What is my main obstacle?

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Let love find you instead might be a good idea to try.

I'm wondering how old are the girls that you meet?

I have a feeling they are about 20-22? I think that I'm about to get flamed by the women here, but girls that age may not be for you. It seems to me that the more assertive/outgoing girls that age don't want a serious relationship, they just want to toy with you and then throw you away, because they can. The more introverted ones are harder to meet and get to know.

Women in their 30's are different. They know they are not as hot as they used to be. Friends have got married. Their biological clock is ticking. There are fewer and fewer available men their age. The "balance of power" will have swung to your favour.

I think women in early to mid 30's are more likely to match your maturity.

I guy I know (who has a lot of success meeting women) says coffee shops are the best places to meet them. If they are reading by themselves, they are likely to be single. Just ask if you can sit at their table (easier if its busy and not many free seats). But I don't know that I would ever be able to do that.

I've posted this song before. It was a big local hit when I was 19-20 (forgive the 70's fashions). I hope you enjoy it and don't mind the Aussie accents.
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Well said. They also have to match my astronomical sex drive as well (and can't be waiting until marriage, either).

If NTs are my only option, then in summary, she would be socially and politically liberal and have no problem with guys who are unemployed due to school and living with their parents in between semesters.

Good idea. If Texas would disband all law enforcement agencies and ban religion, I would strut around nude through the streets of Houston.

Since there are no Aspies near San Marcos who are single, I have no choice but to do a long-distance relationship.

You would probably be most compatible with one of those shy, religious types of women. Most young people still have the dichotomous idea in their head (even to an extent in college) that there are young people and "old farts," and your precocious maturity places you squarely with the retirement center set in most young women's eyes (of course, these women are probably pretty shallow, so you're not missing out). Also, try to focus on asking open-ended questions about her and just tell her a little about yourself without saying too much.