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29 Jan 2021, 4:23 pm
Rexi wrote:
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Wut? 
Are you suggesting I talk to my friends about their sex lives instead of having my own? LOL No. Nothing could be further from the truth. I almost never talk to my friends about theirs or my sex lives, with the exception of very few who like to bring those topics up from time to time because it's just part of their personality.. and I've personally had hundreds of sex partners soooo have learned plenty from my own experiences, thank you very much.
Stop drawing ridiculous conclusions based on nothing but your own assumptions. It's stupid.
Are you suggesting I talk to my friends about their sex lives instead of having my own? LOL No. Nothing could be further from the truth. I almost never talk to my friends about theirs or my sex lives, with the exception of very few who like to bring those topics up from time to time because it's just part of their personality.. and I've personally had hundreds of sex partners soooo have learned plenty from my own experiences, thank you very much.
Stop drawing ridiculous conclusions based on nothing but your own assumptions. It's stupid.
It's a form of communication, you slutmunicate too much.
You were the one who said you don't interrogate your sex partners.
So whatever you see you might not understand the workings behind it.
If you would explain it, it would help me out. Do you ask your partners about their experiences and lives, do you see their interests and fetishes, their affection needs and the things they enjoy apart of physical sexual experiences, the things they like to hear and why, the things they want to talk about or be asked?
No.. because they are male and we are simple - none of those complex female interest things apply.
We trade nude photos, discuss sexual health & preferences, and arrange to meet and f**k. Simple as that!
Literally hundreds of experiences can't be wrong..
We're gay males, not lesbian women trying to create and maintain emotional bonds.
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29 Jan 2021, 4:29 pm
goldfish21 wrote:
Rexi wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Wut?
Are you suggesting I talk to my friends about their sex lives instead of having my own? LOL No. Nothing could be further from the truth. I almost never talk to my friends about theirs or my sex lives, with the exception of very few who like to bring those topics up from time to time because it's just part of their personality.. and I've personally had hundreds of sex partners soooo have learned plenty from my own experiences, thank you very much.
Stop drawing ridiculous conclusions based on nothing but your own assumptions. It's stupid.
Are you suggesting I talk to my friends about their sex lives instead of having my own? LOL No. Nothing could be further from the truth. I almost never talk to my friends about theirs or my sex lives, with the exception of very few who like to bring those topics up from time to time because it's just part of their personality.. and I've personally had hundreds of sex partners soooo have learned plenty from my own experiences, thank you very much.
Stop drawing ridiculous conclusions based on nothing but your own assumptions. It's stupid.
It's a form of communication, you slutmunicate too much.
You were the one who said you don't interrogate your sex partners.
So whatever you see you might not understand the workings behind it.
If you would explain it, it would help me out. Do you ask your partners about their experiences and lives, do you see their interests and fetishes, their affection needs and the things they enjoy apart of physical sexual experiences, the things they like to hear and why, the things they want to talk about or be asked?
No.. because they are male and we are simple - none of those complex female interest things apply.
We trade nude photos, discuss sexual health & preferences, and arrange to meet and f**k. Simple as that!
Literally hundreds of experiences can't be wrong..
We're gay males, not lesbian women trying to create and maintain emotional bonds.Well there are men who enjoy these kinds of talks and actually achieve more fulfilling experiences and have emotional needs.
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29 Jan 2021, 4:31 pm
Rexi wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Rexi wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Wut?
Are you suggesting I talk to my friends about their sex lives instead of having my own? LOL No. Nothing could be further from the truth. I almost never talk to my friends about theirs or my sex lives, with the exception of very few who like to bring those topics up from time to time because it's just part of their personality.. and I've personally had hundreds of sex partners soooo have learned plenty from my own experiences, thank you very much.
Stop drawing ridiculous conclusions based on nothing but your own assumptions. It's stupid.
Are you suggesting I talk to my friends about their sex lives instead of having my own? LOL No. Nothing could be further from the truth. I almost never talk to my friends about theirs or my sex lives, with the exception of very few who like to bring those topics up from time to time because it's just part of their personality.. and I've personally had hundreds of sex partners soooo have learned plenty from my own experiences, thank you very much.
Stop drawing ridiculous conclusions based on nothing but your own assumptions. It's stupid.
It's a form of communication, you slutmunicate too much.
You were the one who said you don't interrogate your sex partners.
So whatever you see you might not understand the workings behind it.
If you would explain it, it would help me out. Do you ask your partners about their experiences and lives, do you see their interests and fetishes, their affection needs and the things they enjoy apart of physical sexual experiences, the things they like to hear and why, the things they want to talk about or be asked?
No.. because they are male and we are simple - none of those complex female interest things apply.
