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30 Jul 2009, 2:23 pm

My boyfriend just-you is a wonderful guy!

Today, as i was rolling around on the floor screaming as loud as i could hitting things, he was there for me. I was having a meltdown. He never judged me and he took care of me till it passed.

Most guys wouldn't do that.

He does not have AS and is able to do more then me.But he never judges me for my problems. Instead he tells me every day that its ok to be myself.
He has been there for me every step of the way and my improvement is due to his help .

his love is what is helping me. the fact i can call him day or night 24 hours a day is proof of his devotion.

So this is a shout out to just-you!
I love you sweetie! thanks for being my boyfriend!! !!



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30 Jul 2009, 3:01 pm

He's definitely a wonderful guy


No other guy would remain with a 122 years old girl.

Does he help you to eat the soup?



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30 Jul 2009, 6:22 pm

I'm the NT in my marriage and just again tonight, my aspie husband genuinely thanked me, as he often does, for all I do for him around his AS. His praise and gratitude is encouraging and really helps me stay strong and there for him. It really is a good thing. What a great girlfriend you are for this wonderful boyfriend of yours!

Happy to hear about a rough moment turning into a good memory! :flower:


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30 Jul 2009, 6:29 pm

Thank you for your post, reminding me of how my wife-to-be and I care for each other... whether it be one of my meltdowns and confusion, or her being overwhelmed - it is that we are there for those moments and support each other that matter so very much. Thank you for reminding me of how much I appreciate her, the patience and love that she shows me on a daily basis.


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30 Jul 2009, 7:29 pm

I'm glad you posted this, just as I'm glad you have such an understanding boyfriend. I'm sure many people here will appreciate knowing that such understanding can and does happen in AS/NT relationships.



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30 Jul 2009, 10:41 pm

LePetitPrince wrote:
He's definitely a wonderful guy


No other guy would remain with a 122 years old girl.

Does he help you to eat the soup?


HAHAHA that made me laugh! I surprised not many people have noticed that.

LOL if i was that age I'm sure he would make me soup though. He really is a wonderful guy.



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30 Jul 2009, 10:57 pm

Aoi wrote:
I'm glad you posted this, just as I'm glad you have such an understanding boyfriend. I'm sure many people here will appreciate knowing that such understanding can and does happen in AS/NT relationships.


I feel very blessed to have him in my life.

when we met he helped me with so many things. I used to cry all day long every day because i was so sad. He would sit with me on skype and try and make me smile.
I hardly ever did but he never gave up on me.

Over time he helped me feel better and now i don't cry nearly as much and most times i don't feel sad at all i actually feel happy. that was an emotion i never felt before i met him.

I'm so glad he is in my life.

We been together 3 years and eventually want to get married once one of us has enough money to immigrate into which ever country we choose to live. He is in England and I'm in the USA and we don't know which country we want to live in yet.

But i cant wait till thats possible.



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31 Jul 2009, 8:53 am

just-you & just-me

HOW CUTE!! ! :oops:


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04 Aug 2009, 8:02 pm

visnofskygirl wrote:
just-you & just-me

HOW CUTE!! ! :oops:

thank you.