What Are Your Biggest Put-Offs?

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11 Sep 2007, 6:30 pm

Dishonesty
Neat Freak
Listens to Rap Music
Hipster
Control Freak
Hater of Small Children
Immature
Dresses like a Prostitute
Asexual
Socially/Politically Conservative

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11 Sep 2007, 7:02 pm

Nambo wrote:

I cannot abide girls who look for insults in everything you say, like talkings not hard enough anyway, but say she wears a pretty dress and you say, "you look gorgeous in that dress" and girl says, "so your saying that normally I look awfull?" and goes off with the hump.

You know, I've just realized that if they try that you need some assertive bit of humor to respond to that kind of thing with to put them back in check. They're putting you in an awkward place, they know they're full of it, and its really like they're testing you to see what your made of. I'd try to give you an example but if you really wanted to answer that right you'd have to give her a jab about something personal in your own lives - not a diss, kinda more like your lightly cracking on her, indirectly answering that question with 'yeah, that sounds a bout right'.

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Whats that all about?, they then start crying when I finish with them so they must have wanted me, is this how NTs fall in Love or something?

They're so hung up in the whole game of tongue & cheek banter, mutually understood hoops and tests, that when they run into someone like yourself they don't understand what they're dealing with. You'll have that though, its good to be understanding of that fact but then again don't own it like its on you to completely be on their turf either.

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13 Sep 2007, 2:53 pm

Gossipy, overbearing, abusive, psycho b*****s. Idiots, girls who don't douche. I can smell it a mile away YUCK!! !! !! !! !! !! !! ! Drones, s**t talkers, hip hop gangsta wannabe's, to liberal, to conservative, spineless, arrogance, cleany. Snobs

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13 Sep 2007, 7:47 pm

Men who find the natural scent of a healthy p**** so repulsive that they think it needs to be expunged.

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Analyses indicated that vaginal douching increases the overall risk of pelvic inflammatory disease by 73% and the risk of ectopic pregnancy by 76%. Frequent douching was shown to be highly associated with pelvic inflammatory disease and modestly associated with cervical cancer.

http://www.pubmedcentral.nih.gov/articl ... id=1380899

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whether women douched because they had symptoms or for other reasons, their odds of bacterial vaginosis were about three times those of women who did not douche

from http://www.guttmacher.org/pubs/journals/3410702.html

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The weight of the evidence today suggests that stronger regulations for vaginal douche products may be indicated, including ingredient control, clearer labeling, and a required statement on product advertisements and on the products themselves that douche products have no proven medical value and may be harmful... since there are no demonstrated benefits to douching and considerable evidence of harm, women should be encouraged to not douche.

from http://epirev.oxfordjournals.org/cgi/co ... l/24/2/109

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13 Sep 2007, 7:48 pm

p****'s DO need cleaning. Preferably by tongue.

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13 Sep 2007, 8:06 pm

calandale wrote:

p****'s DO need cleaning. Preferably by tongue.

Eh, that's more for the front though. Most women that I've met aren't really into getting penetration off of that and especially if it could use a wash I'm not sure you'd really want to get the full empirical experience of just how much they needed it (and unless she's generally nappy she'd probably be pretty self-conscious).

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13 Sep 2007, 8:09 pm

Um, just to clarify, I wasn't suggesting women shouldn't wash externally.

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13 Sep 2007, 8:12 pm

More fun to let someone else do it.

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14 Sep 2007, 2:48 am

It's actually quite surprising how many guys don't understand the female anatomy. I know one guy who thought we peed out of our vaginas.

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14 Sep 2007, 2:53 am

Women that down-play their intelligence, pretending to have poor memory and stupidity.

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14 Sep 2007, 3:01 am

Jimbogf wrote:

Women that down-play their intelligence, pretending to have poor memory and stupidity.

Maybe they really are stupid.

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14 Sep 2007, 3:07 am

zee wrote:

Jimbogf wrote:

Women that down-play their intelligence, pretending to have poor memory and stupidity.

Maybe they really are stupid.

Always a possibility.

Having Asperger's, we should be mindful that we don't really have any idea of exactly how another person's mind works. Maybe stupidity has nothing to do with it, and such claims are just shorthand for "I don't know what it is, exactly, but I'm different and some seemingly easy tasks are difficult for me."

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14 Sep 2007, 3:23 am

Girls who honestly think that they're the centre of everything
If people know what I mean by that...

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14 Sep 2007, 3:36 am

Just quoting from a thread from plentyoffish

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Im in my forties and not perfect like a lot of women in there 40's and 50's unfortunately. But I am a proud size 16 and bubbly blonde.

Men would any of these put you off a woman you are in bed with?

Big flabby shapeless bottom?

Saggy boobs?

Large stretch marks across the body?

Hairy legs or armpits or very bushy "down there"?

Very bad breath?

Scaly skin?

Loose vagina?

spotty bum?

Low sex drive?

If you fancied her would these matter?

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14 Sep 2007, 3:48 am

zee wrote:

Jimbogf wrote:

Women that down-play their intelligence, pretending to have poor memory and stupidity.

Maybe they really are stupid.

NO they are not, I know the reason why they do it. It still just unsettles me however.

I have my own habit of feigning ignorance. Which I'm sure that is a turn-off as well.

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14 Sep 2007, 5:15 am

The hell with everyone.

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