07 Aug 2020, 2:44 pm
08 Aug 2020, 12:40 am
RightGalaxy wrote:
Jamesy,
Read this book to protect yourself from people who can utterly ruin your life - "Do You Know Who I Am?" by Dr. Ramini Dervasula. This book will give you a heads up on who to avoid. People losing interest happens to EVERYBODY. People want different things, you have to accept that. I'm sure you have rejected some girls and some girls have rejected you too. I'm not talking about just the last couple of weeks - I'm talking about from the age of 12 or so. I put up with a lot of abuse from a lot of guys. I was the pick of the litter yet all my friends got married. NOBODY was interested. Met my husband who is another aspie with a magazine dating column and we've been together for 30 years. BUT BUT BUT also met a lot of FREAKS from that same magazine. He was the only normal. The only other normals were 30 years my senior. My husband was the same age as me and had his share of disappointment. We were both shocked by each other. We were gorgeous and yet so injured and so sad. During the bad times, I never considered suicide because it is a selfish act but the one thing I did was realize that I might NEVER get married and had to accept that...but I did...at 32.
People need people in many different ways and they are not all romantic ways. Charitable time can give you purpose and the money you spend on pouring harmful booze down your throat can give a hungry person a meal. Jamesy, I understand but you must be strong - think of others.
Read this book to protect yourself from people who can utterly ruin your life - "Do You Know Who I Am?" by Dr. Ramini Dervasula. This book will give you a heads up on who to avoid. People losing interest happens to EVERYBODY. People want different things, you have to accept that. I'm sure you have rejected some girls and some girls have rejected you too. I'm not talking about just the last couple of weeks - I'm talking about from the age of 12 or so. I put up with a lot of abuse from a lot of guys. I was the pick of the litter yet all my friends got married. NOBODY was interested. Met my husband who is another aspie with a magazine dating column and we've been together for 30 years. BUT BUT BUT also met a lot of FREAKS from that same magazine. He was the only normal. The only other normals were 30 years my senior. My husband was the same age as me and had his share of disappointment. We were both shocked by each other. We were gorgeous and yet so injured and so sad. During the bad times, I never considered suicide because it is a selfish act but the one thing I did was realize that I might NEVER get married and had to accept that...but I did...at 32.
People need people in many different ways and they are not all romantic ways. Charitable time can give you purpose and the money you spend on pouring harmful booze down your throat can give a hungry person a meal. Jamesy, I understand but you must be strong - think of others.
Don't hold back.
Tell us what your *really* think.
08 Aug 2020, 3:36 am
CockneyRebel wrote:
I think that you need to toughen up and soldier on. Life is what you make it. You can choose to be happy, or you can choose to be sad. I choose to be happy. Life's better that way.
Well put!! ! See Jamesy, you are not really alone!! !
08 Aug 2020, 3:46 am
08 Aug 2020, 8:01 am
Pepe wrote:
RightGalaxy wrote:
Jamesy,
Read this book to protect yourself from people who can utterly ruin your life - "Do You Know Who I Am?" by Dr. Ramini Dervasula. This book will give you a heads up on who to avoid. People losing interest happens to EVERYBODY. People want different things, you have to accept that. I'm sure you have rejected some girls and some girls have rejected you too. I'm not talking about just the last couple of weeks - I'm talking about from the age of 12 or so. I put up with a lot of abuse from a lot of guys. I was the pick of the litter yet all my friends got married. NOBODY was interested. Met my husband who is another aspie with a magazine dating column and we've been together for 30 years. BUT BUT BUT also met a lot of FREAKS from that same magazine. He was the only normal. The only other normals were 30 years my senior. My husband was the same age as me and had his share of disappointment. We were both shocked by each other. We were gorgeous and yet so injured and so sad. During the bad times, I never considered suicide because it is a selfish act but the one thing I did was realize that I might NEVER get married and had to accept that...but I did...at 32.
People need people in many different ways and they are not all romantic ways. Charitable time can give you purpose and the money you spend on pouring harmful booze down your throat can give a hungry person a meal. Jamesy, I understand but you must be strong - think of others.
