Why do girls want cocky, arrogant guys?

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04 Aug 2005, 5:17 pm

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gimps.

Pardon my ignorance, but what's a gimp?

Sex slave. Or someone in bondage.


Hehehe. Sure - but only if he's 100% willing. :wink:


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04 Aug 2005, 5:19 pm

SINsister wrote:
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gimps.

Pardon my ignorance, but what's a gimp?

Sex slave. Or someone in bondage.


Hehehe. Sure - but only if he's 100% willing. :wink:

He would be.


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05 Aug 2005, 2:31 am

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Hale_bopp, you need what my sister has, an arrogant, confident nerd. My sister's boyfriend of 2 years is a computer geek who works on mining haul trucks for $80,000 a year. He's not a girly man by any means but he is quite eccentric, often quoting starwars and stuff like that.
Anytime she has a problem with creditors or someone is trying to screw her over (just anything typical like ordering a cellphone or the airline losing her baggage). He gets right on the phone and right in their face and sorts things out really quickly. He will do almost anything for her and it's no figure of speech for him either.
You remind me alot of her for some reason and that's what she used to go after too, the so called "alphas" with the nice cars and the right things to say all the time.

Go find a supernerd my dear, you might not be disappointed.


You're missing what I mean.. I don't like geeks, they really annoy me. I can't relate to them, and I don't think they are sexy.



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05 Aug 2005, 3:32 am

heh, I guess you are too good for us princess ;)

*runs and hides behind the book of generalizations expecting devastating retaliation against the star wars collection!*


(it can be a star trek collection, if you wish)


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05 Aug 2005, 7:45 am

Give in to the daaaak sieeedd of tha foce!! !! !

I bet if you and my sister were in the same room, I wouldn't be able to tell you apart until I heard the accents.

Of course my sister does still have alot of macho guys like that as friends given that her BF doesn't like Snowmobiles, watercraft, and the other dangerous motorsports that she loves so much. She's like mom, she can't get along with other girls without tearing their heads off.



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05 Aug 2005, 11:13 am

hale_bopp wrote:
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Hale_bopp, you need what my sister has, an arrogant, confident nerd. My sister's boyfriend of 2 years is a computer geek who works on mining haul trucks for $80,000 a year. He's not a girly man by any means but he is quite eccentric, often quoting starwars and stuff like that.
Anytime she has a problem with creditors or someone is trying to screw her over (just anything typical like ordering a cellphone or the airline losing her baggage). He gets right on the phone and right in their face and sorts things out really quickly. He will do almost anything for her and it's no figure of speech for him either.
You remind me alot of her for some reason and that's what she used to go after too, the so called "alphas" with the nice cars and the right things to say all the time.

Go find a supernerd my dear, you might not be disappointed.


You're missing what I mean.. I don't like geeks, they really annoy me. I can't relate to them, and I don't think they are sexy.

What about harcore rockers?


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05 Aug 2005, 2:33 pm

I've actually asked women this very question. Here is the answer I got: nice guys are boring. While not all women believe this, there are a lot that do.

I think the actual question I asked was: "Why is it that women often complain that they want a nice guy, but then turn around and date some mindless troglodyte."


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05 Aug 2005, 2:39 pm

Becuase either:

A: They have a warped definition of a nice guy
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B: They're desperate and a mindless troglodyte is the best they can do.


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05 Aug 2005, 2:43 pm

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They're desperate and a mindless troglodyte is the best they can do.


See? I'm desperate, and yet I flat-out refuse to go near mindless troglodytes. So what does that make me? :roll:


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05 Aug 2005, 2:45 pm

Refer to 'A' in my above post.


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05 Aug 2005, 2:52 pm

Refer to *slap!* in this one. :P :wink:


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05 Aug 2005, 3:54 pm

thatrsdude wrote:
A: They have a warped definition of a nice guy

B: They're desperate and a mindless troglodyte is the best they can do.


Most of the girls I've known wanted to be with a guy who was cocky and arrogant, but not stupid, one who would be good at manipulating the emotions, one who would make girls feel fear and lust, and make his enemies collapse into an emotional hell with but a few words.



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05 Aug 2005, 3:59 pm

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Most of the girls I've known wanted to be with a guy who was cocky and arrogant, but not stupid, one who would be good at manipulating the emotions, one who would make girls feel fear and lust, and make his enemies collapse into an emotional hell with but a few words.


Hmm...sounds like a sociopath, to me. :roll:


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05 Aug 2005, 4:25 pm

That's absolutely beautiful, AE. If only everyone could find someone like that...

Please excuse me, I think I have something in my eye.


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05 Aug 2005, 4:31 pm

oooh, don't analyse it, anti-everything - DO IT!! ! SINsister's right - it sounds fantastic. just go with it, and see what happens.

oooh, i do love a happy ending... :cry: