DOES ALL MALE WITH ASPERGER'S DESIRE SEX?

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The_Face_of_Boo: Reagan's quip, and my own, is meant to be a joke.

The humor comes from the quip forcing both parties to reluctantly acknowledge a shared condition that they must agree upon. By forcing them to acknowledge even a small point of commonality, it defuses the polarizing tendencies of such debates. It is very hard to demonize people if even a small part of their humanity shows, especially if this feature is something one shares with them.

Another level of humor is that the joke itself can seem to carry a profound meaning, for or against one side or the other, when it does not. One can say it, then sit back and laugh while people desperately try to twist it into supporting their opinion, or denying their opinion, while it actually is neutral.

NOT ALL ASPIES MALES DESIRE SEX BECAUSE SOME ARE ASEXUAL.

YOUR THREAD IS CLEARLY MORE VALID IF THE TITLE IS IN MOTHERF**KING CAPS.

I have a biologically-driven desire to have an orgasm.

But I'm not sure that equates to a desire to actually have sex.

Right after having an orgasm I honestly don't have a desire for much of anything. I suppose if I could just have orgasms on demand that would make life so much easier because I wouldn't even care to think of having sex.

But not being sure about that would make being involved in some kind of relationship difficult. If I did actually end up in a relationship with someone and she didn't want to have sex and I wasn't sure if I did then it would be good as long as we both actually didn't, but if I realized that I did or if she realized that she did and the other of us didn't I think that would be really bad. I wouldn't want there to be pressure on either myself or her to have sex if either of us didn't really want to, but if either of us really did want to it would be difficult for them to not, but then there's the possibility that neither of us really would.

I've a high sex drive, but after being on my own for a while, just lying down next to a woman= priority.
I think this is normal.

I've lost the track of this thread.

If he has testicles that work, he's thinking about sex at some point or another.

What's with some asexuals and their martyr complex?

I don't.

If their experience was anything like mine,
they're likely tired of you trolling/stalking/harassing them.

I don't know how to use this properly, but...

+1

That's what I meant by "martyr complex".

Trolling, stalking, harrassing? What the f*ck?

Having an opinion is not trolling.

Responding to abusive PMs is not stalking.

Making light of disrespectful messages is not harassing.

Get it, woman?

If you have some personal issues that you need to check with some experienced qualified psychologist, then by all means do so. But do not project on me the sh*t that you yourself do and do not make such vain accusations.

Thank you.

Having an opinion is not trolling, except when you say bigoted things about people in a forum likely to include that group.

Stalking qualifies as following someone from thread to thread with endless snark about their sexual orientation,
even in threads unrelated to them personally, and mocking them in others after you're told it makes them uncomfortable.

Harassing is when you reply to private demands to know what your problem is with jibberish, and CONTINUE your behavior in forums from before.

You're the one who's behaving abusively, sir.

Please do not address me or refer to me again.

Bigoted is only in your imagination. In no way have I shown bigotry towards asexuals as a group ... just strong disagreement with their conclusions (which I have the right to). Don't think you can take that away from me.



I do not follow you around from thread to thread just to mock your asexuality. In most cases, you're the one who first jumps to a reply I make to someone else or to people in general (like in this thread here) and you're the one who actually mocks and disrespects first.

Do you see the projection? Oh, who am I kidding, of course you don't. I'm the bad guy because I have a penis and you just have a p****.



Disrespectful private demands, may I add? Instead of PMing me with sh*t like "what the f*ck is wrong with you? A lot of members here have been discussing things about you and hate your idiotic and moronic posts about asexuality" ... how about you either don't send me such sh*t or you send me a respectful message worthy of a respectful lady with good manners and courtesy.

When someone sends me such jibberish, I am bound to respond back with the same level of jibberish. Do not expect me to be nice to you if you're not the same with me.



IF my behavior is considered abusive, then it's only in response to the crap that you spout about me (whether here in public or via PMs). I do not abuse anyone for the sake of amusement or anything of the sort.



Then lay off me. I'm not interested in an asexual romantic relationship with you!

Break it up. Back on topic. :\

Desiring sex is one thing (absolutely for me), knowing what to do to actually get it is another.

I remember hearing that Bill Gates often frequented prostitutes and brothels because girls never liked him in college and university. I have no idea if there's any truth to this, but it sounds plausible.

No. Never had a desire for it. Thought of it? yes, but never had a desire.

I desire crave and want sex all the time