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kyle123
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07 Jul 2009, 6:59 pm

this is quite persnal but i feel led to share it

1 year ago i met a girl named heidi...she and me started flirting...it was ifaution not love...one day we made plans to meet... so after work i jumped into my 3000gt and drove 3 hours to see her...first night everything went smooth and so did the second but the third as i was leaving i was on way to dropping her off at her house... she started rubbing my legs i knew she wanted one thing...we pulled over...(dumb choice) and 30 mins into it cops came from the front and the back and threw us out of the car and put us in the back of the cop car...omg i was so embarassed and screwed! i lived 3 hours away... then afteri got bailed out the next day by my dad.. as i driving home she sent me a texting...i can tell she was crying begging me not to give up... i gave in and gave her another chance.. then 3 months later on my birthday she broke up with me...i was so heartbroken i took a overdose of pills and ended in the hospital... soon i got out first thing she said to me was go to hell!! what a heartless B*tc$..

anyone else have any crazy exs??


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07 Jul 2009, 7:22 pm

Nope, one of the advantages of never having a girlfriend.

I however have had some awkward situations with girls I have hooked up with which, while no were near as bad as it would of been with a long term relationship, is still something I rather avoid.

Sometimes there is just nothing you can do about it though, and you just need to forget about it and move on.



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07 Jul 2009, 7:24 pm

trust me she is a good as gone as memeorys are concerned



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07 Jul 2009, 7:33 pm

I have had a couple of crazy ex's.... sometimes they are very hard to get over.... one is still trying to "fix" me...



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07 Jul 2009, 7:55 pm

yes but I cannot discuss this sadly


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07 Jul 2009, 7:57 pm

Pikachu wrote:
yes but I cannot discuss this sadly


its ok,thanks for posting



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07 Jul 2009, 8:15 pm

Sadly my first boyfriend...to make it a short story...he was manic-depressive Rice Chaser who was too crazy-desperate to lose his virginity as a teen. I spent a year trying to dump him but he would guilt trip me into staying. One time he told me that he was intentionally cutting his flesh with a toe nail clipper. Whenever I got the slightest bit upset with him about something, he would act as though he was about to jump off a cliff. I couldn't take it anymore...mostly because everyone was dissapproving of our relationship ever since we got caught in a innappropriate situation by his over-religious mother. He was so upset over the possibility that he might not ever see me again that he told me he was about to get his father's gun and kill himself (this was during our first date, btw). Of course, he never even did...but way to scare me.

This was long before I knew about weird guys with asian fetishes. Ironic that he tells me that his previous girlfriend (who was also asian) try to press charges on him for stalking...then I find out (after I broke up with him end of high school) that he was stalking me at my freakin college campus. I didn't know at first. Someone was putting Subway coupons (cut up from the newspaper and stuffed in an envelope) in my campus mailbox (effin creepy...apparently he was watching me eat at the Subway in my campus village). I thought it was some other weirdo. Finally I realized it was him in a letter he sent me with dead flowers in it and all saying it was his last letter. It didn't say it was from him but by the time I figured it out it would be pointless to press charges on him stalking me, seeing that it was his last letter.

Since then I refuse to trust any nerdy, geeky guy with an asian fetish. Mainly if they're wimpy, depressive, and suicidal...I cant trust them.



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07 Jul 2009, 8:18 pm

please dont judge all depressed people with the same label...not all of us are like your crazy ex



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07 Jul 2009, 8:48 pm

y'know, i almost misread that as "anybody have any crazy sex?" ><



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07 Jul 2009, 9:29 pm

kyle123 wrote:
this is quite persnal but i feel led to share it

1 year ago i met a girl named heidi...she and me started flirting...it was ifaution not love...one day we made plans to meet... so after work i jumped into my 3000gt and drove 3 hours to see her...first night everything went smooth and so did the second but the third as i was leaving i was on way to dropping her off at her house... she started rubbing my legs i knew she wanted one thing...we pulled over...(dumb choice) and 30 mins into it cops came from the front and the back and threw us out of the car and put us in the back of the cop car...omg i was so embarassed and screwed! i lived 3 hours away... then afteri got bailed out the next day by my dad.. as i driving home she sent me a texting...i can tell she was crying begging me not to give up... i gave in and gave her another chance.. then 3 months later on my birthday she broke up with me...i was so heartbroken i took a overdose of pills and ended in the hospital... soon i got out first thing she said to me was go to hell!! what a heartless B*tc$..

anyone else have any crazy exs??


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07 Jul 2009, 9:51 pm

I had an ex who was obsessed with sex and he was lazy, didn't want to work, and had excuses for everything to avoid doing things. he also had weird thoughts and views like everything should be free and he believed our gov. worked like a Chinese government such as he hires someone to go out and assassinate you if he doesn't want you alive because you know something they don't want you to know. He also believed you get arrested for protesting. he was technically right, you can but that is if you are breaking the law like riot, disturbing the peace, vandalism. If you do any of that during protesting, that throws you in jail.


My second ex was very ignorant and wouldn't listen and thought all adult babies were ret*d and sickos. That's how he acted and he acted like I was ret*d too.



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07 Jul 2009, 10:38 pm

Yes I've had a couple. Thankfully they haven't tainted my hopes that one day I'll have one that is more stable in my life.



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07 Jul 2009, 10:54 pm

I feel lucky, the craziest ex I have is my childhood best friend who's some kind of depressed. Other than that though, they all seem so... normal, compared to some of the ones on here.

My best friend though, she's good for pulling crazies out of the woodwork... she was dating this guy, who's manic depressive. He refused to take his pills and had the mentality of a 16 year old at 25. Quite an interesting fellow. It was tough enough helping her through that without having any crazy ones, so I count myself lucky that I'm now married.

Don't worry posters, not everyone out there is crazy. I was able to find someone sane, and I'm sure you can too. It just takes forever, no?


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08 Jul 2009, 6:26 pm

you have no clue how much of a B&itch she is..but your so right i made some dumb choices



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08 Jul 2009, 7:53 pm

No exes here, crazy or otherwise.



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08 Jul 2009, 8:00 pm

Bataar wrote:
No exes here, crazy or otherwise.



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