Read this book to protect yourself from people who can utterly ruin your life - "Do You Know Who I Am?" by Dr. Ramini Dervasula. This book will give you a heads up on who to avoid. People losing interest happens to EVERYBODY. People want different things, you have to accept that. I'm sure you have rejected some girls and some girls have rejected you too. I'm not talking about just the last couple of weeks - I'm talking about from the age of 12 or so. I put up with a lot of abuse from a lot of guys. I was the pick of the litter yet all my friends got married. NOBODY was interested. Met my husband who is another aspie with a magazine dating column and we've been together for 30 years. BUT BUT BUT also met a lot of FREAKS from that same magazine. He was the only normal. The only other normals were 30 years my senior. My husband was the same age as me and had his share of disappointment. We were both shocked by each other. We were gorgeous and yet so injured and so sad. During the bad times, I never considered suicide because it is a selfish act but the one thing I did was realize that I might NEVER get married and had to accept that...but I did...at 32.
People need people in many different ways and they are not all romantic ways. Charitable time can give you purpose and the money you spend on pouring harmful booze down your throat can give a hungry person a meal. Jamesy, I understand but you must be strong - think of others.
Don't hold back.
Tell us what your *really* think.
I don't understand. What r u talking about?
08 Aug 2020, 8:21 am
RightGalaxy wrote:
Pepe wrote:
RightGalaxy wrote:
Jamesy,
Read this book to protect yourself from people who can utterly ruin your life - "Do You Know Who I Am?" by Dr. Ramini Dervasula. This book will give you a heads up on who to avoid. People losing interest happens to EVERYBODY. People want different things, you have to accept that. I'm sure you have rejected some girls and some girls have rejected you too. I'm not talking about just the last couple of weeks - I'm talking about from the age of 12 or so. I put up with a lot of abuse from a lot of guys. I was the pick of the litter yet all my friends got married. NOBODY was interested. Met my husband who is another aspie with a magazine dating column and we've been together for 30 years. BUT BUT BUT also met a lot of FREAKS from that same magazine. He was the only normal. The only other normals were 30 years my senior. My husband was the same age as me and had his share of disappointment. We were both shocked by each other. We were gorgeous and yet so injured and so sad. During the bad times, I never considered suicide because it is a selfish act but the one thing I did was realize that I might NEVER get married and had to accept that...but I did...at 32.
People need people in many different ways and they are not all romantic ways. Charitable time can give you purpose and the money you spend on pouring harmful booze down your throat can give a hungry person a meal. Jamesy, I understand but you must be strong - think of others.
Read this book to protect yourself from people who can utterly ruin your life - "Do You Know Who I Am?" by Dr. Ramini Dervasula. This book will give you a heads up on who to avoid. People losing interest happens to EVERYBODY. People want different things, you have to accept that. I'm sure you have rejected some girls and some girls have rejected you too. I'm not talking about just the last couple of weeks - I'm talking about from the age of 12 or so. I put up with a lot of abuse from a lot of guys. I was the pick of the litter yet all my friends got married. NOBODY was interested. Met my husband who is another aspie with a magazine dating column and we've been together for 30 years. BUT BUT BUT also met a lot of FREAKS from that same magazine. He was the only normal. The only other normals were 30 years my senior. My husband was the same age as me and had his share of disappointment. We were both shocked by each other. We were gorgeous and yet so injured and so sad. During the bad times, I never considered suicide because it is a selfish act but the one thing I did was realize that I might NEVER get married and had to accept that...but I did...at 32.
People need people in many different ways and they are not all romantic ways. Charitable time can give you purpose and the money you spend on pouring harmful booze down your throat can give a hungry person a meal. Jamesy, I understand but you must be strong - think of others.
Don't hold back.
Tell us what your *really* think.
I don't understand. What r u talking about?
It's humour ( irony ) RG , a funny way of saying you did not hold back with your comment
08 Aug 2020, 6:46 pm
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
RightGalaxy wrote:
Pepe wrote:
RightGalaxy wrote:
Jamesy,
Read this book to protect yourself from people who can utterly ruin your life - "Do You Know Who I Am?" by Dr. Ramini Dervasula. This book will give you a heads up on who to avoid. People losing interest happens to EVERYBODY. People want different things, you have to accept that. I'm sure you have rejected some girls and some girls have rejected you too. I'm not talking about just the last couple of weeks - I'm talking about from the age of 12 or so. I put up with a lot of abuse from a lot of guys. I was the pick of the litter yet all my friends got married. NOBODY was interested. Met my husband who is another aspie with a magazine dating column and we've been together for 30 years. BUT BUT BUT also met a lot of FREAKS from that same magazine. He was the only normal. The only other normals were 30 years my senior. My husband was the same age as me and had his share of disappointment. We were both shocked by each other. We were gorgeous and yet so injured and so sad. During the bad times, I never considered suicide because it is a selfish act but the one thing I did was realize that I might NEVER get married and had to accept that...but I did...at 32.
