Why are Aspie Men Bitter Towards Women??

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I think the only thing that makes me feel bitter about women is the fact that they are inherently beautiful. Ever since I was 10 years old I would look at any poster of hotties or watch episodes of buffy the vampire slayer only to see sarah michelle gellar's rack. Now when I go to school I see curves every where, its like being in a toy store with out any money damn it just hurts not having the necessary skills to woo the blondie that sits next to you in government class. It just drives me nuts and I hate it. other than that I have no other complaint

There's a woman who's a friend of a friend of mine and she did some crap near my face cuz I didn't have eye contact......next time that b***h does something like that I'll take of my belt and beat her to a pulp

When a woman is shy and awkward, she gets used and dumped by men. IMO.

^ An excellent point. 'Getting men' is not always such a good thing.

At least they get some action, unlike most of the guys with AS.

Sometimes that action includes physical abuse, or rape. Not trying to be a downer, that's just how it is.

sea lo que sea

Damn str8, homes!

This thread is starting make more sense to me, it sounds some of you guys have insecurity issue with women in general and aren't open to a woman's point of view without getting so flippant offended or having you bubble bursted because you think you know all there is to know about what goes on in the mind of a female in the dating game.

I don't think I'd be attracted to a type of guy who is full of himself to the point where he had to have it all his way or no way.

Anyway, los juegos son viejos.

I second that. I get so damn tired of hearing how much better things are supposed to be for Aspie women in the dating scene. Things are pretty much complicated on both sides, even for NTs, IMO. And it doesn't help that today's media portrays women as nothing more than tantalizing eye candy!

The comments I shared are an effort to equalize this lop-sided, unrealistic view most guys on here seem to have about women.

The fact that Aspie women dont have nearly as much difficulty in terms of Attracting partners in the first place really says a lot about what men and women look for in a mate. Social skills seem to be a REALLY big deal for most women and men who lack them are offputting. I sometimes think the thing to do is to become a Rockstar since music has been proven to be HIGHLY effective when it comes to attracting women.

And furthermore, as I have said many times before, many aspie women seem to be quite bitter towards Men as well!
There is just something about having Asperger Syndrome that makes it quite difficult for MANY but not all afflicted individuals to get along with and relate to the opposite sex. My issues with women go beyond my lack of romantic success with them so far, even when I was a child I got a lot of negativity from women for what reason I may never no why.......

^ Funny, I get along with women much easier than I do men. Even as just friends, I'd much prefer a woman's company.

I've noticed women that lack social skills and they have a hard time finding a mate too. I've even heard some guys make fun of girls that they considered awkward. Based on that, I really can't say that aspie women have it that much easier than aspie guys, which it is almost impossible for us guys.

But what us aspie guys need to realize (and I know this is much easier said than done) is that the more friends you have, the more likely you will find a mate. Like I said, it is easier said than done so think about that before y'all start the flaming.

Any debating you wish to do with me will have to wait anyway, I must hit the sack soon.

If a woman is physically attractive, men will try to get with her. Period. If she is an aspie then her condition very well may make romantic relationships difficult and excessively complicated, perhaps hard to maintain, but it wont hinder men fancying her.
I HAVE been told by women that I am a good lookin' fellow, but it really hasnt done me much good in terms of attracting women. I see ugly guys with good social skills having MUCH better like than I do. Lets face it: Social skills ARE of much greater importance to women than they are to men! I'd say most NT women are instinctively turned off by guys who are socially inept.

Hal - how in the world do you figure that it is easier for women on the spectrum than men? I see a lot of projection onto the opposite gender, and not a lot of substance.


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Because I see A LOT more posts from women here about current or past relationships and a lot more posts by men complaining about how they cant seem to find a partner.Im not saying that relationships are any easier for women on the spectrum, but I am saying that attracting someone certainly does seem to be easier-especially for those women on the spectrum who happen to be pretty.

That's a limited sample size, inherently biased, and limited in scope. There are more males here than females, and there is a noticeable difference in ages between the two genders here. Now you're refining further - "women who are on the spectrum who are pretty" - which, in the end, just comes down to this: Those who attract, do. Displacing your frustration onto others doesn't help anyone.


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