Does anyone love me?

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I sometimes daydream of affection with a cute girl. Does anyone think I'm worthy of it?

that is a question that can only truthfully be answered by your own inner worth. trying to be OK in the eyes of other people is a thankless task. being true to your own inner principles will sustain you for a lifetime, other people's attitudes will change and fade.

Why does she have to be "cute," and what does that mean?
If a girl does not meet that standard, does that make her unworthy?
Does the same standard apply to you?

I'm not trying to give you a hard time.
I'm just trying to bring to light something that might be a catch-22 in
your own mind, and could be the reason you doubt your own worth.

I have no idea whether you're "cute" or not.
At your age, you probably are.

QFT means "quoted for truth" right? or quite f***ing true? sorry.
well i agree anyway.
"Amen to that" as they say in movies.

your worthy. you are. No one is out of your league per se. Just remember that. When I say that, what I mean is if you see a girl, think she's hot, cute, etc, and she thinks she's too good for you tell those types of girls hell people..to lick your boots. Well, maybe not say that but you should definately have that attitude in you. It also helps the situation when you know your worthy. No one is unworthy alright. That's only what snobby people say. Plus, When a girl rejects you and you did absolutely nothing wrong or if it was for a dumb reason think of it as a blessing and that you didn't get involved with her but some other poor guy did. Plus, there's nothing wrong with being single if that's the route you want. Don't force or rush anything especially things like relationships. Some people just aren't built for them. I'm one of these people Personally, sometimes I really want female companionship but at the end of the day, 99.6 percent of the time if not more, I realize I'm staying true to myself for not getting into a relationship, getting hurt, etc for all the wrong reasons. I repeat for all the wrong reasons. That's just my 2 pennies on the matter. You'll be alright. Just try to stay positive.

1: I don't have a CLUE who you are, so I cannot say anything but generalizations.

2: Pondering KILLS love. It does. Stupidity may sometimes accidentally run over Love, but Pondering ALWAYS murders Love with the Knife of Fear.

3:Say eek. Then continue to 4.

4: In love: Try. Lunge into it. Every time you try and fail at something, your mind sharpens. However don't try, and you will NEVER understand. Pain makes you grow.

In closing, she'll decide if you're worth HER specific love. If not, your chances with her and anyone up significantly.

The world to win, nothing to lose! Go! Go! Go! *Deploys rant-a-chute*

Yes you are. Everyone deserves affection.

That doesn't mean you can force it though.


I think everyone on these boards is verry aware of the frustration involved with loneliness at times just keep on going.
Don't let yourself be paralysed by these feelings, its hard I know but it is key to achieving anything, be more proactive, and lastly if your approach to the situation doesn't seem to be working find out whats wrong and force yourself to change patterns.

This one sentence has helped me enormously:

"What you think of me is none of my business. "

If you have the love for her, you're worthy of it. My dream girl is someone who could've had anyone but picked me (and never brought it to my attention), she's the kind of girl I'd pick over anyone else and show her rather than tell her. It's not as easy as I make it sound, but those are the basic guidelines for me. If you feel unlovable, you might just have to give a little. I used to do volunteer work, not only do you meet love interests there but sometimes you just feel lovable when you do something nice. Or you might want to do something funny, entertaining or sexy, there's all kinds of ways to find love, but you have to love yourself enough first before you can pass it on to someone else.

I'm pretty sure that "cute" means he personally finds her physically and sexually attractive. "Cute" is different for each person.

Whether people you don't know think you're worthy is irrelevant. It seems to me like YOU don't think you're worthy, or else you would not be online asking others about their opinion on the subject. If affection from a cute girl is what you want, learn to love yourself and recognize your inherent worth as a person. It's easier said than done, and may take years of overcoming limiting beliefs and cognitive traps, but girls who have options generally don't go for guys who think of themselves as worthless...unless they have some weird matriarchal complex going on that makes them want to "take care" of a guy. In short, of course you're worth something. However, nobody else will realize that until YOU do!

Yes now shutup and kiss me big boy!

is she imaginary or real?!

i like this one a lot

Betty Boop = :heart::heart:

Haha... I was tempted but then I remembered that I was married.