People need people in many different ways and they are not all romantic ways. Charitable time can give you purpose and the money you spend on pouring harmful booze down your throat can give a hungry person a meal. Jamesy, I understand but you must be strong - think of others.
Read this book to protect yourself from people who can utterly ruin your life - "Do You Know Who I Am?" by Dr. Ramini Dervasula. This book will give you a heads up on who to avoid. People losing interest happens to EVERYBODY. People want different things, you have to accept that. I'm sure you have rejected some girls and some girls have rejected you too. I'm not talking about just the last couple of weeks - I'm talking about from the age of 12 or so. I put up with a lot of abuse from a lot of guys. I was the pick of the litter yet all my friends got married. NOBODY was interested. Met my husband who is another aspie with a magazine dating column and we've been together for 30 years. BUT BUT BUT also met a lot of FREAKS from that same magazine. He was the only normal. The only other normals were 30 years my senior. My husband was the same age as me and had his share of disappointment. We were both shocked by each other. We were gorgeous and yet so injured and so sad. During the bad times, I never considered suicide because it is a selfish act but the one thing I did was realize that I might NEVER get married and had to accept that...but I did...at 32.
People need people in many different ways and they are not all romantic ways. Charitable time can give you purpose and the money you spend on pouring harmful booze down your throat can give a hungry person a meal. Jamesy, I understand but you must be strong - think of others.
Don't hold back.
Tell us what your *really* think.
I don't understand. What r u talking about?
It's humour ( irony ) RG , a funny way of saying you did not hold back with your comment
Bingo!
08 Aug 2020, 7:49 pm
Pepe wrote:
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
RightGalaxy wrote:
Pepe wrote:
RightGalaxy wrote:
Jamesy,
Read this book to protect yourself from people who can utterly ruin your life - "Do You Know Who I Am?" by Dr. Ramini Dervasula. This book will give you a heads up on who to avoid. People losing interest happens to EVERYBODY. People want different things, you have to accept that. I'm sure you have rejected some girls and some girls have rejected you too. I'm not talking about just the last couple of weeks - I'm talking about from the age of 12 or so. I put up with a lot of abuse from a lot of guys. I was the pick of the litter yet all my friends got married. NOBODY was interested. Met my husband who is another aspie with a magazine dating column and we've been together for 30 years. BUT BUT BUT also met a lot of FREAKS from that same magazine. He was the only normal. The only other normals were 30 years my senior. My husband was the same age as me and had his share of disappointment. We were both shocked by each other. We were gorgeous and yet so injured and so sad. During the bad times, I never considered suicide because it is a selfish act but the one thing I did was realize that I might NEVER get married and had to accept that...but I did...at 32.
People need people in many different ways and they are not all romantic ways. Charitable time can give you purpose and the money you spend on pouring harmful booze down your throat can give a hungry person a meal. Jamesy, I understand but you must be strong - think of others.
Read this book to protect yourself from people who can utterly ruin your life - "Do You Know Who I Am?" by Dr. Ramini Dervasula. This book will give you a heads up on who to avoid. People losing interest happens to EVERYBODY. People want different things, you have to accept that. I'm sure you have rejected some girls and some girls have rejected you too. I'm not talking about just the last couple of weeks - I'm talking about from the age of 12 or so. I put up with a lot of abuse from a lot of guys. I was the pick of the litter yet all my friends got married. NOBODY was interested. Met my husband who is another aspie with a magazine dating column and we've been together for 30 years. BUT BUT BUT also met a lot of FREAKS from that same magazine. He was the only normal. The only other normals were 30 years my senior. My husband was the same age as me and had his share of disappointment. We were both shocked by each other. We were gorgeous and yet so injured and so sad. During the bad times, I never considered suicide because it is a selfish act but the one thing I did was realize that I might NEVER get married and had to accept that...but I did...at 32.
