03 Oct 2018, 1:13 pm
Fnord wrote:
VegetableMan wrote:
Some women like the Daryl Dixon look.
And some men link the Rosie O'Donnel look. 
Whuts yer point?
Whats the Rosie O'Donnel look?
03 Oct 2018, 1:30 pm
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The_Face_of_Boo
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03 Oct 2018, 1:54 pm
Fnord wrote:
VegetableMan wrote:
Fnord wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
Fnord wrote:
VegetableMan wrote:
Some women like the Daryl Dixon look.
And some men like the Rosie O'Donnel look. Whuts yer point?I can't really describe the Rosie O'Donnel look without insulting people who are undertall, overweight, loud-mouthed, under-educated, opinionated, rude, and generally obnoxious -- I do not want to insult those people by associating them with Rosie O'Donnel.
You understand, right?
You just did
03 Oct 2018, 2:28 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Fnord wrote:
VegetableMan wrote:
Fnord wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
Fnord wrote:
VegetableMan wrote:
Some women like the Daryl Dixon look.
And some men like the Rosie O'Donnel look. Whuts yer point?I can't really describe the Rosie O'Donnel look without insulting people who are undertall, overweight, loud-mouthed, under-educated, opinionated, rude, and generally obnoxious -- I do not want to insult those people by associating them with Rosie O'Donnel.
You understand, right?
You just did
Therein lies the humor.
03 Oct 2018, 2:40 pm
03 Oct 2018, 3:00 pm
Hey guys! 
Update
I just wanted to quickly update you on my current situation. So I have - another - date, fingers crossed this one actually goes well. I'm also employed now, so that can only help, right? The woman I'm dating, Charlene already has a daughter but I don't see that as a problem. We went out yesterday and she was happy to go out again tomorrow night. And today I went to see her and me and her daughter got on well too! 
I'm well pleased!
Thanks for your help guys
03 Oct 2018, 6:15 pm
Luhluhluh wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
rdos wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
How ND guys would rate the points or themselves ? I wasn't rating the points dude , it was a checklist of the qualities/inequalities I have on that list i.e. I'm not well dressed.
I meant how guys rated themselves. If many ND women actually think the points about looks & dressing are important is another issue, but I suspect they are not that important.
It's bit shallow if you ask me ( but that's human nature ) - clothes don't maketh the man. If you want a smart trophy BF look elsewhere
Not really. When I talk about clothing, I'm more referring to being CLEAN and wearing clothes that are appropriate and not ripped, smell, stained, and fit reasonably well.
You have no idea how many guys meet women on a first date and show up looking like they just rolled out of bed, with stained or ripped t-shirts, unwashed messy hair, and smell like they haven't taken a shower in a week. That's not being shallow, that's basic hygiene and good manners. It shows social awareness that they realize they need to at least look halfway presentable.
That happens in comedy movies only.
[Back to reality] Most guys have the common sense to be well groomed on a first date.
When was the last time you dated men?
.
Please stop discounting the things women say. We are the ones with the actual experience dating men.
Nope, but I have seen male friends, siblings, relatives going to dates....everywhere.
The “that” in “that happens only in movie” is the “many” part of your sentence. I don’t believe it’s that common in real life out of general population.
Anyway, please stop doing drama on everything and turning everything to a gender war. You are the most drama-inducing member on WP btw.
Actually, the same can be said to you to many of your replies in the many guys’ complaining threads - they are the ones who are dating women.
I dunno where you were finding that so many slobs, my guess is in online dating.
It really doesn't matter what you believe, because it happens as evidenced by what women have experienced.
If I create drama, so be it. I call out the sexist remarks as I see them. Don't like drama? Don't be sexist and lump all women into one group and dismiss what you have "seen" because you (as a man) have not the experience of actually dating men. When you start dating men, I'll possibly be more open to your criticism. Until then, maybe you can make some more of your fake dating profiles and do another one of your "studies" to prove how awful women are.
So when women talk about dating men it’s experience and we can’t question them on it but when men talk about experience dating women it’s all’s sexist generalizations and misogyny?
If women’s experiences must be treated as valid so should mine and other men’s experiences.
03 Oct 2018, 6:18 pm
03 Oct 2018, 6:20 pm
Fuzzyair wrote:
Hey guys!
Update
I just wanted to quickly update you on my current situation. So I have - another - date, fingers crossed this one actually goes well. I'm also employed now, so that can only help, right? The woman I'm dating, Charlene already has a daughter but I don't see that as a problem. We went out yesterday and she was happy to go out again tomorrow night. And today I went to see her and me and her daughter got on well too! I'm well pleased!
Thanks for your help guys
Update
I just wanted to quickly update you on my current situation. So I have - another - date, fingers crossed this one actually goes well. I'm also employed now, so that can only help, right? The woman I'm dating, Charlene already has a daughter but I don't see that as a problem. We went out yesterday and she was happy to go out again tomorrow night. And today I went to see her and me and her daughter got on well too!
I'm well pleased!Thanks for your help guys
Good luck
How are you getting dates so quick?
03 Oct 2018, 6:34 pm
03 Oct 2018, 6:38 pm
Fuzzyair wrote:
Hey guys! Update I just wanted to quickly update you on my current situation. So I have - another - date, fingers crossed this one actually goes well. I'm also employed now, so that can only help, right? The woman I'm dating, Charlene already has a daughter but I don't see that as a problem. We went out yesterday and she was happy to go out again tomorrow night. And today I went to see her and me and her daughter got on well too! I'm well pleased! Thanks for your help guys.
