I'm So Close Science wise but Not Close Enough
Many will disagree with me. People often called me pickey or absessing with love too much. This may do very little with Asperger's but I am Aspie, This website is like a home to me and my fellow Aspies and maybe I can get advice.
I know what my love type is, it's in the matter of finding this person through science.
The personality type is: ENTP (MBTI)
I am Trigendered of the Non-Binary Transgender Community
And I am Attracted to Masculine Women (in Binary terms "Women who look, act, and talk like men")
I'm trying everything to see if I can meet the love of my dreams based on these sciences. I've been trying to forum social groups on ENP personality types and Non-Binary Groups, not just for love but friends to relate to.
I feel that Science can break group in solving social problems such as loneliness.
At times I feel like giving up hope but I can't because I know what I'm looking for. If these scientific terms can't discribe my type, perhaps a human "Tank Girl" or "FLCL's Haruko" (shown on my profile picture).
I feel that I'm SO CLOSE! SO VERY CLOSE! All I need is a strong connection from creating social groups and hope for the best.
If it can't happen this summer, all I know is this. I feel that I will be searching for this type my whole life. I just need to think of different stradagies.
Sure some people might think that I'm crazy searching for love, but I feel that it might be possible.
Maybe it's an Aspie thing, I don't know but I can't get along with people who are completely different from me, my personality would have to relate to them somehow. This is in General. Through Psychological Science, I found who my people are.........but How to meet them or find them is the real question.
Basicly I'm Lonely but I'm not Despirate.
I dont think anyone would call you crazy for seeking out love, there is a multi billion dollar a year industry dedicated to helping people do that =P. Though I kinda subscribe to the theory that good things come to those too busy to be looking for them. Lately that seems to be a recurring theme, just keeping life busy with work and other stuff and the good parts of life i would normally try and seek out are kinda just presenting themselves to me.
Anyways, "Trigendered of the non-binary transgender community" is one heck of a mouthful. Care to share more about that?
Guess all i can say is you're 21, still young, still a ways to go in life, it's tough and easier said than done, but try and be patient. You've got the internet and there is a group or message board of some kind for absolutely everything. Just keep looking =P. Keep going out and doing what ever it is that the tigendered non-binary transgender community does and you'll eventually find someone.
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Anyways, "Trigendered of the non-binary transgender community" is one heck of a mouthful. Care to share more about that?
Guess all i can say is you're 21, still young, still a ways to go in life, it's tough and easier said than done, but try and be patient. You've got the internet and there is a group or message board of some kind for absolutely everything. Just keep looking =P. Keep going out and doing what ever it is that the tigendered non-binary transgender community does and you'll eventually find someone.
Thank you for your advice.
So yeah Trigender means that I feel that I'm Androgynous, Masculine and Feminine depending on the mood. If I watch a funny movie or do something silly for a laugh, I'm on my Masculine side. If I see a Masculine Women (Butch Tomboy like), I'm on my Feminine side. Most of the time, I'm Androgynous.
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Wouldn't that make you more of a flip-flopper?
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