Aspie women why do you defend all women?

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Really. Was she paranoid she was getting fake photos? Just sounds immature and strange to force that on someone then block them.

Implications are something people on the spectrum often have trouble with.

I fit perfectly into this demographic.

No one really wants to date someone they have to take care of, especially someone who will never achieve those things. Would you date someone without a job, no car, no place of their own who will probably mooch off of you?

I believe you're one of those types that goes after people way out of your league. Probably popular, attractive cheerleader types. Probably normal people. It's unrealistic. You need to either "improve" yourself or date someone on your level, like another unattractive jobless aspie. Would you date another jobless, unattractive aspie with no transportation? This applies to both men and women.

That's so unfair. Why do people always assume singles punch above their weight?

I know people in real life getting rejected by other regular people. I believe sly mostly because I've been accused of the same and I know I've only been associating with regular folks.

No, that's not what Sly does. At all.

He's stated numerous times that he's not particularly picky, and would be interested in a wide range of girls if they would only give him a chance. And, speaking as someone who's poor and works a sh_t job, many of the guys I work with are lovely people despite not having "good" jobs.

Nope, it doesn't.

Not really in this real life, maybe in your imaginary ideally-equal life perhaps, but in real life many jobless women become housewives and many men tolerate such women.

She blocked him because she didn't find him handsome after seeing him in the video chat.

Sly doesn’t have unrealistic standards. But he needs to take a bit more responsibility for his life, aim for becoming a bit more independent and mature, example buying a car instead of dating site memberships. I don’t know how much rent he pays.

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Boo, why didn’t she just ask for a photo? It’s a bit of an unreasonable request. It’s not like he was asking for a credit card number.

Because photos can be fake.

Sly, I'll tell you an experience I had from trying to get this 21 year old girl from Zoosk back when I was 18. Okay, I showed my picture as well. I had a good description of myself. I managed to get this girl's cell phone number. I called her and for the first time a girl tried to play with me and joke with me. I didn't play back and I took her too seriously. What happened when I called her was the lesson I learned from my older brother who is very attractive to women. Want to know what it is?

Dating should be about having fun with yourself and the person you want to date, not like some arranged marriage from a foreign country.

I'll tell you what the joke was:

"Ha! I'm older than you!"

My response:

"It doesn't matter that you are older. I don't care. I'm just as good as those older guys."

That was not a good response. I should have laughed and then talked to her more. I managed to know where she was from and I talked about what I liked to do with my life, but still, you should try to have fun with these little teasing things people say.

Sly you need to have fun with these girls.

Not necessarily this what happened Mr. cat.

In my experience many women are so VERY hung on the age rules (The "man must be older than me" stupid rule) and refuse to date younger men even it's just by one year.

The "joke" (I rate her humor as 1/10) was a hint on why she doesn't find you a bf material - I bet she rejected you because of age.

I am sure the outcome wouldn't have changed if you joked back.

AKA sly needs to stop putting women on a pedestal and be more relaxed. They are just women sly, not greek goddesses.

Maybe I'll be able to start dating women around 19-23 when I'm in my 30's and more realistic and mature. Yeah, they do get very hung on those age rules, but it is what it is. I also feel a bit of a nasty nasally voice when I speak, so I may come off as one of those dorky guys named Gary or some other name like that.

I think the reason why you get plenty of dates Face of Boo is because you don't sound or write like a child in a man's body (not accusing anyone of that either). You actually have some realism inside you. Also, gamer guys have the opposite effect of gamer girls to women. After 10 years I think I'll come off less as an annoying Gary and more as an alright guy.

There's also the low self-esteem, girls don't like that, and to be more frank, the people around me don't like it either.

The Dating site was cause I got $500 back from ssi from last year. So I could spent $120 for 6 months.
$20 a month that it cost wouldn’t even pay for the gas for the car. The insurance alone is $50 a month. A car would be 2,000 then 200-500 in repairs every 3-6 months based off my last care before it broke down. I have $50 a month after billsand food now, and if I need more food it comes out of that. So for gas and insurance a month it’d cost $90-100 a month. Does it make sense to you to spend every bit of money I have on a car o wouldn’t be able to afford to drive and eventually the city would tow since I don’t drive it? Or for $25 a month I can take the bus.

But I have to call ssi as they now say I owe them $600 despite telling me when I went in to talk to them multiple times that no it’s my money.

Ownering a car just doesn’t make any sense for me. For most people cars are just a luxury item.

Also I am independent unless you mean not on government aid, in which that’ll never happen, I’m permanently disabled. Even normal people working full time min wage get government aid. I pay 1/3 the rent and bills for our house. My family is more like roommates. When home I keep to my room, and I buy and make most my food. I do my laundry every two weeks. I dont know how much more independent I could get besides having a place alone which I couldn’t afford and would make my family homeless and kill all their animals. Seems selfish to do that just so I can be “independent” if I got a gf and we lasted year or more and wanted to live together then that’s a bridge I’d have to burn but no reason to do so now.

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