Another 'nobody loves you' dream

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After having had at least four 'loser' dreams, I finally had a 'nobody loves you' dream after I was hired by the state. That was a year and a half ago.

Just recently, after having looked at the Dating Advice thread again in which I was teamed up on by successful couples, I had another 'nobody loves you' dream. This time, a crowd of South Park kids ran up to me smiling on a meadow (I'm not kidding about this) and the scene quickly shifted to a store where I began asking them about the products. One of them was a cereal box that said,

'NOBODY LOVES YOU'

How many more dreams of rejection am I going to have? How much longer am I going to have these auditory hallucinations? I don't understand how I could be hated so much. This is scaring me.

I don't remember having dreams like you, but rather my dreams tend to be about what I really long for. Dreams about holding hands, or where some attractive girl flirts with me, wants me to kiss her. They all share that common thread of wanting. The people in my dreams actually WANT me, which is about as far from real life. The dreams are nice, but then I'm bummed when I wake up, so I'm not sure what good they do. Wish I couldn't dream at all.

^ I have those dreams occasionally (if I am lucky).

The dreams that I keep having that don't seem to end are those of high school. Most frequently are the dreams of being in the school concert band. They are not flashbacks, but they always end in the same feeling of rejection. I was never 'good enough.' These dreams seem to be creative original stories my subconscious (or whatever) loves to treat me with. It is a tiring routine.

The mind is a creative mystery.

^^ Greetings everyone. Oh dear I am very sorry concerning your dream MikeH. ^^ I must say that I have often previously been blessed by dreams very similar to those described by Brianruns10. ^^ However, many of the happy dreams that I have been blessed with that I may remember are very fun indeed. For instance, during this morning I believe I dreamt that I was immortal and there was a lady who was also immortal in some way (I believe my memory of this is onw fading, however I believe this was similar to film named Hancock).

I can relate...I get tormented by my dreams as well
just as well I have trouble sleeping

I don't get tormented by dreams... my conscious mind is more than capable enough of handling the administration of torture upon myself...

I am very sorry that you are troubled by your dreams. Perhaps it is psychological problems that are deep rooted within you that you need to address somehow.

My dreams are often lucid, so I take control of them if I feel threatened in them.

I frequently have dreams that I'm out with a group, or just husband and they deliberatly lose me, I clearly feel I am not liked or wanted. I wake up feeling sad.

Another recurring dream is huge waves that I cant escape from. I wake up before the water reaches me, so I never know what happened!!

Cant recall any happy dreams.

Vee