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04 Dec 2018, 10:12 pm

Japan has a bigger crisis where many young guys in their 20s and 30s are hooked on gaming, comic books, lack social skills, they are dweebs. Western society is years behind Japan, Japan could become our future and more guys embrace the dweeb culture. The sex robots are what guys are looking forward to and there will be less issues and drama and pressures from society.

If you are lucky to get dates and go into relationships there is the added pressure of being accepted by the family and friends of the person you are dating. If her family and friends hate you then the relationship has no hope of lasting. Dweeb culture and opting out on dating and just immerse yourself in gaming, anime and comic books and stay in a safe place that ensures your feeling never get hurt.



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04 Dec 2018, 10:46 pm

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... Every time you call yourself an Incel. Every Time a man says it's hopeless or they're not attractive enough or not rich enough, they're basically saying they're not good enough for something as common as being loved and having a family.
There! That's the core of it: Men cutting themselves down and deciding on their own that they cannot meet the minimum standards of others for lovability, before they even try to find love!

It's like looking for a job. People will say, "They'll never hire me" without ever having applied for a position. I tell them, "Go ahead and apply! Let the employer decide whether or not you are good enough."

But, NOOOOO ... those men have already set their minds on failure, and no amount of reasoning with them will get them to change their minds.

We should all stop wasting our effort to convince those men to keep trying, because they have completely given up. There is no use agreeing with their negative self-assessments, either -- THAT will only get you in trouble with the moderators.


You simply assume that I have not tried. I tried and tried for many years, and never got anything but rejection.



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04 Dec 2018, 10:58 pm

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When I was your age, I had a crush on a few women in their 50s. They can be very elegant. And they love to make love.

I almost think a woman in her 50s is at her "peak" sexually, even though others here will dispute that.

I don’t find women in their 50s attractive and having to wait another 20 years to maybe date one who has a bunch of teenage or adult kids isn’t something to look forward too.

I’d like someone 35 and under. Someone with a playful personality and a Enjoys sillyness
It’s too late for that I’d have to found someone in my 20s. All I can do now is count the days until I die.



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04 Dec 2018, 11:00 pm

You can probably meet more people & live longer if you're not counting.


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05 Dec 2018, 12:53 am

Watching the movie Braveheart and William Wallace's final words: "They may take our lives but they will never take our freedom!" he defiantly screams "Freedom" just before he is executed. More people need to embrace freedom, be who they want to be and not let anyone stand in their way.



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05 Dec 2018, 2:18 am

FREEEEEEEDOOOOOOOMMMM



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05 Dec 2018, 2:54 am

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Women bore the word "spinster" for generations without killing people. I wish men could.
(Not you, Marknis, nor anyone on here -- just a general beef of mine). :cry:


One of my co-workers actually told me she was surprised I hadn't shot up a school due to being bullied. Not only is that a horrible thing to say, it shows how she has little to no understanding of psychology.



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05 Dec 2018, 4:31 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
When I was your age, I had a crush on a few women in their 50s. They can be very elegant. And they love to make love.

I almost think a woman in her 50s is at her "peak" sexually, even though others here will dispute that.

And women without teeth can have certain talents in bed.


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05 Dec 2018, 4:36 am

Marknis wrote:
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Women bore the word "spinster" for generations without killing people. I wish men could.
(Not you, Marknis, nor anyone on here -- just a general beef of mine). :cry:


One of my co-workers actually told me she was surprised I hadn't shot up a school due to being bullied. Not only is that a horrible thing to say, it shows how she has little to no understanding of psychology.


Did she say it in a sympathetic manner or a mocking one?



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05 Dec 2018, 4:50 am

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kraftiekortie wrote:
When I was your age, I had a crush on a few women in their 50s. They can be very elegant. And they love to make love.

I almost think a woman in her 50s is at her "peak" sexually, even though others here will dispute that.

I don’t find women in their 50s attractive and having to wait another 20 years to maybe date one who has a bunch of teenage or adult kids isn’t something to look forward too.

Well, maybe women under 35 don't find you attractive. So I guess you can either work on yourself, expand your standards or accept defeat. I'd advocate for the former but you seem to have decided on the latter.



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05 Dec 2018, 4:54 am

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I’d like someone 35 and under. Someone with a playful personality and a Enjoys sillyness
If you think women over 35 can't be playful and silly, you're wrong.

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All I can do now is count the days until I die.
Surely there's something more productive you can do with your time.


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05 Dec 2018, 5:30 am

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Women bore the word "spinster" for generations without killing people. I wish men could.

That'd be like me saying men fought wars for years in the past so in the next world war I'd like to see only women conscripted instead. Just unnecessarily spiteful against people on the basis of gender, when most modern men haven't even referred to women that way. The ethical ills of the past should not be turned on their heads so they affect the opposite people in the present.

And as an aside, men are more inclined to kill people than women because of testosterone. Testosterone makes men more aggressive, competitive and hungry for dominance, while estrogen makes women more in touch with their empathetic side, both of which contribute to the fact that men are more inclined to kill people when they're done with life and feel they have nothing to lose.



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05 Dec 2018, 6:27 am

Trust me. Most women in their 50s have lovely, pearly teeth.

I’m 57 years old, and I’m certainly not old and decrepit.



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05 Dec 2018, 7:25 am

They're lucky. My teeth are crooked and yellow. And I only have two thirds of them left.

Just once I'd like to sleep with a woman who doesn't have teeth.


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05 Dec 2018, 8:41 am

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شامي سال صيني شو اسمك
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الشامي قال ما شان شي



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05 Dec 2018, 12:51 pm

Sabreclaw wrote:
Marknis wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Women bore the word "spinster" for generations without killing people. I wish men could.
(Not you, Marknis, nor anyone on here -- just a general beef of mine). :cry:


One of my co-workers actually told me she was surprised I hadn't shot up a school due to being bullied. Not only is that a horrible thing to say, it shows how she has little to no understanding of psychology.


Did she say it in a sympathetic manner or a mocking one?


It was more like surprised than either sympathetic or mocking. She's nice but she's also a bird brain.