to see if you'd be good suit for a job before getting a degree and going into debt for it. There aren't any factory jobs anymore. The type I'd be good at that most people can't stand. Nor quality control jobs where my eye for perfection and defects would come in handy. All shipped to China or India. Can't seem to die either. So I just exist and upset women by not being s real manI didn't read all of this cause my tea is getting cold, but it was his decision to move.She didn't hold a gun to his head. It's been 5 years. He needs to snap out of it or go back home. Unfortunately, he was part of the reason she got pregnant. I think she be better off sending him back home myself.
Did she ask him to move?
I don't see military members complaining about their wife's who don't work due to having to move.
You seem to think all non middle class guys are like your friends husband.
27 Sep 2017, 12:52 am
sly279 wrote:
nurseangela wrote:
sly279 wrote:
nurseangela wrote:
Story time, then I have homework to do.
Some of you (I won't say who) keep talking about a house husband. I believe I have talked about my ex-friend Julia before - she has a house husband. It's not all it's cracked up to be (for her). She is able to be the breadwinner since she is an LPN, but she doesn't make enough because she has to work usually 6 out of 7 days a week. She also decided that they had to get married because she is religious, but mainly because she got pregnant by mistake. Her "house husband" is a slacker in that area too. He had a job, but after moving here to Kansas from the East coast, he just never got another job after that. It's going on 5 years now? I quit asking her if he found a job yet because I know the answer will be no. You'd think that he could do all of the housework if she is working 6 days a week 12 hours a day, but no. When I used to talk to her, SHE was the one doing the dishes and the vacuuming and the mowing of the lawn - even put up the Christmas tree (by herself). She even told me that she almost had to go to the hospital after she was mowing the lawn because it was so hot she almost passed out. WTF. Where was her househusband? Chained to the MF bed?! She even couldn't rely on him to take THEIR kid to preschool. She ended up doing it after she got off of work. Over time, she stopped talking about how wonderful he was and you could tell there was some real resentment building up. She even tried ultimatums, but those never worked because she would always back down.
I would have no trouble supporting a "house husband", but I would rather have an equal. Thank you very much.
Some of you (I won't say who) keep talking about a house husband. I believe I have talked about my ex-friend Julia before - she has a house husband. It's not all it's cracked up to be (for her). She is able to be the breadwinner since she is an LPN, but she doesn't make enough because she has to work usually 6 out of 7 days a week. She also decided that they had to get married because she is religious, but mainly because she got pregnant by mistake. Her "house husband" is a slacker in that area too. He had a job, but after moving here to Kansas from the East coast, he just never got another job after that. It's going on 5 years now? I quit asking her if he found a job yet because I know the answer will be no. You'd think that he could do all of the housework if she is working 6 days a week 12 hours a day, but no. When I used to talk to her, SHE was the one doing the dishes and the vacuuming and the mowing of the lawn - even put up the Christmas tree (by herself). She even told me that she almost had to go to the hospital after she was mowing the lawn because it was so hot she almost passed out. WTF. Where was her househusband? Chained to the MF bed?! She even couldn't rely on him to take THEIR kid to preschool. She ended up doing it after she got off of work. Over time, she stopped talking about how wonderful he was and you could tell there was some real resentment building up. She even tried ultimatums, but those never worked because she would always back down.
I would have no trouble supporting a "house husband", but I would rather have an equal. Thank you very much.
So he had to quit his job so she could move. How horrible of him. I'd said fresknyou lady I'm not moving for you. And surprise like many has hard time finding work again. If I had to quit my job and move across the cOuntry to where I dont know anyone I'd have a impossible time finding work and likely feel depression for being cut off from anyone I know. Yet he's the bad guy.
So it's been better he passed out from mowing the lawn?
how about dont now the lawn on a hot day. He might be lazy but that doesn't mean every non ambitious person is lazy.
I'm not all lazy not anymore then everyone else , whole western civilization is lazy. I just can only work part time due to my disabilities. They also make it really really hard to find work. It took me two years with professional help to find this job and the professionals were about ready to call it quits cause I'd never get callbacks from my resume
so I'd be super hesitant to leave my current job. I tried to be ambitious, I had dreams. Certainly didn't plan to work retail. I worked hard and went to college. I got good grades. Systems rigged though. Can't join military, can't teach, couldn't be a mechanic. No donovers. I probably should tried for an office job degree, unfortunately there's no trial runs to see if you'd be good suit for a job before getting a degree and going into debt for it. There aren't any factory jobs anymore. The type I'd be good at that most people can't stand. Nor quality control jobs where my eye for perfection and defects would come in handy. All shipped to China or India. Can't seem to die either. So I just exist and upset women by not being s real manI didn't read all of this cause my tea is getting cold, but it was his decision to move.She didn't hold a gun to his head. It's been 5 years. He needs to snap out of it or go back home. Unfortunately, he was part of the reason she got pregnant. I think she be better off sending him back home myself.
Did she ask him to move?
I don't see military members complaining about their wife's who don't work due to having to move.
You seem to think all non middle class guys are like your friends husband.
That's not they same. Army peeps move around a lot. This is one move and it's been 5 years already. He sounds like a lazy dude.
27 Sep 2017, 1:07 am
27 Sep 2017, 1:09 am
hurtloam wrote:
nurseangela wrote:
Boxman108 wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
wanderlust77 wrote:
Unemployed women shouldn't be seen as wife material either!!
I agree. I would want to marry a woman with a similar income to me. With our incomes combined we can buy a nice house to live in.I especially wouldn't want to be with an unemployed woman who would be my financial dependant. That would send me to the poorhouse fast.
Marrying a housewife sounds boring. I'd want to marry someone with the same level career as me.
Good luck convincing her that the income will be shared and not just for her shoes or makeup or other garbage.
My Hunny better know my Monday night's are taken watching my favorite designer Lori Goldstein on QVC. And my closet is full of designer purses. And I do have plenty of makeup and bath and body lotions and soaps. Not giving up any of it.
I'm not much of a shoe hound - that's my sister-in-law. Oh, I have a watch collection and may add to my gun collection. I don't think a Hunny should have a problem with my guns, do you? His closet may have to be in the basement. Not all women are like this guys.
You can find a non materialistic woman. We do exist.
People probably think I'm lazy
I've been working the same job for two years now. Married severcie members with kids don't move as much.
I'd need professional help to find work in another state. That'd take time to get through the process. Then I have no work experience contacts in that area so starting at ground 0 with no work experience. Nts might have it easier with interviewing and making resumes i dont know.
My friend who lived off me for a year or two was lazy he could found work but didn't. He got fired for faking sick too many times. He was in line for a promotion and good paid job. So I supported him with my seasonal job. And his parents would buy him stuff sometimes.
It's not easy to find new work in a new town or state.
Lol I got the posts confused
That's for the other post you did.
As for this one. Yeah but most are and the few like you and sweatleft are hard to find and often don't have stuff in common or find men like me ugly and unattractive.
27 Sep 2017, 1:12 am
27 Sep 2017, 1:41 am
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