Still Searching and Waiting

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I am Andrew S. Bearse the Reasoner. I am still awaiting the day that I will finally meet the girl for me. Now, I think my greatest problem is the convenience of me meeting other people, being as I don't get to go out into the world very often. I'm fairly good looking; I'm far from overweight; I've not an ounce of fat on me save for the body fat with which I need to survive on; some pretty good sized muscles + six pack; I've long dark hair; am fairly tall (5'8" so far) have big, bright, open blue eyes, and have some fairly long canine teeth like a vampire. According to the people at the Town Hall, they vote that I'm a Johnny Depp look-alike. I'm a gymnast as well, but you can read my profile to see all my principal interests. I live in Ascutney, Vermont.

Dude you are in HS! You will NEVER again in your life have a better chance of meeting a girl ever again. If you have issues finding a date now, it will only get worse when you get out of school. Trust me. I've been in your shoes.

Well, I don't go to school, I homeschool. I live a pretty busy life, so right now, I'm thinking I'm going to have better chances of meeting a girl when I'm out in the world than where I am right now. I don't get a lot of chances to meet new people; I'm usually busy with schoolwork and/or gymnastics. Neither way do I have many, if at all, any chances to meet anyone new. I'm patient an' all, and I've been told by my doc that it's going to happen. I'll probably have the best chances of it when I go to UVM, now that I think of it. I've no problem with solitude, but I would like to fall in love again. I've never really had a girlfriend before, at least not really long enough to call it a real relationship, but I have been in love before. I'm way out of it now. So right now, I'm still waiting for my chance.

You might think about joining some clubs. If you are interested in gymnastics are you a member of a gym? You could train and meet people at the same time. Don't cheerleaders need help with their routines? Sounds like a gymnastics application to me.

Ascutney, VT is a pretty cool place. Since you are there you might as well use it for all its worth.

I would join a club, but I live in dual places-- part time in Ascutney,VT, and part time in Leominster, MA, where just next door in Sterling, MA is the Sterling Academy of Gymnastics. This is where I work out at, and where I learn all of my skills. I've just got back on to the winter schedule, so I go down on Sundays to my partner Rickey's house and stay till Wednesday night. After that practice, I head home. It's the only way I have access to my gymnastics and get to practice all six of my events. The difference with this place is that it's not a club. It's actual gymnastics teams. The team up at UVM is a club, but it's for college students only, and I'm not old enough to go to college. On the days that I'm not there, I will usually go to Pioneer Gymnastics in Newport, NH, where I can at least work on part of my events. But right now the gym's closed until next week, so I can't go there. I have a few days left before I have to get started on my schoolwork, so those days I will be free. I don't do gymnastics on the weekends, so those are the only days that I am really free, unless we have something planned those days, or we have to do some housework. So my opportunities to meet new people and have any real chances of making a real relationship with anyone are few and far in between. But, I do believe that there maybe hope later on-- there is another place in Westminster, VT that has gymnastics, and I would believe by now, that it has all the equipment that I need so that I can hit all six events, and being as this is a place that I don't get to go to very often, due to our schedule, and because I can't drive yet, it is very inconvenient. So right now, I'm stuck with what I got right now!

You like to discuss dreams:

These people do too:

http://spirituality.meetup.com/340/calendar/

Leominster has some sassy singles:

http://www.meetup.com/The-Sassy-Social-Meetup-Group/

Leominster also has a hiking club, lots of fit women there:

http://www.meetup.com/Northern-central- ... ing-Group/

If you want to meet women that badly you'll make it happen. You're 17, your parents can't control your movements and your time forever. Gymnastics are great, but what happen if you take a wrong turn and break something? You'll be devastated if you don't have another outlet and know other people outside your current world. Ascutney and Leominster probably have public transportation, I suggest you learn how to use it.

Remember, Michael Phelps is the world's best swimmer but he also knows how to smoke a bong.

Welcome to the club.