Has anyone never had a GF/BF before?

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Just turned 24, and I've never had a girlfriend. Makes me feel like a complete and utter freak. I mean, it's a perfectly normal and natural thing for humans to hook up and engage in relationships with eachother, at least everyone else around me do. But so far I've obviously failed to attract someone of the opposite sex, and it makes me doubt whether I'm really considered to be human at all in the eyes of others.

Same here. I've got lots of patience, my time will come, eventually.

Ditto.

Count me as one of the guys who never had a gf.

22, I've never done anything romantic with a girl outside of go on a failed date. it really bothers the s**t out of me.

Count me in. No gf, no date. I'm going bald really quick and I feel like I'm missing out on a part of my life.

I'm 22, and I've never had a female companion. I feel deprived. I've always wanted emotional support from a female friend.

I can and will safely say this here: I'm 35.7, and have never had a girlfriend before. I have had lots of crushes on women, and for a few years, absolutely no desire to meet any women (due to terrible false beliefs); I'm not gay either. I guess I'm just weird. I honestly know that I have an extremely low self esteem, and that it is a miracle that I'm still here. Just understand, that you're not alone. There are other men out there that have never experienced love. We all "grow up" at different rates. When it is meant to be, love will occur. I hope the best for you.

I've done NOTHING. No kissing, sex, having a bf/gf (I'm bi), or ANYTHING. I'm the ultimate virgin.

But I AM only 15. I've got a while.

I'm 16 and a virgin, which isn't really unusual, but I've never even kissed or gone on a date. I doubt that's going to change in the near future. I think a relationship would be more stress than happiness for me anyway, but I still feel like a freak.

i think of it as concentrating on making friends first, and inevitably there will be some sexual attraction between some of the friends you meet. you go on first dates to get to know each other. then when u know the person is compatible with you and has not had many partners before and is not promiscuous and does not do drugs or a have a drinking addiction - then you can proceed.

Sadly no, but I really want a gf.

I'm pretty sure I've posted in this thread before but that was a while ago.

I'm still in the same boat, never had a gf, sex, date, kissed a girl etc

I'm 14. I've never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl... on the lips.. but I've been kissed on the cheek by someone not related to me or anything. I've also held hands. But other then that, I'm a loser lol.

No girlfriend or anything.

I don't even want to have sex and i am 17.

Sex looks, sounds and feels like something dull and boring.
I terminate all contact with the opposite sex.

No. I've never been with a girl in any way. I'm in my mids 20s. I don't think there's anyone I can talk to about this. I've tried in the past, but they've been professionals, non-directive etc.
I certainly wouldn't talk about it with friends, though one has been rather nosey and insinuated things.

I probably just need a smack across the head.