We trade nude photos, discuss sexual health & preferences, and arrange to meet and f**k. Simple as that!
Literally hundreds of experiences can't be wrong..
We're gay males, not lesbian women trying to create and maintain emotional bonds.Well there are men who enjoy these kinds of talks and actually achieve more fulfilling experiences and have emotional needs.
Ok.
They exist. I've chatted with some. But they are the minority on a GAY HOOKUP APP where MOST gay males are there for more immediate sexual purposes, not seeking their soulmate. Tis the difference between simple gay male culture and female complexities that we tend not to have much of anything to do with.
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29 Jan 2021, 4:33 pm
goldfish21 wrote:
We trade nude photos, discuss sexual health & preferences, and arrange to meet and f**k. Simple as that!
Literally hundreds of experiences can't be wrong.. We're gay males, not lesbian women trying to create and maintain emotional bonds.
Literally hundreds of experiences can't be wrong..
We're gay males, not lesbian women trying to create and maintain emotional bonds.Why do gay men get married?
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goldfish21 wrote:
The exist. I've chatted with some. But they are the minority on a GAY HOOKUP APP where MOST gay males are there for more immediate sexual purposes, not seeking their soulmate.
You're basing your whole view of men only being interested in sex only on men you've met on a gay hookup app? I think all people have autism...
based on the people I've spoken to here.
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29 Jan 2021, 4:36 pm
OutsideView wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
We trade nude photos, discuss sexual health & preferences, and arrange to meet and f**k. Simple as that!
Literally hundreds of experiences can't be wrong.. We're gay males, not lesbian women trying to create and maintain emotional bonds.
Literally hundreds of experiences can't be wrong..
We're gay males, not lesbian women trying to create and maintain emotional bonds.Why do gay men get married?
To keep divorce lawyers in business I guess...
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29 Jan 2021, 4:57 pm
OutsideView wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
We trade nude photos, discuss sexual health & preferences, and arrange to meet and f**k. Simple as that!
Literally hundreds of experiences can't be wrong.. We're gay males, not lesbian women trying to create and maintain emotional bonds.
Literally hundreds of experiences can't be wrong..
We're gay males, not lesbian women trying to create and maintain emotional bonds.Why do gay men get married?
Edit:
goldfish21 wrote:
The exist. I've chatted with some. But they are the minority on a GAY HOOKUP APP where MOST gay males are there for more immediate sexual purposes, not seeking their soulmate.
You're basing your whole view of men only being interested in sex only on men you've met on a gay hookup app? I think all people have autism...
based on the people I've spoken to here.
What is your experience with gay male culture, exactly?
I can tell you for a fact that MOST gay males aren't in long term relationships or marriages, they're in short term instant gratification hookup relationships. Just the way it is. Yes, with evolving societal acceptance of gays there is more dating, relationships, and marriages than ever before - but those connections are still the minority compared to the single gay male that parties and sluts it up whenever he pleases. Simple fact of the way gay life is.
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29 Jan 2021, 5:00 pm
r00tb33r wrote:
OutsideView wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
We trade nude photos, discuss sexual health & preferences, and arrange to meet and f**k. Simple as that!
Literally hundreds of experiences can't be wrong.. We're gay males, not lesbian women trying to create and maintain emotional bonds.
Literally hundreds of experiences can't be wrong..
We're gay males, not lesbian women trying to create and maintain emotional bonds.Why do gay men get married?
To keep divorce lawyers in business I guess...
And also for tax/healthcare benefits - legal acknowledgement of their relationships. And some just to have the same social standing as their hetero counterparts. Others yet for the same fairytale marriage dreams typical of young women. Some possibly to make their relationship concrete on paper so they're better candidates as adoptive parents. A multitude of reasons, really, some of which may be business relationships complete with prenups, and others even for love.
Why would gays who get married be expected to have different reasons than anyone else? Or to explain their reasons to anyone else? Rather between them, isn't it?
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29 Jan 2021, 5:44 pm
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29 Jan 2021, 6:32 pm
kraftiekortie wrote:
I don't "just want to f**k." I'm a demisexual; I like ladies with good minds
As for KT's question: she was outwardly "ugly"---but I found her beautiful
As for KT's question: she was outwardly "ugly"---but I found her beautiful
Ah so it was probably more of a romantic crush then
I think for sexual people, looks matter a great deal.
Probably less so if you're demisexual or asexual.
I wouldn't date someone who I wasn't physically into. Not anymore. Been there, done that, disliked it. Did it out of a sense that being single was inferior somehow so date/settle for whoever shows you interest - bad idea.
Dating someone you're in love with/attracted to on a mental level but not physically obsessed with when you're demi sexual seems a nice/good idea to me
Not my cup of tea but still a nice idea.
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