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In the GroovyDruid thread about succesful flirting, it was said that parties are the best place to meet girls and nightclubs the worst.
Two questions:

1. Why?
2. How do I get invited to a party?

I have been at some birthday parties in my life, but the last time that there were any girls at such a party was when I was 10. So how do I get to the situation described in GroovyDruid's post, or comparable?

I thought whether it would be a club, a party or a bar would make no difference, but apparantly it does.

Let me clear this up for you.

At a party, there is more room to move around - you aren't as crammed, and you can actually SEE who you're talking to.

Clubs are only half decent for one night stands - pick up someone by flirting, shag and leave it at that.

At a party you can actually hear yourself think most of the time.

I agree with hale_bop about the party situation, but every club is different and every person is different. Some clubs I wouldn't be seen dead in due to the types that go there but some are fine, it's just trial and error for finding which ones you do/don't like. I met a guy a while ago in a club, he was a perfect gentleman and we sat in the chillout room for most of the night talking. we met again every week in the same club and talked. I was with him for five months and the only reason it ended was because of my need of space, in actuall fact he would have made a NT very happy I think.
But yeh, some people aren't exactly boyfriend/girlfriend material, after you have been going for a while you'll get an idea of who you want to avoid.