The only women my age I would be interested in

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When will you apply your real life philosophy to online socialising? <joke>

'Haha very funny.

I thought so.

Keep on setting yourself up for my punch line.

What punchline?

Where is the talk about children and religion? :c These two dont know what to talk about on a first date

Coffee also stains teeth.

I can't ever get love with the stupid race i've been given

I must admit, my mind reading skills aren't what they used to be.

Lmao. That means in translation, don't push the topic. Details are better left alone.

By the way, about me not being a fan of coffee, however unexpected that might be, coffee consumption probably would go well with high risk takers (which i normally dont do unless something's going on). I have to learn how to party like a geek.

Also coffee also contributes to bp, as opposed to green coffee which has the opposite effect because it was treated differently. Kinda like green tea is lame compared to white tea, and their prep processes are similar to green vs black coffee. But id take green tea anytime over black coffee. Except it tastes like Bitrex on soap and every other tea is better.

Moving on from tea coffee also gives insomnia, I used to take these substances, one of which was a plant containing caffeine, and id take 1 pill in the morning, but i couldnt sleep at night. Same with any other plant I tried that would boost my focus bc adhd meds are too dangerous long term and I was losing my job. They caused an insomnia that was affecting me pretty early and bad enough to give them up.

I realized caffeine is one of the most accessible substances and maybe cheapest that would be able to be used, and that's how I understand its mass usage, but coincidentally it is not caffeine which gives green or white tea which is low caffeine, their effects, it is actually other effects in the plant which contribute to boosting focus and awakeness, which says a lot considering caffeine is ridden with awful side effects and makes you a freakish addict and addicts are selfish and silly looking.

All in all, caffeine isnt that bad but when people speak of it a lot like some amazing thing it's really annoying. It is however not the best choice and certainly not the one for me.

Coffee and Redbull are the drug of choice for nerds as well.

Trains. The only thing women your age would be interested in is trains.

The joys of polygamy

That's very true though. High risk nerds xD My best or should I say calmest ex was into coffee. She was a big nerd. Impressive how coffee doesn't energize some peoples negative brain patterns and how alcohol makes some people automatically angry depending on their childhood traumas.

And the challenges that come with it...

Can you explain what exactly it is?

That's kinda what I meant. In order to attract a partner, you must have something about you that they find attractive(I mean You in the general sense). Personality & inner beauty doesn't always get noticed rite away, especially for people that are misunderstood & tend to make bad 1st impressions as a result like those of us on the spectrum. It can take time to fully gauge someone's personality & people need a reason to give somebody a chance. Just because the money & financial stability is initially attractive, it does NOT mean that deep real love can not develop over time as the couple get to know each other. A common struggle can be good for bringing some people together & helping them fall in love but so can being able to compensate for each other's strengths & weaknesses. For example it's common for men to be the main financial providers within a relationship & for the woman to handle the majority of the the housework & raising kids(aka domestic responsibilities). It could be looked at as the man & woman each using the other, the man is using the woman so he would not have to do housework & not have to help with the kids as much, & the woman is using the man so she would not have to get a real job or not have to work more hours in a real job. Or it can be looked at as a symbiotic relationship where they each bring something to the table.

I've meantioned this before in various posts in this forum but I'll touch on it again. Due to the traditional gender roles with relationships, it is common for women to expect that they will have to do the majority of the housework & raising the kids. Women also tend to earn less than men from employment & lots of companies here in the US do not offer paid family & medical leave & it is also common for a person's health insurance to be tied to a person's job. When a man is not gainfully employed, women worry that they will have to work long hours from a job where they are employed in order to make ends meat & the women also worry that they would have to do the majority of the housework & raising kids on top of that. That is even more of a concern when the guy is disabled. He might not be able to handle the housework much at all & he might end up running up a lot of medical debt. If a disabled guy is gainfully employed &/or has a bit of money & resources saved up, women tend to be less wary about that unless there is a chance the guy's disabilities could suddenly get worse. I know that sounds harsh & judgemental & is not always the case but it is a fairly common concern women have about dating disabled guys & autism is a disability.



It's like that for me & my girlfriend as well except she could still afford our apartment due to her benefits but she couldn't handle living alone so a family member would have to move in with her. She finds me easier to live with than her family & I find her easier to live with than my parents. We are also both loyal to a fault. We both worry about the other a lot & I am very protective of her. We are also very affectionate with each other, each find the other very cute sometimes, & we do miss each other when we spend a few days apart(like when she spends a few nights with family or when I would spend a couple weeks with my parents during the summer) so we do love each other even thou our relationship is symbiotic.