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pippilngstkngpr
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08 Jul 2009, 4:37 pm

hi i am catherine. i am new. i wrote in the new people introduction like forum. hope to have some questions answered and such. i've had like 7 relationships in my life. i dont do dating and im not into friends with benefits and such. ive never had sex and i noticed lots of guys force such things on me. i want to find a guy that does force sex or wanting it write away, kindhearted, caring, sweetheart, silly knows when to be serious, big kid at heart, doesnt speak huge words with me, likes at least one thing i do but has his own interests, and romantic. im on a bunch dating sites, free of course. i stopped the dating sites for like a year, now slowly going into them kinda. i dont remember my point on here.

how does everyone feel in a relationships? what have been your ups and downs? say whatever you want on this topic. what do you not like or like? what is your dream guy or girl?

- catherine



ToadOfSteel
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08 Jul 2009, 10:13 pm

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ive never had sex and i noticed lots of guys force such things on me.

That seems to be a male-driven thing, to "score" as fast as possible... I never really understood that myself... it just seems too, well, shallow...

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i want to find a guy that does force sex or wanting it write away, kindhearted, caring, sweetheart, silly knows when to be serious, big kid at heart, doesnt speak huge words with me, likes at least one thing i do but has his own interests, and romantic.

Wait, you're saying you want a guy who does force sex right away or doesn't? That seemed a little weird given your last sentence...

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im on a bunch dating sites, free of course. i stopped the dating sites for like a year, now slowly going into them kinda. i dont remember my point on here.

Dating sites are kind of dumb and pointless if you ask me...

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how does everyone feel in a relationships? what have been your ups and downs? say whatever you want on this topic. what do you not like or like? what is your dream guy or girl?

I'll get back to you when I've actually had a relationship to speak of...

PS: what part of jersey are you from?



Apep
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09 Jul 2009, 11:16 pm

ToadOfSteel wrote:
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ive never had sex and i noticed lots of guys force such things on me.

That seems to be a male-driven thing, to "score" as fast as possible... I never really understood that myself... it just seems too, well, shallow...


I've never understood trying to coerce someone into sex, but having sex very early on in a relationship is perfectly normal and many people have that expectation, both men and women. Thus, there is the third date rule.