You're welcome! Best wishes for a wonderful date! I hope the two of you develop a good relationship! sly279 wrote:
Good luck. How are you getting dates so quick?
He followed the advice that we've been giving him, of course (the clue is the final sentence of his post).
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03 Oct 2018, 10:05 pm
sly279 wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
rdos wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
How ND guys would rate the points or themselves ? I wasn't rating the points dude , it was a checklist of the qualities/inequalities I have on that list i.e. I'm not well dressed.
I meant how guys rated themselves. If many ND women actually think the points about looks & dressing are important is another issue, but I suspect they are not that important.
It's bit shallow if you ask me ( but that's human nature ) - clothes don't maketh the man. If you want a smart trophy BF look elsewhere
Not really. When I talk about clothing, I'm more referring to being CLEAN and wearing clothes that are appropriate and not ripped, smell, stained, and fit reasonably well.
You have no idea how many guys meet women on a first date and show up looking like they just rolled out of bed, with stained or ripped t-shirts, unwashed messy hair, and smell like they haven't taken a shower in a week. That's not being shallow, that's basic hygiene and good manners. It shows social awareness that they realize they need to at least look halfway presentable.
That happens in comedy movies only.
[Back to reality] Most guys have the common sense to be well groomed on a first date.
When was the last time you dated men?
.
Please stop discounting the things women say. We are the ones with the actual experience dating men.
Nope, but I have seen male friends, siblings, relatives going to dates....everywhere.
The “that” in “that happens only in movie” is the “many” part of your sentence. I don’t believe it’s that common in real life out of general population.
Anyway, please stop doing drama on everything and turning everything to a gender war. You are the most drama-inducing member on WP btw.
Actually, the same can be said to you to many of your replies in the many guys’ complaining threads - they are the ones who are dating women.
I dunno where you were finding that so many slobs, my guess is in online dating.
It really doesn't matter what you believe, because it happens as evidenced by what women have experienced.
If I create drama, so be it. I call out the sexist remarks as I see them. Don't like drama? Don't be sexist and lump all women into one group and dismiss what you have "seen" because you (as a man) have not the experience of actually dating men. When you start dating men, I'll possibly be more open to your criticism. Until then, maybe you can make some more of your fake dating profiles and do another one of your "studies" to prove how awful women are.
So when women talk about dating men it’s experience and we can’t question them on it but when men talk about experience dating women it’s all’s sexist generalizations and misogyny?
If women’s experiences must be treated as valid so should mine and other men’s experiences.
Exactly, Lululuh, I don’t need to do any citation; your whole attitude ever since you joined WP was what he described; you have a very strong double standards.
04 Oct 2018, 6:11 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
rdos wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
How ND guys would rate the points or themselves ? I wasn't rating the points dude , it was a checklist of the qualities/inequalities I have on that list i.e. I'm not well dressed.
I meant how guys rated themselves. If many ND women actually think the points about looks & dressing are important is another issue, but I suspect they are not that important.
It's bit shallow if you ask me ( but that's human nature ) - clothes don't maketh the man. If you want a smart trophy BF look elsewhere
Not really. When I talk about clothing, I'm more referring to being CLEAN and wearing clothes that are appropriate and not ripped, smell, stained, and fit reasonably well.
You have no idea how many guys meet women on a first date and show up looking like they just rolled out of bed, with stained or ripped t-shirts, unwashed messy hair, and smell like they haven't taken a shower in a week. That's not being shallow, that's basic hygiene and good manners. It shows social awareness that they realize they need to at least look halfway presentable.
That happens in comedy movies only.
[Back to reality] Most guys have the common sense to be well groomed on a first date.
When was the last time you dated men?
.
Please stop discounting the things women say. We are the ones with the actual experience dating men.
Nope, but I have seen male friends, siblings, relatives going to dates....everywhere.
The “that” in “that happens only in movie” is the “many” part of your sentence. I don’t believe it’s that common in real life out of general population.
Anyway, please stop doing drama on everything and turning everything to a gender war. You are the most drama-inducing member on WP btw.
Actually, the same can be said to you to many of your replies in the many guys’ complaining threads - they are the ones who are dating women.
I dunno where you were finding that so many slobs, my guess is in online dating.
It really doesn't matter what you believe, because it happens as evidenced by what women have experienced.
If I create drama, so be it. I call out the sexist remarks as I see them. Don't like drama? Don't be sexist and lump all women into one group and dismiss what you have "seen" because you (as a man) have not the experience of actually dating men. When you start dating men, I'll possibly be more open to your criticism. Until then, maybe you can make some more of your fake dating profiles and do another one of your "studies" to prove how awful women are.
So when women talk about dating men it’s experience and we can’t question them on it but when men talk about experience dating women it’s all’s sexist generalizations and misogyny?
If women’s experiences must be treated as valid so should mine and other men’s experiences.
Exactly, Lululuh, I don’t need to do any citation; your whole attitude ever since you joined WP was what he described; you have a very strong double standards.
The original post specifically asked women, what attracts you to a man. If you don't like the topic and the answers don't participate.
I really am not understanding the hostility here from the male users. It's like any suggestion that they may not be perfect is considered a personal criticism. And a few of you are just mad that you can't just say anything you want anymore, now that blatant misogyny is being called out and cracked down on. Too bad for you. Get over it and move on with your lives.
Anyway, the original poster asked for suggestions and I gave them. If you don't like them, tough. And try and stay on topic, guys.
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