cyberdad wrote:
nick007 wrote:
There is NO such thing as a perfect person, everyone has faults except maybe for the iCarly star Miranda Cosgrove who I had a mega huge crush obsession with
of course iCarly is a cute babe designed to capture the teen male viewing market so she's manufactured
She's a goddess
My ideal relationship is spending a lot of time with my partner like sitting on the couch together. We don't have to be doing the same things together; like I could just be next to her on the sofa while she's playing video-games or she could be on her tablet or reading a book while I'm watching TV or playing video-games, or we could both be watching TV but it's a show one of us doesn't like & we take turns with the TV. Laying in bed together cuddling is nice too & she can be doing something else like playing with her tablet at the same time.
As for things I want in a specif partner
~Someone who understands & accepts that I have disabilities(mental & physical 1s), issues, & quirks. She doesn't have to relate to those things but she needs to at least get that they are things I cant really help or would take a lot of time & effort for me to change or improve upon. She cant really push me too hard or get on my case about those things. I don't want someone who will resent me because I don't have my sh!t together with life & that there's lots of things I struggle with. It will also help aLOT if she tries to be supportive & helpful so I can improve in some ways.
~Someone who knows relationships take a lot of work & is willing to put forth some effort instead of things being too one-sided. We don't always have to agree but we should be able to discuss things & try to find compromises when possible.
~Someone who makes me feel secure in the relationship; like makes me feel loved & needed & useful instead of making me feel like she'll be better off without me.
I have this for the most part with my current girlfriend.
Yeah I'm married but my ideal wife/GF from TV world I'd have to say Meg Ryan (she was like perfect) but probably unrealistic. I think it's just good acting...