I don't care for "Love on the Spectrum"

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Oh okay I see. That's too bad. As for women who are in average leagues refusing to settle, because they still want all the hot guys who all the other women are getting too, why is it that those women refuse to settle, or where did all this stubbornness come from?

wish i could answer that. the heart wants what it wants.

Oh okay. I'm sorry to hear that it's like that for some guys compared to gals.

Are people on the spectrum like this as well, like do women rather want just casual sex with hot guys rather than a guy who will commit to them?

in this regard, women are women whether or not they're on the spectrum. when most women age towards the end of their fertility window and have had their fun, then they are willing to settle down for the right [higher-ranking] male. seems men who lack college degrees, looks, charm and social status are the last to be considered.

Oh okay. Do men just as commonly have this phase too, where they want to have a lot of sexual fun before settling down?

Oh okay are you saying that people divorce more because they want to go out and have sexual fun, or because of cheating more?

Oh I see. But why is having such a big number of sex partners under a person's belt, such a big deal to a lot of people?

But do guys really care if a woman's number of past partners is that high though? Do guys care to be taught? But also, if women do it for social rank, do they really need to if guys don't seem to care? Plus does that mean it's a myth that most women lie about how many partners they have had and lessen the number, when in fact a bigger number, means increased social rank?

men will willingly deflower virgins, but some men will prefer experienced women they can sock it too without worrying about hurting them. and some folks such as myself would love to be taught; short of mind-reading, how else to perform as needed? for men only, it is a mark of social rank, but there is a societal conceit, a hypocrisy when referring to women who do the same thing. i for one thing that is just unfair.

Oh yeah that makes sense. I like the idea of a woman teaching as well, but I thought a lot of guys wouldn't care about that. I too also agree, that there it's only fair to for women as well, in terms of a number of partners.

But if it's more of a social rank thing with men than with women, then why do a lot of women want to have a high body count as well, before settling down later on in life?

Oh okay, so is it perhaps women need to go through a lot of guys before they find one that is good in bed, so to speak then, and that is why women do it, compared to men?