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Haliphron
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02 Sep 2008, 1:37 pm

I think he's trying to put on a Jerk persona, he's just not being very suave(or subtle) about it.



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03 Sep 2008, 1:12 am

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so im wrong to blame women for me not getting laid ok let me spell this out for u

Well let me provide a similar situation for the everyday. Let's say it's lunch time, and I walk into the local pizza place...

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I wanna get laid

And I want a slice of pizza.

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Girls I want to get laid with dont

The guy at the counter doesn't want to give me a free slice of pizza.

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WHO else am i supposed to blame here?

Yeah, WHO else am I supposed to blame? Maybe I could blame the US government...

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its pretty obvious who is to blame its them u fool THEY WONT GIVE me free sex so yeah im screwed asnd its not my fault my brain wants to have sex with these hotties, but they wont do anythin bout my needs so its there fault

THEY WONT GIVE me a free slice of pizza so yeah I'm screwed and its not my fault my stomach is rumbling so bad that seisomographs can record it, but the guy at the counter won't do anything about my needs so it's his fault.

Or, you know, I could pay him for the slice of pizza. Then everyone is happy. I'm no longer hungry, and the pizza place made some money...

Which translates back into your scenario as: You seriously need to find some hookers...

PS: I can't believe my mind just came up with that analogy....



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03 Sep 2008, 1:21 am

LOL... Nice one, ToadOfSteel. 8)



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03 Sep 2008, 1:40 am

Cyberman wrote:
LOL... Nice one, ToadOfSteel. 8)


Yes indeed... thanks to me, you will now, for the rest of your life, make an involuntary association between pizza places and hookers. You will ask for the parmesan cheese and be reminded of doing a line of crack off her ass. And when you thought all was safe, the FDA comes in and says the tomatoes they used in the sauce are infected with E. Coli...



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03 Sep 2008, 1:57 am

Cyberman wrote:
LOL... Nice one, ToadOfSteel. 8)


actually that analogy is terrible

hes basically saying sex isn't a mutual thing for women and they should not be equal to each other and women should be payed for it, it really sets back women hundreds of years and i dont agree with his analogy

if i want pizza ill pay for pizza cuz its something someone made and bought stuff to make it

if people want sex its just natural an should be done equally between two people nobody should have to pay or do anything to get it, otherwise it sets women as only doing sex for money when many enjoy sex and want to be treaeted equally in a sexual relationship



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03 Sep 2008, 2:07 am

ProtossX wrote:
hes basically saying sex isn't a mutual thing for women and they should not be equal to each other and women should be payed for it, it really sets back women hundreds of years and i dont agree with his analogy

And "its pretty obvious who is to blame its them u fool THEY WONT GIVE me free sex" doesn't set women back hundreds of years?

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if i want pizza ill pay for pizza cuz its something someone made and bought stuff to make it

I used the pizza analogy because eating, like sex, is a base biological drive (only you actually need food to physically survive in the world).

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if people want sex its just natural an should be done equally between two people nobody should have to pay or do anything to get it,

Key word: "people". You keep talking about how "*I* should be getting laid" and "They won't give *ME* free sex", etc.

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otherwise it sets women as only doing sex for money when many enjoy sex and want to be treaeted equally in a sexual relationship

As opposed to being your personal sex slave? That's what I gather you want from your previous post.



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03 Sep 2008, 2:18 am

great pizza analogy ToadofSteel :lol:

though i took the "paying for the slice of pizza" to parallel "being a decent guy towards women so that they might want you."

but... yeah, it works if you think of it more literally, as in hookers, too. :lol:


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03 Sep 2008, 3:24 am

Newsflash: women may enjoy sex, but most women do not enjoy random, indiscriminate sex with men whom then neither know nor are attracted to. If you want sex that you don't have to pay for, you either need to be an athlete with a nice face, a ripped body, and a team of promoters, or you need to make friends with a woman to the degree that she doesn't feel unsafe when you invade her personal space.



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03 Sep 2008, 8:03 am

I'm still convinced that ProtossX is a troll who is deliberately riling us up.



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03 Sep 2008, 8:17 am

Free pizza AND sex?


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03 Sep 2008, 8:58 am

Hector wrote:
I'm still convinced that ProtossX is a troll who is deliberately riling us up.

I'm not as convinced about the troll thing. Usually a troll will ignore the stream of comments about his jerk attitude and continue to be a jerk. He seems to get especially pissed when people yell at him (most trolls just don't care given that situation...)

I met people in high school that were just like this guy, expecting that women would have sex with them on demand, and so forth. So I categorize this guy as one of the "stuck in teenage mode" people...



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03 Sep 2008, 6:00 pm

ToadOfSteel wrote:
I met people in high school that were just like this guy, expecting that women would have sex with them on demand, and so forth. So I categorize this guy as one of the "stuck in teenage mode" people...

I've said it before and I'll say it again. If that guy is looking for sex on demand, then escorts are the only solution.



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03 Sep 2008, 8:25 pm

LKL wrote:
Newsflash: women may enjoy sex, but most women do not enjoy random, indiscriminate sex with men whom then neither know nor are attracted to. If you want sex that you don't have to pay for, you either need to be an athlete with a nice face, a ripped body, and a team of promoters, or you need to make friends with a woman to the degree that she doesn't feel unsafe when you invade her personal space.


Its certainly true that women dont enjoy sex with men they're not attracted to, I mean come on! Thats totally obvious, and equally true for men as well. I honestly think that women are *taught* by society and by their folks that having sex with strangers makes them a "slut" and/or "easy" and men will take advantage of them. The only male strangers women will have sex with are pretty much rockstars and athletes, either ultra-high status or visibly athletic.



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03 Sep 2008, 8:28 pm

i_Am_andaJoy wrote:
great pizza analogy ToadofSteel :lol:

though i took the "paying for the slice of pizza" to parallel "being a decent guy towards women so that they might want you."

but... yeah, it works if you think of it more literally, as in hookers, too. :lol:


Oh Puh-Leeze! :roll:
Dont try to feed us the tired old myth that being a nice guy increases the chances of women actually wanting you. Pretty much most of the guys here have learned that such is Totally untrue and there are those who promulgate it just to make themselves look good...



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04 Sep 2008, 11:34 am

Haliphron wrote:
Oh Puh-Leeze! :roll:
Dont try to feed us the tired old myth that being a nice guy increases the chances of women actually wanting you. Pretty much most of the guys here have learned that such is Totally untrue and there are those who promulgate it just to make themselves look good...


HA.

Yeah, God knows women don't like people who are actually nice to them. If she doesn't run away in terror when you enter the house, you're not in love!



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04 Sep 2008, 11:50 am

If you're trying to be 'nice' just to get sex, that's not 'being nice.' It's being a lying jerk rather than an honest one. Real niceness involves treating women like other human beings, not just opening doors, pulling out chairs, and other superficial BS.