People need people in many different ways and they are not all romantic ways. Charitable time can give you purpose and the money you spend on pouring harmful booze down your throat can give a hungry person a meal. Jamesy, I understand but you must be strong - think of others.
Don't hold back.
Tell us what your *really* think.
I don't understand. What r u talking about?
It's humour ( irony ) RG , a funny way of saying you did not hold back with your comment
Bingo!
but why would I hold back?
10 Aug 2020, 6:45 am
RightGalaxy wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
RightGalaxy wrote:
Pepe wrote:
RightGalaxy wrote:
Jamesy,
Read this book to protect yourself from people who can utterly ruin your life - "Do You Know Who I Am?" by Dr. Ramini Dervasula. This book will give you a heads up on who to avoid. People losing interest happens to EVERYBODY. People want different things, you have to accept that. I'm sure you have rejected some girls and some girls have rejected you too. I'm not talking about just the last couple of weeks - I'm talking about from the age of 12 or so. I put up with a lot of abuse from a lot of guys. I was the pick of the litter yet all my friends got married. NOBODY was interested. Met my husband who is another aspie with a magazine dating column and we've been together for 30 years. BUT BUT BUT also met a lot of FREAKS from that same magazine. He was the only normal. The only other normals were 30 years my senior. My husband was the same age as me and had his share of disappointment. We were both shocked by each other. We were gorgeous and yet so injured and so sad. During the bad times, I never considered suicide because it is a selfish act but the one thing I did was realize that I might NEVER get married and had to accept that...but I did...at 32.
People need people in many different ways and they are not all romantic ways. Charitable time can give you purpose and the money you spend on pouring harmful booze down your throat can give a hungry person a meal. Jamesy, I understand but you must be strong - think of others.
Read this book to protect yourself from people who can utterly ruin your life - "Do You Know Who I Am?" by Dr. Ramini Dervasula. This book will give you a heads up on who to avoid. People losing interest happens to EVERYBODY. People want different things, you have to accept that. I'm sure you have rejected some girls and some girls have rejected you too. I'm not talking about just the last couple of weeks - I'm talking about from the age of 12 or so. I put up with a lot of abuse from a lot of guys. I was the pick of the litter yet all my friends got married. NOBODY was interested. Met my husband who is another aspie with a magazine dating column and we've been together for 30 years. BUT BUT BUT also met a lot of FREAKS from that same magazine. He was the only normal. The only other normals were 30 years my senior. My husband was the same age as me and had his share of disappointment. We were both shocked by each other. We were gorgeous and yet so injured and so sad. During the bad times, I never considered suicide because it is a selfish act but the one thing I did was realize that I might NEVER get married and had to accept that...but I did...at 32.
People need people in many different ways and they are not all romantic ways. Charitable time can give you purpose and the money you spend on pouring harmful booze down your throat can give a hungry person a meal. Jamesy, I understand but you must be strong - think of others.
Don't hold back.
Tell us what your *really* think.
I don't understand. What r u talking about?
It's humour ( irony ) RG , a funny way of saying you did not hold back with your comment
Bingo!
but why would I hold back?
Because you are an aspie, and because there are no emojis indicating humour,
I'll take your comment literally.
No reason why you shouldn't be "Aspie Honest".
I am the resident comedian and just look for humour where I can.
I enjoy the creative challenge.
10 Aug 2020, 7:19 pm
Jamesy wrote:
The worst part of it is then seeing photos of the girls who have ‘lost interest’ in me on social media sites like Facebook and Instagram.
It’s just like a painful reminder
It’s just like a painful reminder
You sound like my daughter talking! This is unreal. Just yesterday, she invited a newer female friend out and the girl declined saying Covid 19 is out there and her mom has underlying health problems yet my daughter saw her and her other friends all over snapchat.
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11 Aug 2020, 9:10 am
RightGalaxy wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
The worst part of it is then seeing photos of the girls who have ‘lost interest’ in me on social media sites like Facebook and Instagram.
It’s just like a painful reminder
It’s just like a painful reminder
You sound like my daughter talking! This is unreal. Just yesterday, she invited a newer female friend out and the girl declined saying Covid 19 is out there and her mom has underlying health problems yet my daughter saw her and her other friends all over snapchat.
I call it the dark side of social media
11 Aug 2020, 2:05 pm
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