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09 Dec 2019, 3:17 am

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Sarcasm is not forbidden in L&D but in this particular thread I believe it might be counter-productive.


I am also sick of his personal attacks towards me, especially when I don’t do anything to warrant them.


Like clockwork....keep moaning and then when somebody suggests something constructive you report them


Yet another personal attack. Stop trying to dress it up as anything else. I also didn’t shoot down magz.


Hundreds of people here are trying to help you but you could not care less



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09 Dec 2019, 3:20 am

cyberdad wrote:
Marknis wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
Marknis wrote:
magz wrote:
Sarcasm is not forbidden in L&D but in this particular thread I believe it might be counter-productive.


I am also sick of his personal attacks towards me, especially when I don’t do anything to warrant them.


Like clockwork....keep moaning and then when somebody suggests something constructive you report them


Yet another personal attack. Stop trying to dress it up as anything else. I also didn’t shoot down magz.


Hundreds of people here are trying to help you but you could not care less


You aren’t helping me at all, you are just posting unprovoked personal attacks and sarcasm towards me. I have also been accepting help from others on this site who actually do provide actual advice unlike what you are doing so stop with the conclusion jumping.



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09 Dec 2019, 3:20 am

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I just wish there was a girlfriend waiting for me before the year ends.

That is the problem. You will not find each other if you both wait.



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09 Dec 2019, 3:27 am

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Like clockwork....keep moaning and then when somebody suggests something constructive you report them and then go back to moaning

Calling a person arrogant is not suggesting something constructive.
A lot of constructive advice is ignored all the time, that's life. If I see I can't reach a person with my advice, I go do something else. Yes, there are people on WP I just don't talk to because I know I can't reach them with anything useful.


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09 Dec 2019, 3:29 am

magz wrote:
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Like clockwork....keep moaning and then when somebody suggests something constructive you report them and then go back to moaning

Calling a person arrogant is not suggesting something constructive.
A lot of constructive advice is ignored all the time, that's life. If I see I can't reach a person with my advice, I go do something else. Yes, there are people on WP I just don't talk to because I know I can't reach them with anything useful.


Thank you, magz. I have accepted help from you such as shutting out my stepfather’s voice when I hear it in my mind.

314pe wrote:
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I just wish there was a girlfriend waiting for me before the year ends.

That is the problem. You will not find each other if you both wait.


Learned that the hard way with the “God’s plan” thing and all.

I have to rest now.



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09 Dec 2019, 3:31 am

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Thank you, magz. I have accepted help from you such as shutting out my stepfather’s voice when I hear it in my mind.

I have to rest now.

:)
It's a really nice thing to see :)
Sleep well!


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09 Dec 2019, 4:10 am

magz wrote:
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Thank you, magz. I have accepted help from you such as shutting out my stepfather’s voice when I hear it in my mind.

I have to rest now.

:)
It's a really nice thing to see :)
Sleep well!


wait....didn't he just report us 8O



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09 Dec 2019, 4:11 am

Marknis wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
Marknis wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
Marknis wrote:
magz wrote:
Sarcasm is not forbidden in L&D but in this particular thread I believe it might be counter-productive.


I am also sick of his personal attacks towards me, especially when I don’t do anything to warrant them.


Like clockwork....keep moaning and then when somebody suggests something constructive you report them


Yet another personal attack. Stop trying to dress it up as anything else. I also didn’t shoot down magz.


Hundreds of people here are trying to help you but you could not care less


You aren’t helping me at all, you are just posting unprovoked personal attacks and sarcasm towards me. I have also been accepting help from others on this site who actually do provide actual advice unlike what you are doing so stop with the conclusion jumping.


How exactly is saying you should seek counselling a "personal attack"?



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09 Dec 2019, 4:21 am

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How exactly is saying you should seek counselling a "personal attack"?

I hope Mark is sleeping right now.
Suggestion of counselling is not a personal attack.
Calling one "too arrogant to learn to crawl" and "a lost case" is.


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09 Dec 2019, 8:00 am

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^ At this rate, it would take him about 9-10 years to emerge from it.

Even if so, better this than never.
But this remark is not helpful, anyway.


Neither yours.

Markis needs something else.


Counselling


You mean productive Counselling? Or just "let's talk" shrink counselling?

He needs to do actions, he needs an instructer.



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09 Dec 2019, 8:34 am

cyberdad wrote:
magz wrote:
Marknis wrote:
Thank you, magz. I have accepted help from you such as shutting out my stepfather’s voice when I hear it in my mind.

I have to rest now.

:)
It's a really nice thing to see :)
Sleep well!


wait....didn't he just report us 8O


:roll: No, just you. I would never report magz since she’s actually a kind human being. Again, stop jumping to conclusions.

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How exactly is saying you should seek counselling a "personal attack"?


No, it was telling me s**t like I “moan”, calling me “arrogant”, and a “lost case”.



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09 Dec 2019, 10:14 am

magz wrote:
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How exactly is saying you should seek counselling a "personal attack"?

I hope Mark is sleeping right now.
Suggestion of counselling is not a personal attack.
Calling one "too arrogant to learn to crawl" and "a lost case" is.


I was. Thank you for your concern, magz.



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10 Dec 2019, 1:01 am

Good problem solved....



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10 Dec 2019, 1:02 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

You mean productive Counselling? Or just "let's talk" shrink counselling?

He needs to do actions, he needs an instructer.


A CBT specialist who can reframe negative cognition



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10 Dec 2019, 1:45 am

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Good problem solved....


Nope.



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10 Dec 2019, 5:21 pm

After 8 pages most threads don't improve, Marknis, (usually the reverse) so perhaps its time to lock this one, I suggest you can continue on the other various active threads you have open, most of which are compatible with what you are saying here.

Posters, you don't have to agree, though may I suggest that you consider refraining from posting further if your well intended responses get misinterpreted and/or distorted. I can understand how frustrating this is, and suggest that if you want to vent, take a detour instead to the rants thread in The HAVEN. You could also do a rant there Marknis, instead of getting into pointless circles of discontent aimed at people you disagree with.